- 5085, Northgate, South Australia
- Male (26), Female (25)
Hello To All,
I am the Male, writing this and I have been previously (years ago involved in erotic activities).
Though it's been years and mostly drunken nights and with people I knew most of the time I have met a wonderful girl who I want to spend the rest of my life with, we have been together for almost 6 years now.
Over the years I have joked and instigated sexual activities as she never was exposed at a young age to the real world of 'adult erotica'. Since this started I never got far with her exploring outside of the bedroom or home.
So one night we were deep into a D&M and we got talking about 'opening the door' she was heaps nervous and 'disgusted' in some activities that I mentioned and that she said she'd never be involved in.
Well... I think and mind you I still am only thinking...., I have changed the way she was thinking about that topic just a tinny smidgen, not much just a little bit.
I have asked her if she'd par take in a sexual activity either with another man or women with me watching.
A. No!, .... and why???
My Reply. Would you watch or be watched by another couple in our situation.
A. .... Where/when and how would you know where to find these people?
My Reply. I know where to find them. trust me on this one let me 'snoop' around a little and I'll let you know.
So people (for those of you who have thankfully read this far.) I am and my partner... be patient, is seeking a couple preferably with a female that will be interested in teaching my partner how to pleasure herself and connect with her inner sexual side without any male disturbance. I still want to be in the room and watch but I will not be partaking in the exercise.
Over the years I have successful given her great sexual re leaf, but when I go away sometimes I come home and ask so did you 'play with yourself'??? and she reply's: No!, you know I can't and don't know how too.
I have tried to show her and make her feel comfortable but all the time I get close to it she says "stick it in me and fuck me" and I usually give in or she gets pissed off with me either way.
We have our own house and if the couple we meet connect with us and visa versa then after some time we would be more than happy to have a regular 'fun night'.
I am wanting to help both of us out the new couple if your beginners too by booking a hotel room in the city for a Friday / Saturday night and going down stairs and meeting with the other couple at the bar and having a few drinks and then move to the room if the mood is right.
I myself is extremely interested (I have never done this before) in live caming over if it suits the other couple and my partner... I think the feeling will be about 30% the way to the real thing and may just make her get that 'naughty omg someones watching' feeling in her body.
My partner has 3 issues in her mind that I am trying to get her to overcome from this.
1: She is not a model and size 6. so this bothers her.
2: She is worried about the little silly couples word 'cheating'
3: She is always worried about security and being safe & getting hurt etc.
We know Adelaide is small and that it's bit like I you know you do you know him... OH YES I DO OMG!!!!.
We feel that we won't bump into others that often as we have an extremely busy lifestyle & are never in the same place too often during the day.
For those of you coming over from interstate if you are reading this far already we do travel interstate a little bit (especially Melbourne) and we always stay in the city so nice and central.
I think if we head back to Melbourne anytime soon I'd like to hit up a nice couple over there to try something totally spontaneous.
Single Guys Only: I am interested but the misses is a bit funny about it at the moment so single guys just hold off, if you have a nice package I'll message you.
Single Ladies Only: Totally keen.... lol I always will be, but once again not sure about the misses. if your interested in helping shoot me a message and some details and I'll try and convince her.
Well that it's from the feedback I am getting from this site, the couples seen pretty good on getting feed back. so I'll just sit back and wait now.. cheers.