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Just had first time wasting experience identified and dealt with quickly tho

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In the chat room. Guy of the couple online. He sent a chat whisper, asked for private albums. I sent them (clothed pics), he went silent. No messages back, no albums back, no friend request confirm.
Cost about 20 minutes to learn not to waste any more time. Their profile is still online as I type this.

I get that it's completely viable for someone to see photos and think "nah theres no connection theres nothing", but even if that is what happens just say that. Especially in the face of "hello?". Just receiving a "This profile has blocked you" message would make more sense. At least that's an instant result.

As far as it possibly being that, it was him online on his cpl profile and me (male) online on mine. My answer to getting a private album is "awesome, I'll look through it with her later". 

Like... isn't porn easier than fishing for private galleries while your girlfriend is at work (yeah, he volunteered that info straight up that she's at work atm)? 

Not actually upset or surprised or anything, just kinda wanted to rant about this dick head hahaha smile

(Just double checked before hitting post. He's still sitting online in the chatroom)


Warming the Bed
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i think it goes all ways.  Blocking is a sure way of letting people know you're not interested,  but there is no harm in politely letting someone know.  Then block if it continues.  Most people have the right intentions here,  but the minority make it hard.  

Warming the Bed
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if all you wasted was 20 minutes that's great. I've wasted hours and hours plus hundreds of dollars on accommodation for no shows. 

Orgasminator
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ozy, blocking only stops you from seeing their posts, it doesn't stop them from messaging you. They don't get any notification that they have been blocked, they just think you are ignoring them

Warming the Bed
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how could anybody not turn up for a meet with newyboy??!!!

Orgasminator
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actually Ozy, blocking does nothing except not show you their posts/messages. They don't know they've been blocked, only you do. The get no notifications, so as far as they are concerned, you just arent answering. I thnnk if you block someone they should get a notice saying they have been blocked


Warming the Bed
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if you click on someones profile and they have blocked you  it does tell you that you have been blocked

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I think that if you block someone or they block you, there should be a multiple choice selection on Why, and the blocked person be notified. I am sure many people have been blocked on a misunderstanding,  and there is no way to apologise and possibly not become blocked.

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Quote by Haidee

ozy, blocking only stops you from seeing their posts, it doesn't stop them from messaging you. They don't get any notification that they have been blocked, they just think you are ignoring them

tis all true & justified Yet. just for Blocking i recall reason after contacting alleged Admin that I had BLOCKED TOO Many others therefore membership removed Very much a HIGH BROW moment Even tho id reported Illegal activity plus 10plus yr OLD expired accounts so yeah Admin may have changed. but site seems to still have many non active ones (wouldn't reply on 30. 90. etc. day codes )

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I dontworry about things like that all different and we owe each other nothing, move on and keep going

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Quote by Cheekybugger

tis all true & justified Yet. just for Blocking i recall reason after contacting alleged Admin that I had BLOCKED TOO Many others therefore membership removed Very much a HIGH BROW moment Even tho id reported Illegal activity plus 10plus yr OLD expired accounts so yeah Admin may have changed. but site seems to still have many non active ones (wouldn't reply on 30. 90. etc. day codes )

Wow, you've responded to a 7 year old post smile

Not quite sure what you are trying to say because your post is really badly written. Not sure you know what high brow actually means either, but hey, you got your rant in.