How often do you have people that you swing with that you get tired of swinging with but keep around as friends? Do you typically find yourself doing this? Or is it more often than not a case where you get tired of having sex with them and feel that you just need to move on and completely leave them behind?
I'm very choosey about my swinging partners, first I'll speak with them to ensure they are active then I commit. But I can say I have experienced few who active in sex talk but very bad in act :-o
How often do you have people that you swing with that you get tired of swinging with but keep around as friends? Do you typically find yourself doing this? Or is it more often than not a case where you get tired of having sex with them and feel that you just need to move on and completely leave them behind? I dont understand. How do you get tired of people you swing with? Tired of having sex with them? hmmm Well I never had anything like that yet. That is because we don't go to the same couple a lot. We always keep a month or two in between them. That way no body gets bored and they are still your friends.
Well, when you have known a couple for long periods of time..It's hard to just drop them and move on. I know what you are talking about. I have been with certian couples for so long that they eventually become sort of boring. But by this time they are your friends too and it's hard. I tell them though. Most of them have continued to be my friends but soon the number of calls get decreased and soon they just fade away.
It's nice to know other people's point of view. I thought we were the only ones having these thoughts. Do you guys feel guilty about it? Over time we all become friends. We just don't have the courage to tell them we don't want them to be our playmates anymore which was what got us together in the first place.
At a point if you are not happy with your playmate you can tell then in a polite manner, as they are no legal partners to feel guilt to tell them that they are not interesting. Because your swinging for fun mwink:
well, we are only starting..so we haven't reached this point. I'm sure we would be thinking the same thing some day. right now, we are all too excited about our first meet. It's this weekend. We had a good response to the ads and we are happy to find some good people.
There are so many aspects of this I never thought about. I'm just a beginner so I wouldn't know what you boys are talking about. But I would take proper measures to ensure that we don't too close to any couples. That way if we have to part ways some day, it won't be so hard on us.
We never have this problem because we don't swing with the same people more than once. We do not want any attachment to anyone other then the two of us so it is always a once and done deal.
I think it is important to know the people you are swinging with. I try and become friends with the people when I met them. So we remain friends afterwards if we do decide to stop swinging.
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