Not many real,fun,INTELLIGENTwomen on this just act as decoys to keep their bi-male partners happy and their
own pathetic relationships site is full of dreamers and like a fab room.
Us straight guys get a really hard time on this need to plan stuff way ahead of many chatters with not much
to say but plenty of time to say many real doers in life generally.
The harder you work,the luckier you get...all the best in the future ! Sympathise totally !
Take a thousand women on this site,then:
Eliminate the smokers and the non-health-conscious = 500
Eliminate the idiots and NQR's = 250
Eliminate the non-active dreamers/fulltime internet chatters = 125
Eliminate those with zero personality/no sense of humour = 62.5
Eliminate those that live further away from you than pluto = Eliminate those that act as decoys for their bi partners = Eliminate those that have shocking dress sense = Eliminate those that are penniless gold-diggers = Eliminate those that are alcoholics = Eliminate those with no time to meet up in 3D = 1
That's 1 in 1000 and those are the REAL odds.
Take a million guys on this site.
Eliminate those with negative, defeatist attitudes (which are decidedly not sexy)... and we wave goodbye to you.
That's fine. Less competition for the remaining guys.
Afterall, there are over 6000 single women on this site. So by your logic, there are 6 health conscious, intelligent players with a great sense of humour, who dress like lingerie models and are looking for a man in your neighbourhood. And you've just blown your chance with any of them.
Everybody, let us know who is right in this discussion. Please answer from REAL ACTUAL experiences. So far, I agree with debrouilard - from 2 years of membership on this site. Love to hear from others though. Prove us wrong.
Hi,
for my experience, both have some good points. I have few meets and played with some womens on the site, 4 meets to be precise and played with 3.
The womens i played with were looking to play, not looking for a fb, relationship or other type of commitment, hence the meet was organized very quickly, without chatting for ages or organizing way ahead of times.
That said, they are rare and very few. Also need to be said that politeness is the way to go. If your line is " hey, let's go fucking today" you can't expect much out of this site, also by women that write on their profile "i want to be fucked hard" and the like.
Im in this site from quite a bit, and i found that some of the comment that single guys have like there is a lot of people in here just chatting is absolutely true. If you get to talk to many single women in here, they are on a lot of other sites especially dating site because they are looking for commitment and not just for an adventure, at least thats what i found.
I dont have much experience with couples, so i cant really say much, a part that lots are actually fake.. this is a proven fact as lots of single women are. In many cases pics are fake and if they ask you for an email or phone number... you know that in 90% of cases something is fishy..
A good indication for me is the site rep. If you have a look at the comment made there, you can actually have an idea if the person have met/just chat/eluded anyone.
Anyway that's just my point of view based on my experiences so far.
J.
Oh here we go ... the "im a single guy and I should get what I want debate" .....There are lots of people on this site who meet .... for the original poster ... I would suggest more notice would be one thing .... For alot of women here.. they have jobs and kids and would struggle to make it ....
It like going out on a sat night .. there's no guarantee you'll meet anyone ... you simply put yourself out there and see what happens...
seems like you have alllll the answers debrouillard ... SOME single guys would struggle on site....other's have great fun .. and throughly enjoy their time and meets on here.
Quote by debrouillard Take a thousand women on this site,then: Eliminate the smokers and the non-health-conscious = 500 Eliminate the idiots and NQR's = 250 Eliminate the non-active dreamers/fulltime internet chatters = 125 Eliminate those with zero personality/no sense of humour = 62.5 Eliminate those that live further away from you than pluto = Eliminate those that act as decoys for their bi partners = Eliminate those that have shocking dress sense = Eliminate those that are penniless gold-diggers = Eliminate those that are alcoholics = Eliminate those with no time to meet up in 3D = 1 That's 1 in 1000 and those are the REAL odds.
You do realise that people on here do talk to each other and I can guarantee you WILL have NO luck now. Original poster will as he was still polite. You on the other hand perhaps should find another site that would suit your needs as clearly this one does not. You don't want to be wasting your time on a site that clearly does not fulfil your needs.
hahaa ive not heard of a LONELY SINGLE guy entice couples to a hotel room but I've definately heard of a genuine, fun loving passionate guy seeking friends and more entice couples. Ive met some amazing people here on this site and I would support Two on their facts and logic. This site does have some wankers but if you eliminate those crazies and hold your ground and stand for what you are and respect everyone's decisions and preference, you will meet the people that get along with you.
I was in a hotel in the cbd two weeks ago and met an amazing couple who I had a lovely time with. On the same note, I met some amazing people at the Meet and Greet who have kept in touch and gonna meet soon again. It all goes in saying that This site is a SEX site yes!!! but also remember its a social network and making friends, respecting others and getting together for drinks, dinner, a night out should be the first step to anything proposed. Even if your in a hotel, Id always chose to meet outside first and play after if anything did happen
temptedtwo you have missed the point. We are asking why those who advertise to meet, dont.
lovedevil, you may have had some success. well done. Wish the 98% of people answering posts get FA ?
Quote by williek temptedtwo you have missed the point. We are asking why those who advertise to meet, dont.
And therein lies an example of why many single guys don't have much luck. A woman having a profile on here is not an open advert to have sex with any bloke who can type "I have a room". Nor is it a suggestion that she will come running anytime a guy happens to be horny. Women can take their pick of guys on here. They can meet on their terms and on their timetable. If a whole lot of guys can't pick up, it's not because the women aren't meeting - it's because they're meeting someone else who they like better.
And by the way jazz10. Where is standrews beach vic ? It doesnt exist according to Australia Post
Ever heard of Google Maps? Or perhaps try checking Australia Post again, because Australia Post says it does exist.
Quote by debrouillard Not many real,fun,INTELLIGENTwomen on this just act as decoys to keep their bi-male partners happy and their own pathetic relationships site is full of dreamers and like a fab room. Us straight guys get a really hard time on this need to plan stuff way ahead of many chatters with not much to say but plenty of time to say many real doers in life generally. The harder you work,the luckier you get...all the best in the future ! Sympathise totally !
Debrouillard, I take offence to your post. I like to think of myself as a real, fun and intelligent woman. I do not have a pathetic relationship and nor do I act as a decoy for my man. Sadly, it's men like you that give single men here a bad rep. Yes we do like to chat. It's called COMMUNICATION, you should look it up sometime. You'd do well to educate yourself of it's meaning. In all the time we've been here we've never heard of you, seen you in the chatroom or at a meet & greet. If you choose to be invisible then that is how you will be treated. Although I do think it's more about your attitude. Don't blame the site or it's members for your shortcomings. N.B. Single men - this is how NOT to behave here on SH.
Very entertaining post.
Yes, some women do exist that want to meet for anon sex in a hotel with someone that will more than likely leave the state or country within the next 24 hours. My wife is one such woman.
If we had seen the ad, earlier than 22/3, she def reply, with every intention of meeting.
Judging by the size of his package and build, he is a pretty rare specimen.
Just my / our thoughts.
Quote by williek temptedtwo you have missed the point. We are asking why those who advertise to meet, dont. lovedevil, you may have had some success. well done. Wish the 98% of people answering posts get FA ?
And you know for certain that these people who advertise don't meet? Where is your proof? Just because you haven't been successful and all and sundry can see why, doesn't mean that people; single, couples, male, female, transgender whatever, aren't hooking up. As I said before and I shall say it again I think it would be best if you move to a site that would be better suited to what you are looking for instead of bagging out everyone else regardless of who they are.
kinkymelbchick wrote:
Has the lonely single guy in a luxury hotel room ever enticed a couple/female to come over? Love to hear of any occurrences
this particular lonely bloke has met with many people here and enjoyed each and every meet be it just a cuppa or for sexual activity ,,,,but no i haven't met in a hotel ,,maybe i should try it ,,,but think really i would plan it a little better ,,like put my ad in maybe a week or two before i came to town ,,,,might make things easier for potential playmates to organise themselves rather than the commonly seen " oi i'm here now cum get some" ads we all see
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Afterall, there are over 6000 single women on this site. So by your logic, there are 6 health conscious, intelligent players with a great sense of humour, who dress like lingerie models and are looking for a man in your neighbourhood. And you've just blown your chance with any of them. 
