why cant i find some one to have an affair with????

31 Dec 2012

Hi ladys, male, in my 40's, looking for an affair with a woman, any age. I'm from sydney,'s west's but can travel around the Sydney metro area. We could meet for coffee first if you would like, or a chat at a discrete location.

31 Dec 2012

There have been many many threads about how difficult it is for single guys. They say you need to put effort into you profile, some photos that represent your personality and to build friendships in chat that don't always start with 'Do you wanna root?'. If you do that you we lift yourself above the other single guys. Below that are the guys don't put any effort in and think all women will just sleep with the cause you want to see their tits. Beneath that then there is you. You have chosen the hardest group of single guys there is. I am not saying it is impossible but I don't like the odds you have chosen for yourself. At least you are honest enough not to try and conceal the fact you are Married. To get yourself a nice woman. Have you thought of starting with your wife? Find the feeling you had when you first met her? Then there is no need to cheat. Failing that then another option is to tell her the truth. Tell her you have a higher sex drive than hers and you need to talk to together about how to resolve the issue mutually. The last step is to leave her. This way you can then be a standout single guy and increase your chances. I know it is not always that simple but it is amazing what happens if you express the truth about your needs and wants.

31 Dec 2012

That was very well Put Jamicp and so many single males wonder why they get no where K n K

31 Dec 2012

Wow I ask a simple question and get a full on lecture on what in should be going with my life. Thank God this is not a sex site or a site for people to meet and have adult fun, unbelievable.

31 Dec 2012

You asked a question, you got an answer. If you don't like the answer, don't ask the question.

31 Dec 2012

Quote by Jamicp
To get yourself a nice woman. Have you thought of starting with your wife? Find the feeling you had when you first met her? Then there is no need to cheat. Failing that then another option is to tell her the truth. Tell her you have a higher sex drive than hers and you need to talk to together about how to resolve the issue mutually.

Well said!
You never know what she might say!
Though in saying that bored husbands are off our list. lol

31 Dec 2012

Think we upset someone account seems to be closed Some people dont seem to understand swinging

31 Dec 2012

:violin::violin::violin: Sorry couldn't help myself

31 Dec 2012

I didn't mean it as a 'full on lecture'. My intentions were to share what I believe. Obviously, his was not working. If he didn't want to get laid then........ More women for the guys that understand you have to put the same effort to meet people as if you were in a bar or nightclub. Oh well, I am still getting some smile

Actually we both are!

31 Dec 2012

actually jamiecp, I think you were right on. And this isn't a sex site. Its a swinging site, there is a subtle difference. This is not a site for single guys to come and get gratiutous sex, just for showing up. That would be a brothel and they would have to bring money. In real life, personality and sanity matter

31 Dec 2012

Quote by Haidee
actually jamiecp, I think you were right on. And this isn't a sex site. Its a swinging site, there is a subtle difference. This is not a site for single guys to come and get gratiutous sex, just for showing up. That would be a brothel and they would have to bring money. In real life, personality and sanity matter

Truth is, I think what I said applies to everyone, guys, girls, couples and even to a brothel when you take money.

1 Jan 2013

Well said Haidee. If people are not willing to try in the first place then they should expect to get nowhere. "Effort can produce results".