Discretion is a must, as is an inquisitive mind and a bit of naughtiness. You should be someone who doesn't think twice about pulling out a dildo and fucking yourself when we're in the car going somewhere, and then walking into a party without anything on under your clothes. Or playing with a strap-on and taking me from behind. Perhaps walking into a quiet bar and giving the barman a BJ on my orders. Hmmmmmmmm..............lots to think about