OK guys here is the deal... I want to get to know someone first before doing anything else. If you can actually have an adult (which doesn't mean all sex FYI) conversation with someone for a while drop me a message here and if you pass stage one I'll pass on my email address and we can chat there next. The screening process WILL involve both of us too! As would any first non play meet. I'm after someone who is nice, won't pressure, and is aware of our situation. I want a friend with benefits, NOT a new relationship, I'm happy with my current partner, he is just broken at the moment and I prefer to have sex with people I at least know more than a sentence about.