Being faithfully married for 20 years, my sex life has had a massive turnaround over the last 3 years with the wife no longer able to engage in sexual activities due to health issues. I've had to put my career on hold now in order to care for her. Not really sure what I'm doing on here but I think I'm a bit of a lurker/dreamer when it comes to thinking about sex outside of marriage. However a sexual appetite has to be fed and mine has been starved apart from the frequent solo hand excursions. So I'm just seeing where this avenue will take me. Basically I'm looking for a discrete encounter with someone who may be in a similar situation.