Looking for playmates who like others to take the lead, namely me

I also like to live outside the box. I am creative and imaginative. I enjoy some aspects of the BDSM world, I like to give sensual floggings, I like using my strap-ons on males and females. Intelligent and understanding. Dominant. I like to talk and ask questions. Did you skip over the word Dominant? Like I said, I live outside the box, have wonderful and sometimes strange or quirky ideas and don't normally follow the norm.