Due to the changes with this site limiting my ability to reply to messages and others I’m not willing to pay for it anymore after more than a decade of being a paid member. For this reason pls message if you want to chat and if we start a conversation and then I don’t reply send some other way that we can communicate. I have most of the main chat apps.

I’m an open-minded fit healthy dte creative curious fairly vanilla kinkster. I'm interested in meeting and getting to know like minded down to earth WOMEN and COUPLES and possibly groups. I am open to meeting sexy people who want someone who respects your boundaries to join you and are willing to offer the same in return. I am generally up for learning new things and sharing what I know.

Ive played as a single person and as a couple with straight and bi women and couples and as a couple so understand what couples want and need and really respect boundaries. If you like my profile & the idea of play situation or small group where there are females present then get back to me.

I like a level of emotional / friendship / intellectual connection as I feel that this adds depth to the physical side. That said some casual fun and or friends with benefits situations in the mean time that could open up this possibility sounds like a fun way to help create this.

More about me

I use hetroflexible as a definition to indicate I lean strongly towards women but have enjoyed bi situations within a 3 or 4some in which a woman or women have been present. I am NOT interested in 1 on 1 play with men and have played with purely straight couples who have felt respected.

If you like my profile, respect my desires, match my criteria i would like you to get in touch, so please feel free to message me. I would be interested in an ongoing situation with some sexy people that are on the same wave length so please keep reading get to know me a bit more.

I love intimate, sensual night/days in exploring sensual pleasure (food, wine, baths/spa, massage) with like minded souls. I am a relaxed and down to earth person who believes in using all my senses when having sex.

For me sex is the sensory exploration of arousal between consensual equals (unless those present have chosen a d/s dynamic) who want to explore what that can mean and so can include all the above as well as role play, bondage, fetish and more. I am also a kinky perv at times who likes to explore with my lovers what we like / are enjoying and as I have an active imagination I love to see where that can take me and my lovers. I am someone who is willing to follow my desire and sensory pleasure with out the limits of judgements or beliefs.

I do have a strong visual aesthetic as an artist and designer so do like beauty. And as someone who has always kept healthy and fit I do tend to like the same. So I lean towards slim fit and healthy people and less body hair in general.

I am also into nature and love camping, swimming, walking & cycling. I love dancing to rhythm driven music from global drumming to electronic music. I also love outdoor music festivals where there is a diversity of people and music and been known to work at a few select festivals around Australia. Healthy organic food and eating is a passion of mine and I’m usually at Rusty’s with work each weekend briefly and to shop for food on a Friday.

So I suppose I think of myself as a friendly, healthy, slightly bent designer when I’m not being a slacker, who has an informed understanding of what can make peoples lives healthy inspiring and of lasting value.

I will reply to emails as soon as I can