We want to explore and share our sexuality in the context of a good and long term friendship with another couple. We would like to chat first to find out whether we have enough in common - then meet to hopefully begin a process of getting to know each other better.

We are active, intelligent, sensitive, caring, passionate, romantic. We care about what is happening in and to the world. We enjoy walking, gardening, cooking, candlelight, music (making and listening), arthouse movies, poetry, nature; and sitting in a hot tub, looking over the water in the evening. We are interested in sustainable living.

As bodies are not quite so attractive at our age as they once were, we see a need now for greater involvement of our brains as sexual organs. We see the build-up as an enjoyable end in itself. We see the journey as being as potentially enjoyable as the arriving. We see this including conversation, warm hugs, touching, massage, slow dancing, games, the sharing of our sexual histories and historical and present fantasies. We are interested in the possibility of role playing.