Sorry but I have to say this. I have been going onto the chatroom lately and I find it boring. Conversations are often shallow. When I try to join in, people don't know me so they ignore me. If I joke I get invited to a private room and some guy is on a cam wanking. (I'm not into sexual flirting alone and when partner is here he get angry at that). Then you go on and nothing is happening in a room so you find a room with lots of people and try to join but it is full. I just don't get what everyone sees in this feature. Although I do agree lots of people on here love it. And yes I am probably the only one who doesn't!!
i think the point is that you have to make conversation yourself. It doesnt have to be the same conversation as others are having.. just start talking something new, and others will join in.
I frequently start having random conversations with myself, with lots of observations, and inevitably people begin to converse. Once you have started chatting with a few, then it just snowballs.
But ... generally speaking, conversations which are NOT about sex manage to make more ground than those that are. Because frankly. most people are happy to find a refreshing new topic. It can turn to sex after that.. but rarely do i find it makes a good opening gambit.
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