Thoughts on bisexual husbands

my wife doesn't know I am bi  I think she would disown me if she found out .

I don't get any sex at all with her so that's why I play bi with other married men in exactly the same situation as  me

you are not the only one mine has no idea that I am bi, have been playing with men and couples for 30 years

can i ask you both, lomer and 69keenru, why havent you felt you could talk to the wife about this?? i find it interesting

she  thinks  that because she no longer wants sex why do i think it is so important  .

She really doesn't think I need it wrong

damn, thats a bit wrong....do you think she suspects anything? and also, was there a reason you went a male as opposed to a female? was that just because you were curious and liked it so continued, or you didnt want the hassle of another female? lol

i had an opportunity to play with  a male and got sucked and satisfied which is something that  my wife of 44 years won't do but I do prefer pussy but  find it more complex  to organise than playing with males in same situation  are very private about it 

less chance of getting  caught

ok cool, i find it interesting, but if you dont want to give info, tell me to fuck right off lol

I  wouldn't  ever tell you to do that. I much prefer pussy if i can get  that recently was walking along a bush track behind dunes at a local beach and walked past a cple male n female we stopped looked at each other i walked back to them he played with his cock through pants so i did same she started to suck both of us soon she shed her clothes and i licked her wet pussy juice and then  got to fuck her before her partner fucked her and filled her pussy then I licked her wet pussy juice and cum  it was delicious 

oh i say!!:thrilled:

a s       said before I am married and my wife will not even watch porn with me sex with her stopped a long time with her since she had a historectomey but I have been playing with men and couples for many years even before she had toe opparation

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a s       said before I am married and my wife will not even watch porn with me sex with her stopped a long time with her since she had a historectomey but I have been playing with men and couples for many years even before she had toe opparation

 I hope her toe is better now... ;-)

why do we need to stop because they don't want it any more we are still alive

yes my wife had fibroids removed and her uterus burned inside to stop them growing back it destroyed her totally

The reality is that bi male sex is so readily and easily available. Beats, saunas, internet, phone lines Far, far more males have engaged in male to male sex than they would ever admit to. 

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Far, far more males have engaged in male to male sex than they would ever admit to. 

 True this. 
Nothing I like better than a closeted bi married man.
Especially having them in their marital beds.

I played with a couple before this covid crisis hit, it started off as a mfm play and  hubby who is laser strait  asked "what's the deal with being bi" long story short, being Bi in my eyes is having the same physical attraction to men as i do women, I don't say mental as I love my wife and I won't be getting feelings for anyone else. I explained that once being milked you will want it more. I explained what he needs to do to prepare and he was open to the idea of his Mrs massaging his prostrate will giving him a BJ. I just sat back and watched and waited. As expected he blew with a force and nearly phased through the bed with his entire body trembling. He just laid on his back mumbling OMG for ages so I took the opportunity to bring Mrs to the line with my tongue and fingers. Needless to say he came around to mm play loving the option of which ass to choose and have his prostrate massaged while doggying  his Mrs.

I chatted last week and now she pegs him with a strap-on. Once the ISO state is finished they want to try the real thing. He said it is a game changer and is worried about being tagged as gay. I did correct him and so NO, bisexual, but living in a country town, and blokes being blokes I can understand his situation. It will be six months till I'm  back so it will be interesting on developments.

Yob

yes .once you try and experience  the new sensations there is no turning back .just a totally new set of feelings like never before .why not enjoy as much as you can I say

agree with you 69keenru

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I played with a couple before this covid crisis hit, it started off as a mfm play and  hubby who is laser strait  asked "what's the deal with being bi" long story short, being Bi in my eyes is having the same physical attraction to men as i do women, I don't say mental as I love my wife and I won't be getting feelings for anyone else. I explained that once being milked you will want it more. I explained what he needs to do to prepare and he was open to the idea of his Mrs massaging his prostrate will giving him a BJ. I just sat back and watched and waited. As expected he blew with a force and nearly phased through the bed with his entire body trembling. He just laid on his back mumbling OMG for ages so I took the opportunity to bring Mrs to the line with my tongue and fingers. Needless to say he came around to mm play loving the option of which ass to choose and have his prostrate massaged while doggying  his Mrs.
I chatted last week and now she pegs him with a strap-on. Once the ISO state is finished they want to try the real thing. He said it is a game changer and is worried about being tagged as gay. I did correct him and so NO, bisexual, but living in a country town, and blokes being blokes I can understand his situation. It will be six months till I'm  back so it will be interesting on developments.
Yob

 So true  such a game changer but guys are never open to talking to friends about it or admitting it  

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 So true  such a game changer but guys are never open to talking to friends about it or admitting it  

 True, there are a few friends and family that know I'm Bi, but I won't be discussing it no time soon with work coleages 😋

Being bi-sexual, brings a totally new outlook on a relationship, and us both being bi, makes it all the more fun. She loves it when I suck a guy, and I love it when she is having fun with girls. It opens up to more excitement for all partie's and give's both the chance to see what the other is like in so many other and different ways. Shame more guy's and girls' were not bi, as they would find a whole new meaning to sex and the fun it bring's. Have fun ALL.

I’ve always been bi but last year had my first threesome with a married couple with bi husband. We meet regularly. The sex is mind-blowing. Can’t get enough. 

I find that many of the couples I play with open up about bi fantasies and curiosity.  As they become comfortable, often they get to pursue these interests and are converts!

So look forward to finding a couple keen on mmf where she takes the raines...we perform to her satisfaction with no holes barred....

The hardest part was getting over the fear of talking about it openly to come out as a bi-husband to my wife but when you remember "this is my best friend" the actual conversation seems like a blip. Of course she knew already anyway🤣. Since then and with us both enjoying mm and mmf fun with friends is a bonus but most important it's being honest about feeling which has brought us closer. We've had similar with listing of being a bi-male couple, the rejection and the pretenders. 

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the rejection and the pretenders. 

 I'm wondering what you mean by rejection.  You reject or are you being rejected? 

The pretenders,  I hear you. I was going to change to a couple profile but most of the single guys and some couples just want Lrig and just have me watch. FFS I don't have anywhere on here or even hinted that I am a cuck. So single male it stays. Usually a visit to my privates sorts out the legit ones (they are all mm playtime).

As far as rejection I mean purely on being bi-sexual. I hope this doesn't come over rude or wrong, it's not my intention but just had conversations with couples and singles where they eventually read the profile fully and you get a message similar to "your bi-male couple, seeya". Even though prior to that conversation and communication is going great. Maybe they assumed my wife is bi.

no you don't come across rude at all. Just me getting carried away and a similar response the other day. I say let's meet and have a chinwag over a coffee,  and before you know it they say I am strait , yet their profile says no or bi-curious.  One guy said oh are we gunna have sex  in public,   I'm noo.  We are just going to meet, for them that's all too hard and as you say, you get the Seeya

When two bi couples get together it is an awesome time, it's definitely our preference.