Sexlightened
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Thanks Mr Two, I don't smoke either so no cigar for me :giggle:
That being said I enjoyed your post as well. Always love a good debate.
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Why are single guys so disliked here
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Sexpert
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nt lad, your sentence "Phrasing profiles in positive terms and explaining what/who you're looking for makes for a more inclusive site. To simply say 'no single guys' is as offensive a generalisation"
ummmm what do we say we want couples, single females and people who are faithful to thier partener only
rather just say NO single males and nobody having affairs. its easier.
i chat to everybody on here if theyre polite and not crude. if your crude and say stuff like nice tits or wanna fuck then your out. the single men who i am friends with know it will go no further unless they bring a playmate for hubby.
anyway i cant see what the problem is with NO, it works
Mrs Two
Sex God
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Seems realy the only ones with a problem of having "NO SINGLE MALES " on a profile are the Single males lol
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Seems realy the only ones with a problem of having "NO SINGLE MALES " on a profile are the Single males
only some melbcpl01 ,,only some .. there is more than a few of us who are quite happy to read and move on if we are not what you look for,,, to not do so only wastes my time , not to mention yours and further fuels the fire ,,which ,,quite honestly is burning needlessly for most
Sex God
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Seems realy the only ones with a problem of having "NO SINGLE MALES " on a profile are the Single males
only some melbcpl01 ,,only some .. there is more than a few of us who are quite happy to read and move on if we are not what you look for,,, to not do so only wastes my time , not to mention yours and further fuels the fire ,,which ,,quite honestly is burning needlessly for most
Thats for sure lonelydad there are the ones that just say yep thats the profile holders choice respect it and move on and then the ones that think no single males excludes them and they get all huffy when they dont get thier way and then go whinging in the forums about it , just shows what sort of loosers they are .
Unfortunatly for the genuine single blokes out there they get caught in the shadow of the little children that can not go out and play and it makes it so much harder for them
Warming the Bed
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What about the high number of rude single females? Let's start a thread on that too. It happens in equal doses here I'd say. There's enough sociopaths on both sides of the gender fence.
Orgasminator
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What about the high number of rude single females? Let's start a thread on that too. It happens in equal doses here I'd say. There's enough sociopaths on both sides of the gender fence.
i cant comment on this as i havnt had a single female be rude to us yet. the only contact weve had with single women they say theyve read our profile and liked it. i wonder if the single women are rude because they have been harassed so much??
just a thought
Warming the Bed
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What about the high number of rude single females? Let's start a thread on that too. It happens in equal doses here I'd say. There's enough sociopaths on both sides of the gender fence.
i cant comment on this as i havnt had a single female be rude to us yet. the only contact weve had with single women they say theyve read our profile and liked it. i wonder if the single women are rude because they have been harassed so much??
just a thought
Yes it is hard for us single guys on here but that is mostly our own doing. We cant seem to understand what NO means. I respect that ppl have preferences and taste and should be respected just same as you want your respected.
The men out number the couple and females on here at probably a rate of about 50/1 combined lol. If respect is show maybe things will change.
Orgasminator
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i have to agree in part with it. its not even all men. its more like less than 1/4 but it causes the others to be tarred with the same brush. we know some nice single men on here and the ones we chat to will get called up if we ever change our minds.
Casanova
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you are correct Mr 2. It is hardfor a single guys. And if they are like me its big and hard 
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it's the cheating married men, who don't disclose their situation, who really shit me
I wish we were allowed to name and shame them
Orgasminator
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it's the cheating married men, who don't disclose their situation, who really shit me
I wish we were allowed to name and shame them
yes freo, we wont be involved with cheaters. just not worth the shit. dont want to be there when they get caught
Sex God
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it's the cheating married men, who don't disclose their situation, who really shit me
I wish we were allowed to name and shame them
Totaly agree with you , If they are prepared to lie and cheat on thier supposed loved ones what lies and crap are they going to tell you so they can try and get into your pants
The last thing we would want to be involved in when the partner finds out they have been cheating and that he has your contact details , could get very nasty
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We don't hate single guys but we always play as a couple, male of partnership is straight so quite frankly single guys don't have anything we want (don't bring anything to the party). The thing we don't like is when a single guy doesn't bother to read our profile and just thinks, "Hey I'll show this guy's wife my huge cock and she'll want me and the guy will just let me fuck his wife"
Orgasminator
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yes just, thats all they think and all they think with. we get so many messages from single blokes its annoying. i just send a message back asking if they have read our profile. one sent back no he doesnt read profiles, to say he copped a mouthful is an understatement. maybe a good thing would be that the profile message comes up and you have to at least click something before any messages can be sent or pictures seen
Warming the Bed
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Up until recently we had a 'no single males' posted in our profile. Despite stating this we have a number of single males that we (male is straight) play with. We stated this to reduce as far as possible the number of single males contacting us as we prefer to get to know people (single or otherwise) through chat or meet & greets. We go by peoples personality, honesty, respectfulness and presentation first and foremost. If you tick all of those boxes we will then consider initiating contact.
Recently we altered our profile from 'no single males' to:
SINGLE MALES... we will contact you if interested. Please do not contact us...we will not reply and you will be blocked.
MARRIED/PARTNER...we are NOT INTERESTED if your other half doesn't know what you are up to.
We also ticked 'single male' in the what we are looking for section of our profile.
We should have known what would happen next!!!!! Despite stating the above we have been flooded with unsolicited messages and access to private galleries. We immediately block them as stated in our profile.
Recently in another post a single male was lamenting why couples have 'no single males' in their profile yet contact him for play. In our case the aforementioned is why.
We are also very aware of the tactics single guys utilise to gain favour with us. This is why we block every single male who initiates contact with us.
You want to say hi, I like your photos etc. Say it in the main chat room, you don't need to whisper as it immediately raises a red fag with both of us. You want us to look at your cam? Don't tell us to, we will if we want to. Cams of guys masturbating do nothing for us.
If we sound a little bit jaded it is because we are sick and tired of the lack of respect shown by the majority of single guys we have had contact with on this site.
Warming the Bed
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Up until recently we had a 'no single males' posted in our profile. Despite stating this we have a number of single males that we (male is straight) play with. We stated this to reduce as far as possible the number of single males contacting us as we prefer to get to know people (single or otherwise) through chat or meet & greets. We go by peoples personality, honesty, respectfulness and presentation first and foremost. If you tick all of those boxes we will then consider initiating contact.
Recently we altered our profile from 'no single males' to:
SINGLE MALES... we will contact you if interested. Please do not contact us...we will not reply and you will be blocked.
MARRIED/PARTNER...we are NOT INTERESTED if your other half doesn't know what you are up to.
We also ticked 'single male' in the what we are looking for section of our profile.
We should have known what would happen next!!!!! Despite stating the above we have been flooded with unsolicited messages and access to private galleries. We immediately block them as stated in our profile.
Recently in another post a single male was lamenting why couples have 'no single males' in their profile yet contact him for play. In our case the aforementioned is why.
We are also very aware of the tactics single guys utilise to gain favour with us. This is why we block every single male who initiates contact with us.
You want to say hi, I like your photos etc. Say it in the main chat room, you don't need to whisper as it immediately raises a red fag with both of us. You want us to look at your cam? Don't tell us to, we will if we want to. Cams of guys masturbating do nothing for us.
If we sound a little bit jaded it is because we are sick and tired of the lack of respect shown by the majority of single guys we have had contact with on this site.
yay
Warming the Bed
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We've talked to a few okay single males but the majority just don't listen or read or understand anything you're trying to tell them. We weren't really even aware of a big single male presence when we started looking into swinging.
Seeing as they only appear to be around for the one thing and can't read a profile, they're going to have to intrigue us before we really take and notice or interest.
Sexpert
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most men on here just piss mr off, dont listen. dont read and lie. so sick of it
Orgasminator
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The main problem I see with putting up No Single Guy signs, is that it will only scare off the polite ones that you don't mind meeting. The asshats will either not read or just completely ignore anything on your profile, especially if you have photos of breasts visible. Because, apparently, breasts turn mens' minds into mush and they cannot retrieve them.
Single men aren't hated on here, they just are surplus to requirements most of the time. No point telling a couple to try a single guy if that isn't what they are looking for - its like trying to tell a gay guy to have a go at women 'cos we are really quite nice once you get to know us. Or a lesbian to try a man, not going to work.
Couples (and singles girls) are not here to fulfil fantasies for anyone other than themselves. It is a selfish thing, and perfectly reasonable that they/we are here to fulfil our own fantasies and those of our partners, if we have them, not to be up for any sort of shenanigans, just because someone else wants to do thinks 'we look likely to want to try it'.
Oh, and for any single guys here that want to play with a couple, here's some advice for free. Chat to the guy half of the couple. This is the man willing to share his wife with others. Pissing him off will not get you into his beloveds pants in any way, shape or form. Instead, try being friendly, don't ask to fuck his wife on a first meet, don't make stupid comments about her appearance, in short - don't be an asshat. You never know where politeness will get you. ANd it helps if you have a partner to bring to the party as well.
Warming the Bed
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The main problem I see with putting up No Single Guy signs, is that it will only scare off the polite ones that you don't mind meeting. The asshats will either not read or just completely ignore anything on your profile, especially if you have photos of breasts visible. Because, apparently, breasts turn mens' minds into mush and they cannot retrieve them.
Single men aren't hated on here, they just are surplus to requirements most of the time. No point telling a couple to try a single guy if that isn't what they are looking for - its like trying to tell a gay guy to have a go at women 'cos we are really quite nice once you get to know us. Or a lesbian to try a man, not going to work.
Couples (and singles girls) are not here to fulfil fantasies for anyone other than themselves. It is a selfish thing, and perfectly reasonable that they/we are here to fulfil our own fantasies and those of our partners, if we have them, not to be up for any sort of shenanigans, just because someone else wants to do thinks 'we look likely to want to try it'.
Oh, and for any single guys here that want to play with a couple, here's some advice for free. Chat to the guy half of the couple. This is the man willing to share his wife with others. Pissing him off will not get you into his beloveds pants in any way, shape or form. Instead, try being friendly, don't ask to fuck his wife on a first meet, don't make stupid comments about her appearance, in short - don't be an asshat. You never know where politeness will get you. ANd it helps if you have a partner to bring to the party as well.
Well said Haidee...especially the last paragraph.
Mr T
Orgasminator
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apparently, breasts turn mens' minds into mush and they cannot retrieve them.
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mmmmm haidee boobs :inlove:
i agree haidee, i get some real crap from blokes, as far as im concerned they can go stuff it up thier jumpers. i just label most of them as losers whose hand wont even love them. i think married ones are worse,
Warming the Bed
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This one of the reasons why single guys get a bad rap. Its very mild compared to some of the messages we get.
Please consider. I know u said no single guys but u look too good not to test waters. Thanks.
WTF...test the waters??? Does he think his eloquent prose is going to entice us?
I don't think so!
Mr T
Please consider. I know u said no single guys but u look too good not to test waters. Thanks.
WTF...test the waters??? Does he think his eloquent prose is going to entice us?
I don't think so!
Mr T
Warming the Bed
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We enjoy a single male now and again and Jenni plays alone when I work away.
We dislike the majority of singles here as even though we had to change our profile to be very blunt we still get friend requests etc.
When on chat saying hey wanna fuck isn't going to get you there. If we talk to you back also doesn't mean you can waltz in and get any. If it's just Steve on gc at don't be rude and just leave. If you want Jenni you need to impress Steve. Also we aren't after single guys because Steve doesn't satisfy me or can perform quite the opposite we swing because it's fun not because we need more sexually if you really were a stud you'd have someone and not be single or if you were any good at being a man you wouldn't need to cheat on your partner.
Also if you gave a big cock say 8 inch or bigger we normally aren't interested you're normally lazy in bed don't lasr long can't stay hard or are so far up your arse it's nit funny.
Rant over but if you're decent still say hi
Forum Virgin
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This one of the reasons why single guys get a bad rap. Its very mild compared to some of the messages we get.
Please consider. I know u said no single guys but u look too good not to test waters. Thanks.
WTF...test the waters??? Does he think his eloquent prose is going to entice us?
I don't think so!
Mr T
Hi all, we had a good one the other day,it read..
i read ur ad,what ya look 4? ya sexy n i wanta fuck you
So if your read our advert, then why ask...oh yes this site does pertain to sex, Its nice to know your desire me....but I AM A HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS not a human jerk off device !!!
Lovely getting that email. We just wait till the cream rises to the top as we have meet some great single guys here,most look for the friendship and the fun that comes from that. Any guy that writes to us with NSA and think that's really going to happen.
There is good and bad in all genders and attachments....I think most hit so many that they don't care who they get,if we don't want them we are stuck up....that's why my hubby does the searching as its such a turn off what most guys write..
Gabi
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This one of the reasons why single guys get a bad rap. Its very mild compared to some of the messages we get.
Please consider. I know u said no single guys but u look too good not to test waters. Thanks.
WTF...test the waters??? Does he think his eloquent prose is going to entice us?
I don't think so!
Mr T
Hi all, we had a good one the other day,it read..
i read ur ad,what ya look 4? ya sexy n i wanta fuck you
So if your read our advert, then why ask...oh yes this site does pertain to sex, Its nice to know your desire me....but I AM A HUMAN BEING WITH FEELINGS not a human jerk off device !!!
Lovely getting that email. We just wait till the cream rises to the top as we have meet some great single guys here,most look for the friendship and the fun that comes from that. Any guy that writes to us with NSA and think that's really going to happen.
There is good and bad in all genders and attachments....I think most hit so many that they don't care who they get,if we don't want them we are stuck up....that's why my hubby does the searching as its such a turn off what most guys write..
Gabi
We agree with the comments about the single guys who think with their undersized appendages. Yes there are some nice guys on here that mrs has selected to play with and they have been able to treat a lady properly.
We got this tonight as the pickup line:
r***************: can the missus suck me off
That is the message in its entirety. Poor little man is now blocked from further whispers.
But really guys, if you think that is how to treat a lady, then I suggest you are on the wrong site.
Mr GH
Forum Virgin
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I don't mind single blokes but like I said in a dogging post you get 10 or 15 blokes turn up and it's a bit intimidating.
I wouldn't mind the od gang bang but not 15 to 1
NOT MANY CPL SWINGERS SWING ONLY AFTER AWOMAN I GUES ITS OF R THE MALE MORESO
Orgasminator
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*before anyone gets all upset, by You I mean a generic you, not a specific you.*
Ultraangel, from that message, I would assume that the sender is a guy wanting cock pics. Scam city for that one.
You are right, girls on here have criteria. After all, EVERY PERSON ON THIS SITE IS AFTER GETTING THIER ROCKS OFF. It is all about them, and not about you. Why should it be? A couple is on here to have THEIR fantasies fulfilled, not yours. A Single girl is on here to get sex HER way, a Single guy is on here to fuck as many women as HE can, none of them care about anyone else, and that's fine, as long as that is the way you look at profiles.
Why should a woman have sex with a man that doesn't turn her on? Why would a man want to have sex with a woman he doesn't find attractive? Some women on here are inundated with a lot of messages, they can afford to cull the herd with demands. It's a buyer's market and it's the guys trying to sell.
There are multitudes of single guys on here who are here to get free sex. There are many couples here who only want to have sex with a single girl. There are quite a few single/coupled up women (and men) wanting to try bi for the first/dozenth time.
I can't tell you the amount of times I've had messages from guys and it's the same every time. "I think you are hot, I want to fuck your brains out. I want you to suck my dick." Not once, never has a guy messaged me saying he wants to give me pleasure, wants to fulfill my fantasies, it is always about what I can do for him. Why should that turn me on?
Some guys never bother finding out what the women want, they assume because they watch porn that they know what we want, and bullheaded tell us what we want instead of listening.
This may not be every woman's opnion, but it's mine. This is why I don't want to meet with any of the single guys. I figure, if a guy is part of a couple, then he at least has learned how to talk to women without being too much of an arse
Master of Sex
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whilst you have tried to be politically correct, your posts however skill fully crafted, are all about you , how rare and special you are and how you go soft its someones fault but not you, the thing you have totally failed to grasp is couples bring each other to the night, you bring only you.
Thats why successful relationship couples seek other like couples it's equitable and relationship safe . Couples generally have serious concerns for the principal relationship and you dont .
Every time you think couples or single ladies should lower their standards or requirements to accommodate you, they see right through your wordsmith skill.
There will be singles who say how successful they are on these sites , but its short lived at best and not worth the effort from the hundreds of 1% guys on this site we have chatted to over many years this is not a successful format for them to get sex on an ongoing reliable basis.
Unless a couple has fantasies or needs other than equitable relationships your not needed so lowering requirements is totally unnecessary no matter how large or good you say you are , the few potentially successful males we know and have spoken to all are quiet understated individuals who make the most of any opportunity without criticism of the couples and over stating their assets and abilities, all mrs read was ( I go limp and not the distance)
I am not going to comment on how various builds might suck cock.
When all the political skills are peeled back, it isnt so 1% and special as you might think .
Orgasminator
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Ultraangel, you keep harping on about the size of your cock, is that the only thing you have going for you? Do you have manners?, a sense of humour?, Intelligence? Have you tried using any of those?
There was a thread in the main forum, asking women about size. Every. Single. Woman that replied (other than the OP), said it was ok as a novelty, but a smaller one is better for pretty much everything. All the guys in the thread went on about how large they were, but most of us girls really don't give a flying fuck how you are hung. If you know how to use it and show us a good time, you will get an invite back. If you blow chunks the first time you come over, where is the incentive to give you a second go?
Just to get personal on why *I* do not see solo guys, every message I receive is about how I can please him, how I can blow him, how I can show him a good time. I may as well not be there, he can use his hand if that is all he wants. Buy a fleshlight FFS.
Swinging is mostly for couples. If a solo guy is not bi, then why the hell should a couple invite him over? The only possible reason would be that the male partner likes to watch, or be cuckolded. If you don't bring a partner to share, why would he bother sharing his partner? Bring something to the exchange or don't bother.
Most couples looking for a single usually are looking for a solo girl, since there are many more bi girls than bi guys around, so a single girl who comes along is usually willng to handle both people in a couple, therefore making it a good threesome. A single guy, who is not bi and is only willing to touch the female partner, is useless.
Single guys looking for NSA sex may as well just pay for it. I am not going to bother showing up sor someone to use me as a masterbatory tool
Here is the link to the big cock thread: http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/LaWXlqj6OHvkdIqV
