Member not who they are claiming to be.

Hi there

Had a dealing with a member of this site and they dont seem to be who they proclaim to be. Is there anyway to report it?

Claims to be a couple. Chats as a couple and sends pics of himself and his "wife" individually. "Wife" is dressed in lingerae. Wants pics of myself and my missus. All good.

Claims that his wife doesnt put much on line as she is a teacher and is worried about their kids. Fair enough. He cant get her to accept or make a phone call to verify themselves as a genuine couple as she is worried about her job.

Things dont add up and i asked for a pic of him and his wife together. Didnt care if it was fully clothed at the supermarket.

Multiple excuses as to why it cant happen. 

We think he is single and has made a couples profile to try and collect pics for the spank bank.

Is there anyway to report this so it doesnt happen to anyone else?

Cheers

click on profile and report down the bottom.

admin will look into it.

If the profile is verified then I would say that they are indeed a couple. To verify a couple profile one needs to have both parties in one picture with a code in clear sight. If not then I would say your concerns are valid. You could always try to have a private cam session in your own private passworded room where all can be seen but only by you. Ps don't forget to set the cam feed option to only the room you are in.

Cheers Yob

Unfortunately, this happens all too often .... if you have any doubts about the validity of a profile, report it to admin for them to investigate .... the fewer fake profiles, the better the site will be for the genuine

GRRRR this has happened to us as well

it was reported to admin.

The member supplied 2 pictures. A faceshot of each of them. Seperate pictures , not together.

Admin deemed that yo be acceptable.

I asked admin further questions and was ignored........

Quote by Bearboo
it was reported to admin.
The member supplied 2 pictures. A faceshot of each of them. Seperate pictures , not together.
Admin deemed that yo be acceptable.
I asked admin further questions and was ignored........

 @ bearboo. Please send me the details to investigate this issue.

Lyn  -  Admin

I've come across it in the past too, where the 'couples' weren't, but were instead a single male. I once read someone say they did that because it was the only way to get the interest of couples and females. I find it totally deceptive and disgraceful and they really shouldn't be on a site like this as it displays a lack of a healthy sexual mentality. 

Healthy mentality?? , they want a chance...is all, if not showing a touch of desperation just a bit, If you know they have said they are single, have you shown this to admin??  All the team does their best, to stay on top of couples not being couples, and solos *what we call singles..  Means they can be married, or partnered or truly single. Verification is requested, Profiles are checked and notes taken. 

There are only about 8 volunteers, *mods* doing their best to keep their eye on things, with over 200 thousand members, So we cant catch them all. Admin have many other sites, so its up to us and members to keep things flowing. 

If they admit they are solo, copy and paste and let admin know. Like all reports they are looked into. If they dont admit, but you have a feeling, admin need more information before they can act. Verification can be requested, got to love that verification photos arnt kept and can not been seen in your galleries/ for the mentality, healthy or not, everyone is welcome, as long as folks, dont break the rules/AUP or the countries laws. 

I think i had the same person catfishing us. He used the same stories. Couldn't supply a pic of both partners togethers either. I blocked him.

on another site a so called couple contacted me and got a hotel room in GC . So being the clueless horn dog that  I am I rock up without doing any research whatsoever on who they I checked in the room, the guy who was clearly Bi or most likely gay started making excuses how she is delayed and started completing me on my physique and how I looked blah, blah. Back then I had just finished a bodybuilding show and I was in prime ripped and buff unlike now.

So I said ok she might show up but all of a sudden he gets on four floors and says can I give you a head. Then it became obvious there was no couple only a clueless fool like me and a gay man wanting to jump my bones!. I got out of there as fast as I could. 

Moral of the story is always do your homework on people. I’ve had over 200 friend ship offers. Only accepted 3  because I know and trust them. Don’t get me wrong I’ve met up with atleast 12 different singles and couples on here and all were amazingly kind and had some amazing time but in every case there is the minority giving the real genuine profiles a bad name

Unfortunity it's not rare. We had a"couple" approach us. First clue, simple non specific replies, or OK or yeah . Radar was spinning fast. So lets meet at pub. Sure he say's not yeah what's your contact details so we can call and confirm. Second ping on radar. Come appointed time , no show so kiked. Oh family's arrived. No fooling us as we where still at the races knowing he was bogus. I sent him a serve asking if he tells his school mates. 

Being a mod, gives you a chance to see the back end of alot of things.. So your nose twitches on the BS meter.. But deftly not the down side, cause it allows you to know, who you would and wouldnt hang with.

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I don’t agree with this behaviour at all and find it appalling to deceive people and I also find it hypocritical for people to have a profile as a single male and the advertise on their profile they are a couple.. and yes I’m talking about HERBRIDE please scroll up in the comments.. I find this no different..  you are either here as a couple or an individual.. and to advertise as one or the other on your profile and then say you are something else is poor form.. I hope admin will look into this please.. 

 UUMM you must of missed the post... solo profiles are not singles, as such, it just means they are solo on the site... Partner doesnt jump in to have a look... So solo profiles... Can be married, attached taken, what ever floats their boat...

clearly I’m mistaken thanks for clearing this up.. my apologies Herbride.. 

Not a problem, its just how admin like it

another reason why some may go single profile is to stop the pletherer of hassles some couples report about other members. ?

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another reason why some may go single profile is to stop the pletherer of hassles some couples report about other members. ?

 Solo not single :P But yes, have heard that often, in the 10 years, i have been in chat in here.

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clearly I’m mistaken thanks for clearing this up.. my apologies Herbride.. 

 All good dude......Wife sometimes wants to play.........i was single long time, and then life takes a change.......nothing botheres me....take care