Name & Shame

Should there be a name & shame file for guys that don't show when they say they are definitely coming to fuck your wife? 

yes

yes. Makes it hard for the rest of us that do

We don't understand why. Obviously they like to talk about it but why lie & say you are coming when you have no intention of turning up. They must get off on fucking people around instead of actual fucking

had the same problem with a woman recently. Talked and agreed to meet even up to 15 minutes before agreed time then nothing. 

I agree, say you are turning up , TURN UP , just good manners

I hate no shows,they shouldn't be on here.

I must admit no shows are a pain. I can understand that some a legit reasons but it is common courtesy to at least contact who you are meeting to try and rain check your meeting. But a name and shame won't fly with admin. One good thing about SHREP when it was about was that you could feel comfortable that the person you're meeting might actually show up

Yob

There won’t be any of that on this site. It’s against the rules to name and shame, as frustrating as it is for members. 

Can see & understand the position of moderators & site but the current "vouch" system is flawed as well. It is only possible post positive feedback or vouches even though these can be as misleading and prone to abuse as members with a grudge posting their own negative & misleading feedback in case of a "name & shame". Has anyone, members or site admin put some effort & thought into a fair & realistic feedback system ?

as a mod I don’t make the rules, sorry. 

not just this site ; the net is full of keyboard wankers; if they message endlessly and ask what we're gonna do or want more piks that's usually a tell...best to meet at clubs then if they don't show plenty to still do...

I believe the voucher system, is getting taken away or changed. Will have to confirm this with admin again though. But the grape vine in its self Works wonders too, mind you, like the vouch system some times.. even that can be wrong  

you are a pearl among the "oysters" (does that really sound nice at all ?) but thank you for the update Rose. You guys & girls do such an amazing task with so little thanks. 

cheers

What about couples as well? I've only had two arranged play dates for a 50% strike rate. The couple I meet were fantastic and were great fun, they were visiting Sydney from Brisbane. My first experience and it was fantastic. The other did not answer my calls when I arrived at the hotel they were staying at and did not respond to anymore messages after having good communication and exchanging phone #'s and face photos. Guess it can happen to everyone and its not just single guys that are the flakes. My 2 cents worth, thats all. Have fun everybody.

Not just guys dont show as we have experienced it with couples and singles so if it is to be there than whatever system must accomodate all but it also needs to allow for genuine reason/excuses which can occur from time to time that may well impact the ability of someone to advise.

Naming and shaming does nobody any good where there is legitimacy for the 'no show' but certainly a system that allows some form of negative vouching or reporting so that if total reports=X then it triggers an action on the profile may be worthy.

We all need to understand that whilst yes we are here for fun, sometimes when the fantasy (the internet interaction) becomes reality (a physical meet or chat) it can be overwhelming for people. We have personally been stood up a number of times yet we know that the person was present, just that they panicked or did not like that which they saw so went other ways, such is life ............ next

ive just had my first experience of a no show, not too bad after being on here for years.  ive had cancellations but thats at least been communicated prior to the meeting.  i dont agree with a name and shame, if you want to berate the guy, do it privately, otherwise i think just chalk it up to experience

Sorry Kerry I should have called

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Sorry Kerry I should have called

 hahahahha len, i'll forgive you just once

Nooo beat me

feel for the person that wants to have a good time but just really waste your time  I call them mind fuckers