Fake 'Couple' Profiles - thoughts?

in a perfect swingers world there would be no fake profiles,uploading  a photo of the couple holding a card to the admin with a unique code sent to the couple solves it. Personally We would make it couples only, but We are not going to debate that one again. It’s only our opinion so please don’t attack us this time.

Then find another site that has couples only, your opinions  leaves you wide open for attacks so probably best you say nothing.

Well that's just our opinion 

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in a perfect swingers world there would be no fake profiles.

 They say we evolved from primates. Have a look at the monkey lifestyle,  matriarch and 9ne could say polyamourous,  we might of evolved too far. Had the human species kept that view maybe the world would be a tad better. And KenandBarbie have their view so good for them. As long as we all play nice and behave like adults, there shouldn't be a problem 🙊

Mentioned here before number fake single female profiles (are they really female) put on after moderators signed off so long delay to be reported. They are phishing scammers for email addresses phones etc. I sometimes look up profiles more than once can be an interest or often bad memory not remembering  names and their profiles dozens  full on computer screens thats what computer is used for.  Security sucks reported photoshoped photos before and why cant card as requested to be held to verify be put on fake photo ?  Lesson other websites with  pretend videos  live girls viewer suspects not live ready for that when asked to lift a finger its already in movie. Why pay for extras when 31 December 2020 flashplayer is switched off how do we cam just read flashplayer is only used by 2.6% websites now because of hacking so stopping end year. Had message from adobe to delete it already Need to program computer new setup now.   Is swingersheaven going to be in the the same format next year  ?     Stay safe play4u         

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in a perfect swingers world there would be no fake profiles,uploading  a photo of the couple holding a card to the admin with a unique code sent to the couple solves it. Personally We would make it couples only, but We are not going to debate that one again. It’s only our opinion so please don’t attack us this time.

 Yes, the Verified Photo system works well and is pretty easy to implement. Its used on other sites. Most genuine players are members anyway and I would rather pay for a site which has a decent screening system and keeps out the multitude of fakes. First it was single female, at the moment its lots of fake couples profiles with pics usually stolen from Facebook, pretty easy to spot when a couple are posting their very first profile on a swingers site and its a pic of them at a wedding or on holiday!

ive been here for over 10 years , and its a big pet hate of mine, i think they must think they are edging their betts with a cpl profile, and ya can pick up on the fakers, the mrs is NEVER around. yes its annoying

I would say a fair few of the single male profiles are couples. The reasoning is, hubby is bi and wants mm fun with the mrs looking on and may join in. These types of profiles, negates the pain's and pressure for the would be extra just wanting the mrs and hassling when the mrs online. I have known a few couples that have a "couples profile" and have been banned or just left because the mr gets sick and tired of guys putting the hard word on the mrs or a derogatory remark to hubby because he's into guys as well.

Yob

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ive been here for over 10 years , and its a big pet hate of mine, i think they must think they are edging their betts with a cpl profile, and ya can pick up on the fakers, the mrs is NEVER around. yes its annoying

 We are a genuine couple and Mrs very rarely logs in. You can't tell real from fake using this metric.

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ive been here for over 10 years , and its a big pet hate of mine, i think they must think they are edging their betts with a cpl profile, and ya can pick up on the fakers, the mrs is NEVER around. yes its annoying

 We are a genuine couple and Mrs very rarely logs in. You can't tell real from fake using this metric.

 That’s an interesting point, I agree, more needs to be done to stop the fakes, Barbies been on for about 5mins this year before she said I’m bored already, you can see from the media we are an extremely active swinging couple, she just wants to play not talk about it

Just because you've Verified the Photo/video belong to this person, doesn't mean that they're looking for sex at all.
Some of the couple on here are just fishing for likes and compliments.

I've spent 4 month and 2 hours on the phone to this 1 couple early this year. This guy bitch to me he couldn't find a guy to fuck he's so called hot wife (RED FLAG), I sent the face photo as ask, his wife isn't comfortable sending face photo.
I gave them my email because they claim the face photo we sent wasn't clear enough, we had to wait for another month and this is the response we get. We've been really busy blah blah and we've made video for you and attached 3 photo of their vegetable garden.
Another months goes by and I get a sms this time, long time since we heared from you, did you get the email.

They wonder why they got NO reply...LOL This is what I call fake profile's, people getting off on the fact other people wanting them and never planning on meeting up with you.

Far out v10inch cock, you are extremely tolerant, we admire your perseverance, "4 months and 2 hours on the phone" . If we send a message, we give them a week to reply after they have read it and visited our profile, If no reply after that we block them, obviously they are not legit or not interested, or just plain ignorant lol. I mean how hard is it to send a message back, "thanks but no thanks", or "thanks, we will get back to you". No time for ignoramuses, who think they are too busy for common courtesies, definitely too busy for us lol. 

Is there any way to simply verify your not a fake vouple

Opps fake couple

A picture with you holding a sheet of paper with your profile name on it, that’s how other successful sites do it. Then you are Verified.

Hi ozckck ok sound like a good idea.  I'll give that a go

Just because your profile is Verified, it doesn't mean your real and looking for sex at all from our experience. Some people are on here just to act out their fantasy behind a screen. 

Some of the worst offender's on this site are couple who're verified, the fake couple that I am talking about are People who're attention whore. Just fishing for likes and compliments

Couldn't agree with you more there V10, we think the premise of the site has been lost to many. It's a swinging site not a fantasy site. Although both can be achieved, the verification process doesn't reflect the true intentions of the cpl's and or singles. Some do it as a form of acceptance  whilst still hiding there true intentions. For those of us seeking playmates, makes the waters very murky and trying find genuine people who want to swing and not just sit in rooms chatting or simlpy *perve*. Whilst we enjoy the chat we use it as a form to get to know people with a view to meeting up, not just endless chat about (what are your fantasies). Every interaction is different and comes with all kinds of challenges.

We encounter quite a few, the usual excuses, and the classic guy wanting to meet alone.

We like to do social meets before play, that usually sorts out the fakes.  

As a couple, we get a lot of quite crude messages,, and even abuse when we don't want to hook up straight away, thus the Mr does most of the initial chat online, then we set up a meet somewhere public if she is interested.

As these sites have become more widely known, sadly the desperate single males, often devoid of redeeming social skills jump on on thinking they can get laid.

Mind you, we have met some very nice singles on here, a few bi males who have joined us but the art of conversation, lack of demands for pics right off the bat are what get them into our bed.

Sorry to hear of your bad experiences Biplay. We rarely get any messages, crude or otherwise lol. We have been very lucky in meeting lots of lovely people from here, singles and couples. Haven't played with all those we meet for various reasons, but still keep in contact with most. You have to be vigilant in weeding out the picture collectors though lol, lots of them about.

It is now patently apparent when a profile is either a fake couples profile or a fantasist single male. 
Fake couple is a single picture , usually stolen from Facebook, of both of them clearly recognisable and probably at some social event. “Fill this in later...” is another indication and standard age and body shape. 
Single male fantasist has usually been on here for many years, often ten or more, no comments on profile, no pictures, has everything but the kitchen sink in their list of sexual likes. I even saw a comment from a guy on a ladies profile saying, “I would love to see your other pics, I’m not very good at technology and don’t know how to add a pic myself”. 11 years he has been on this site, ELEVEN YEARS!!! Still no photo!! Lol. He will never meet, just pure wank material for him. 

So sorry to hear your bad experiences Biplay very disappontingnfor us being basically a trio we have had quite a few single males thinking they are in for an easy score with me(female of our trio) for a one on one, first question I ask if the message is polite is "Have you read our profile" if answer is yes I say well your not reading it right, go away. If message is crude or anyone gets nasty its a straight out, "piss off" this seems to stop any problems. There seems to becoming way too many single males and males claiming to be couples getting into group, many just to have a perve, disappointing for us as we are genuinely looking for playfreinds, hard enough that we are a trio  but weeding out the ummm pricks gets a bit tiring.