If a profile hasn't been used for a period of 3 months it should be removed from the site to stop people from wasting our time in finding what we're looking for.
If a profile hasn't been used for a period of 3 months it should be removed from the site to stop people from wasting our time in finding what we're looking for.
If an unpaid member profile, yes.
it is a bug bear issue raised often, but how would you feel if you went away or your circumstances change and you hadn't logged in for a while, feel when you came back your account has been removed.
One tra8n of thought a few years ago was to have an icon on the profile in searches come up when the user hadn't logged in for a while.
Yob
Yob thats an excellent idea
there is a link, https://www.swingersheaven.com.au/eNwWWkZVHXHb8vFG that can be used to add things. I have used it and to the credit of Admin she will look at new ideas. It does work. Years ago I instigated a Bisexual forum as most other types were there.
Yob
Thanks for all your replies and they all make sense.
I agree brother too many empty profiles never seen never online My area for example should be the unicorn capital but never seen never online waste of membership spaces
Also, should be a rule that there needs o be at least 3 pics, and couples need pics of not just the guy...so many Fake couples.
No face shots needed in public gallery, discretion is a must for so many, but verification would be a good thing.
Yeah, I agree
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Also, should be a rule that there needs o be at least 3 pics, and couples need pics of not just the guy...so many Fake couples.
No face shots needed in public gallery, discretion is a must for so many, but verification would be a good thing.
As a rule I take unverified couple profiles with a grain of salt. To be verified a picture if both and a code is presented with a mid or admin vetting it.
Some choose to cam as well. But you need to understand that some can't put pictures up because of what they do or where they live. Another reason is that some trolls actually save the pics and use them if they are the people 8b8tbhe picture. SH has a good picture infrastructure with different time limits on how long an album can be accessed for.
Yob
Quote by yobandlrigQuote by Biplay69As a rule I take unverified couple profiles with a grain of salt. To be verified a picture if both and a code is presented with a mid or admin vetting it.
Also, should be a rule that there needs o be at least 3 pics, and couples need pics of not just the guy...so many Fake couples.
No face shots needed in public gallery, discretion is a must for so many, but verification would be a good thing.
Some choose to cam as well. But you need to understand that some can't put pictures up because of what they do or where they live. Another reason is that some trolls actually save the pics and use them if they are the people 8b8tbhe picture. SH has a good picture infrastructure with different time limits on how long an album can be accessed for.
Yob
that's true there are a lot of factors to consider discretion is a big part of this lifestyle due to our professional lives and our personalised family many factors come into what we can and can't do or what is wise or unwise.
It would be relatively simple to have the verification system in that people could verify their a couple through the photos that don't necessarily have to be published on the page or go automatically to a special private folder and of course watermarking pictures does make it easier as they tend not to be stolen and reused.
at the end of the day there are no real shortcuts this is like everything else in life where we have to think of it critically take our time and use our common sense and yes be a little suspicious until people can establish they are who they claim to be
Quote by Biplay69It would be relatively simple to have the verification system in that people could verify their a couple through the photos that don't necessarily have to be published on the page or go automatically to a special private folder and of course watermarking pictures does make it easier as they tend not to be stolen and reused.
Both of these are in place at the moment.
There was a glitch a few years ago when the water marks didn't work but was sorted quickly. The only thing that I would really like to be able to do is reposition the water mark in my pics
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We just look at the "last on line" under "about" on the profile page, if its over 1 or 2 mnths we move on to the next profile. We wouldn't worry to much about who you send messages too, as we find not many people reply. We figure they must be fake profiles, or, for what ever reason, they are not interested. If we don't get a reply, after they have visited our profile again, we block them, obviously fakes, just looking for wanking material. Do us all a favour people if you get a message at least have the decency to reply, a "thanks" but "no thanks" doesn't take long, and costs nothing.
Cheers and stay safe
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We just look at the "last on line" under "about" on the profile page, if its over 1 or 2 mnths we move on to the next profile. We wouldn't worry to much about who you send messages too, as we find not many people reply. We figure they must be fake profiles, or, for what ever reason, they are not interested. If we don't get a reply, after they have visited our profile again, we block them, obviously fakes, just looking for wanking material. Do us all a favour people if you get a message at least have the decency to reply, a "thanks" but "no thanks" doesn't take long, and costs nothing.
Cheers and stay safe
Yeah but the problem is people tend to message and invite even if you have specific criteria for the people your looking for.... sometimes we just think “why bother 🙄🤷🏼♂️“
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Yeah but the problem is people tend to message and invite even if you have specific criteria for the people your looking for.... sometimes we just think “why bother 🙄🤷🏼♂️“
Not to mention the random friend requests.
Winks I understand as sometimes, that is the only way a standard member can initiate contact. I have set my winks up so they can At least type a message. If they don't then I ignore. Personally I think the friend button should be part of the mail system so that At least you don't have people just looking quickly and making a request strait away.
Yob
the verification process needs to be apart of the sign up, we’ve been on here for ages and only came across it tonight, at least a message suggesting it.
You can go into advanced search to find what your looking for.
Fake Profile: There 3 different types
1) Profile that have website link, not a real person.
2) Profile that have been used once and never login into again after 3-6-9-12 months should be removed and also they're fake profile for SH?
3) I beleive that there is a 3rd party hiring company that makes fake profile for adult sites like this 1 to boost their number because when you look at the active female member's there is only a handful of REAL WOMEN per-state, it work out to be like 10 men to 1 women.
4) red flags are ages from 18 to 28 fair good looking women with pretty much no info and looking for a relationship and NO 1 night stand.
I don't know why you guy's even bother wasting your time becuase I see the BS!
You should be more worried about never getting a reply back to your message or ping pong message that lead to nothing or time waster who don't show got better chances of guessing all 6 number with the power ball...LOL
What I would like to see is some of these full paid member removed for time wasting, they've NO intention of wanting sex and it's all a mind game. It's all about getting how many like and comment can I get!
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If a profile hasn't been used for a period of 3 months it should be removed from the site to stop people from wasting our time in finding what we're looking for.