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Warming the Bed
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I love strapon sex but my missus thinks if she gives it to me regularly she may turn me gay. I love the feel of being dominated while she does so.
Warming the Bed
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If regular strapon play makes you gay, my hubby must be as gay as they cum lol. He gets my toys quite regularly.
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I think this pegging thing is definitely for gay guys in hetero relationships... they are thinking about a guy doing them in the butt while their female partner does them ... I girl I see eventually left her partner as he was homosexual she used to do this to him regularly in fact it was the only thing that got him excited ... it like this I'm bisexual thing guys try on lol if you put anothersd guys penis in your mouth or anus or let him do it to you guess what you are a homosexual not being judgemental just calling things what they are
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are you serious??? So i like to play with girls, so i must definitely be a lesbian?? I enjoy having a man in my life and have no interest in sharing my life with another woman.....girls are fun to play with. This my uneducated fellow site member shows how shallow some people can be. Why is is ok for girls to play with girls, but not guys with guys.... sex is just that, sex. A relationship takes things to a whole new level, and whatever that relationship is, is up to the individuals involved. If a man wants to take something up his arse, whether it be a strap on or another cock, it does not make him gay. If he chooses to have sexual relations and share his life with another man in a partnership... that is a different story.
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I love strapon sex but my missus thinks if she gives it to me regularly she may turn me gay. I love the feel of being dominated while she does so.
ask her what would she like to pleasure her its a two way street hun seems its all you
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I think this pegging thing is definitely for gay guys in hetero relationships... they are thinking about a guy doing them in the butt while their female partner does them ... I girl I see eventually left her partner as he was homosexual she used to do this to him regularly in fact it was the only thing that got him excited ... it like this I'm bisexual thing guys try on lol if you put anothersd guys penis in your mouth or anus or let him do it to you guess what you are a homosexual not being judgemental just calling things what they are

This is the logic of a peanut. Exactly how many guys who like being pegged have you spoken to in order to come to the conclusion that "they are thinking about a guy doing them in the butt"? Zero I'm guessing. Have you ever stopped to consider that people are capable of enjoying a sensation for the sake of the sensation?? Then you use your partner's experience to validate your ridiculous claim? And what has your last statement got to do with pegging? There's no penis involved in pegging numbnuts.
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I think this pegging thing is definitely for gay guys in hetero relationships... they are thinking about a guy doing them in the butt while their female partner does them ... I girl I see eventually left her partner as he was homosexual she used to do this to him regularly in fact it was the only thing that got him excited ... it like this I'm bisexual thing guys try on lol if you put anothersd guys penis in your mouth or anus or let him do it to you guess what you are a homosexual not being judgemental just calling things what they are

Ah the opinion of a 'real' man from a 'macho' society. Reeks of fear, conditioning and uncertainty! I wonder, "Do you play football?" Grow up, or if its some issue from your past, theres no shame in seeking help.
Anyway enough unconstructive invective from me, onto the pieces that are constructive. This situation can be laid to rest with such ease its amazing. "TO WHOM DO YOU TURN TOO, OR ARE NATURALLY ATTRACTED TOO, TO FULFIL YOUR HUMAN NECCESITY FOR EMOTIONAL CONTENT IE INTIMACY". The emotive aspect is the key, not the sex. The sex is indicative yes, but certainely not definitive. In my experience, a person is born with their sexuality. If they can be converted then they were not what they perceived (or were conditioned to believe,) themselves to be. I've met a woman born into a mans body (a real bitch to work with, let me tell you) who was married & had children, etc but repeatedly sought male lovers inside the workplace context. I met an English lesbian whom I came to believe was an "environmental homosexual." because after she become comfortable with my presence, she developed an attraction for me, much to her confusion. After a little probing she revealed that after engaging in homosexual sex with her girlfriend, they didn't often sleep together & never really cuddled or lay in each others arms, basking in the afterglow (prob my most favourite & fulfilling, part of the whole process). Delving into her history, I discovered that her mother had died soon after she was born and she had been raised by her father. I believe she grew to maturity with the male set of, for want of a better manner of description, values & perceptions. From my own experiences, which are the only ones I can talk about with certainty, I'm defineately a heterosexual, but I play on both sides of the fence with no problems. I have done so throughout my entire life. Being penetrated is fulfilling and Mr 'Bulldog13' would be utterly astouded were he to discover that us males can actually achieve a type of orgasm from it. The key point in my life, that led to this understanding of human sexuality, happened at a party, one night. After imbibing way to excessively, someone grabbed me from behind and planted a kiss on me. Having been in a de-facto relationship for a lot of years I naturally assumed it was my missus so I kissed back, with all the passion and familiarity of a long time couple. When the fact ,that I was tasting white ox tobacco and .feeling a bearded face, broke through the haze of booze, I was utterly shattered. It was repugnant. It made my skin crawl, and still does to this day. Oddly enough, afterwards, that particular gentleman (whom had meant the whole thing as a prank, never expecting me to kiss back) and I became quite good friends, often joking and horsing around about the event with each other, though we never ever got within that close a proximity ever again.
So to me, the initial author of this post is obviously hetrosexual - it's his WIFE that he wants to do the deed. And for all those gentleman out there who have a little uncertainty about their sexuality & wish to resolve that, I say , "Go and kiss a bloke, just like you would a lover!"
Believe me, after that, there will be no uncertainty. You will know, one way or the other, on which side of the fence you were born.
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I will say well put!
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are you serious??? So i like to play with girls, so i must definitely be a lesbian?? I enjoy having a man in my life and have no interest in sharing my life with another woman.....girls are fun to play with. This my uneducated fellow site member shows how shallow some people can be. Why is is ok for girls to play with girls, but not guys with guys.... sex is just that, sex. A relationship takes things to a whole new level, and whatever that relationship is, is up to the individuals involved. If a man wants to take something up his arse, whether it be a strap on or another cock, it does not make him gay. If he chooses to have sexual relations and share his life with another man in a partnership... that is a different story.