We're both really keen for our first time with another couple/group/gangbang... Hubby is very shy and nervous about his performance ability (pretty much he's scared he's not going to last very long or won't be able to get hard).does anyone have any advice?
hey guys, join in the chatroom closest to yourselves and get a comfort level happening. Go to a local Meet and Greet. Contact some other couples, arrange a meetup with no expectation of sex. Get to know people. Make sure there's a spark there, then see where life leads.
In my personal opinion,and it might not be everyones', trying to get quick sex will not do you any favours - especially in the 'performance' stakes. Too much pressure, too quickly, may hinder any attempts to have fun. Let it flow naturally. The best lovers are friends as well. Unless you are after hot and dirty meaningless sex (which can also be quite fun, just in a different way), in which case, broadcast your attentions, and get ready for an influx of single guys
My hubby was like that initially. It's just a matter of finding the right parties - people. Look for parties where there is NO pressure to play - where you can just go and meet and chat to people. Eventually you find people you click with and take it further. I'm sure most people are nervous. We've being doing this for years and I am always nervous - even if I've been to the same place numerous times before. It's natural - once hubby feels comfortable he'll be fine. I know there have been times when we have both gone to a party not intending to play but somehow we have both ended up having an amazing time. Just relax and chill and don't put pressure on yourselves.
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