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Hi Everyone, I'm brand spanking new to all of this and just wanted to hear some advice from of you more experienced guys and girls! There are a few things on the bucket list that I would love to tick off sooner then later, Dogging and a Threesome/Orgy are right at the top, In regards to the dogging, I am located in the Liverpool area in Sydney and Im just after the spots to head to so that I can have a watch of other couples in action and what not!? Help and advice would be greatly appreciated! Jasper93
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There are a couple of 'go to' forum posts you might like to read: This one in the Current Affairs forum is about solo guys: http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/3BRuw0pF6zrrRTp4 This one in this forum is all about hints and tips for solo guys looking for couples: http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/WdrAmIC3ZUGELJ4K If you click on the 'Doggin' tab, it will take you to posts regarding where people are going. Also keep an eye open int he 'Lets Meet Up' forum, for doggers as well. In general, be nice, treat everyone with respect, don't be a lout. Hang out in the chatrooms, find the one closest to you and introduce yourself. Talk to people, not necessarily about sex, but so that people get to know you, recognise your name, and don't associate you with the run-of-the-mill solo guys looking to get laid (while this might be your ultimate goal, no one likes to feel like a slab of meat). Cruise profiles, and read them. Contact if you think you might be a match AFTER you read the profile. A lot of female/couple profiles state they do not want messages from solo guys. If you do message, make it more than one sentence, and make it intelligent. Most couples/women get multiple message per day and will only respond to ones that are interesting. For example, a dick pic and the comment "Wanna Fuck?" is not likely to get you any response at all, while a well thought out message, saying why you think you might be a match, referencing their profile and in general being friendly, MAY get you a callback, but may not. Remember, it's the internet. Some people are rude, some are nice, but we are all people, not just words on a screen, and you should do fine. Good luck searching smile