How does being a larger woman effect swinging? I don't mean just curvy. Are women too self conscious and men don't mind the soft cushioning? What sized woman do people expect if someone has put themselves down as large on their profile?
Sheba is a large lady, and a true BBW.
She has no problems at all when it comes to play, be that attracting partners or outlasting them (yes, she outlasts many guys). There have been occasion where the guys involved (slim, toned) have had to call a drinks break ast hey could not keep up with her.
It is safe to say that her size does not impede her play nor lessen the opportunity for it as there are many people (male and female) who prefer the larger person to the supremely toned (as is a personal choice)
shebzgaz
I have prefered larger women all of my life. as a young horny adolecent, my trhing was boobs. I quickly discovered that quite often but not always big boobs were attached to big women. I started to court the larger girls. Over the years I have learnt that big women (as with women of all shapes) If they have the riught mindset then they are so horny & the curves & padding add to the fun.................BBW"S for me thanks.
The size and shape of who we are shouldnt matter, we find the biggest and sexiest attraction is the personality and attitude of the person, the flesh is the wrapping and shouldnt really come into it. Those that make snide comments or dont think of how their comments affect people should really consider if the lifestyle is for them, as we come in all shapes and sizes colour and all the other differnces that people come in, this just adds to the whole experience of sharing ourselves with other like minded people.
My 2c worth
The size and shape of who we are shouldnt matter, we find the biggest and sexiest attraction is the personality and attitude of the person, the flesh is the wrapping and shouldnt really come into it. Those that make snide comments or dont think of how their comments affect people should really consider if the lifestyle is for them, as we come in all shapes and sizes colour and all the other differnces that people come in, this just adds to the whole experience of sharing ourselves with other like minded people.
My 2c worth
if people dont like us as we are ......we dont care ......we have fun and enjoy pleasing others ,,,,, its the chemistry that matters.....we look for people similar to us ,,,,,,,, neither of us like skinny anerexic people,,,,,,, it all comes down to personal choice ,,,,,, dont b put off by your size ,,,,, go out and enjoy yourselves ,,,,,,cheers all
Hey QriUs
Someone else said it before - it's about the chemistry. If somebody turns you on....they turn you on. And it's a combination of factors...smile, sense of humour, a twinkle in their eye....but we all have personal preferences even if we haven't identified them.
If you have photos of yourself on your profile, there can be no mistaking your size. But it's not until you meet someone that you will know if the entire package is somewhere you want to go.
I find that being a larger girl is an advantage as those that want to play are doing so because being large is not something that worries them. Also, being sexy is a state of mind not just a body image. I love being sexy and have never had trouble being appreciated. Like minded people tend to attract each other.
I say go for it and enjoy.
You know what the ironic thing is,
All through the 70's & 80's I chased mainly large curvy bbw girls . they were my thing & still are. All my friends were chasing "super-models"
I met & married my partner. She was a size 16 then & all our married life has fluctuated between size 16 & 22. OUR SEX LIFE HAS NEVER SUFFERED OR WANED BECAUSE OF HER SIZE. the last few years she has remained a 16 , where she is most comfortable. She has never tried to diet, she eats healthy & most importantly is happy & so am I , & most people we play with are also happy.
My Friends though all married slim pretty girls, who now after having families are large . I often rib them about it & thier partners/wives also do,
we have alot of fun (not sexual) when ever we get together.
Ironic isn't it
We are a large couple, whilst we dont let that stop us from playing, we have found a fair few couples that we chat too are not interested in playing with larger people. Its also funny that more than 80% of these contact us later to see if we would be interested in meeting the male half of that couple alone. So maybe its the females that have more of an issue with larger people than the males??
don't mind large ladies as long as there are some nice curves and a visible sense of proportion...
infact I really enjoy it if there are some nice curves to feel and hold on to.
I am a bigger woman size 24 to be precise, this in our experience does seem to have put people off, there loss however. We do 'struggle' to find people that will accept us for who we are, but those who do meet us and play always come back for more so we cant be that bad, so stop judging people by there looks and get to know the person for who they are.
Just my thoughts on the topic
Mrs Cuddes
I'm happy to read such positive comments about big girls. In my experience big is beautiful, personality traits of bigger girls are so much sexier. There seems to be less need to compete. I am currently between a 20 and 22 and although am not completely happy about my bits am happy to share them with those who love them and adore me for who I am. you can be pretty and skinny and have a horrid personality, which makes you unattractive. Or you can be big and pretty with an amazing personality which will bring anyone to their knees. Big girls don't cry they laugh. :inlove:
Happiness and being comfortable with your size shines through and is sexy. I love my curves, large breasts, large buttock and can laugh at myself.
The messages received on this site are from guys who love the larger curvy female form and when playing at clubs, I am constantly told how sexy curves are which is refreshing and lovely to hear as its a wonderful boost as I expected guys would go for the skinny girls.
I see more guys around larger women in the pools, so dont be shy of your body, embrace your bits and be happy with yourself.
women are made to have curves - learn to love yourself and it will come across to others who will be attracted by your inner beauty.
now if we all looked the same what a boring place the world would be
THE BEAUTY OF A BBW (A POEM)
She is a Big Beautiful Woman
Endowed with a pretty smile and full hips
She wears sexy attire
Fully aware that men admire her full hips
She doesn't need to purchase push up bras
To enhance her cleave and bust size
She doesn't aspire to be thin
because men secretly desire her plus-size
She may not have the shape of a figure eight
But she has a positive mind state
She's a bountiful and confident BBW
her beauty is not defined by her weight
She'ds a beautiful bodacious BBW
Notice the confidence she exudes
She doesn't need to undergo liposuction
or weight reduction
to have a positive attitude
She realizez that a BBW is the quintessence
of feminine pulchritude
There is a feminine quality
that big beautiful women posses
Men quickly become obsessed
with her ample booty and breast
Her seductive smile
sense of style
leaves all who meet her impressed
the contour of the curves beneath her dress
reveals that she is bountifully blessed
Chemistry and sexuality/sensuality...that's what we're looking for. We want to see the curve on the lips as well as the curve on the hips. We want some swing in the body and soul. We want a mind and body that is open to experience. That is a sexy woman!!
Hooray to all who have replied with words of encouragement...you are here for the reasons that we are. If your tits still make your body tingle and hot breath on your neck makes you quiver then your body shape is irrelevant. Post your sexy photos and meet the right people xxx
Quote by 2_4orgy My Friends though all married slim pretty girls, who now after having families are large . Ironic isn't it
Too true
Quote by husbandandwife Its also funny that more than 80% of these contact us later to see if we would be interested in meeting the male half of that couple alone. So maybe its the females that have more of an issue with larger people than the males??
I hope you tell them to get stuffed! Alot of in shape good looking women have ther heads jammed fair up their ass, they are treated like princesses all their lives due to their easy on the eye exterior & set high standards for themselves. Over time their personality turns to shit as a result
OK, I'm considered a BBW (size 14) and get a fair amount on attention on here. Mostly young guys but I'm not complaining. I'm not fussy about size, I like a bit of squidge and knowing that if I sit on a guys lap I will not break his legs
However, I had a bade fall when I was 18 and my hip suffered. My hip doesn't turn as much as I would like and sex is painful with very obese men. Other than that, as long as a guy can keep up with me I don't really care about size
It is a shame we can't search on here for sizes, I find lots of people interested in other states but not Brisbane, I would love someone to find who appreciates bigger women in Brisbane, and yes I do come with a fantastic hubby who loves to play too.
I'm a larger girl....and comfortable with who I am.
If people choose not to play with us because they're not turned on by girls with curves then that's their choice and they're entitled to it.
Likewise it's my choice if I choose not play with a slim/athletic female or male because they don't do it for me, or I don't like their personality.
It's all relative.
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THE BEAUTY OF A BBW (A POEM)
She is a Big Beautiful Woman
Endowed with a pretty smile and full hips
She wears sexy attire
Fully aware that men admire her full hips
She doesn't need to purchase push up bras
To enhance her cleave and bust size
She doesn't aspire to be thin
because men secretly desire her plus-size
She may not have the shape of a figure eight
But she has a positive mind state
She's a bountiful and confident BBW
her beauty is not defined by her weight
She'ds a beautiful bodacious BBW
Notice the confidence she exudes
She doesn't need to undergo liposuction
or weight reduction
to have a positive attitude
She realizez that a BBW is the quintessence
of feminine pulchritude
There is a feminine quality
that big beautiful women posses
Men quickly become obsessed
with her ample booty and breast
Her seductive smile
sense of style
leaves all who meet her impressed
the contour of the curves beneath her dress
reveals that she is bountifully blessed
However, I had a bade fall when I was 18 and my hip suffered. My hip doesn't turn as much as I would like and sex is painful with very obese men. Other than that, as long as a guy can keep up with me I don't really care about size
