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Thoughts on bisexual husbands

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Warming the Bed
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Same, and she loves the thought of me with another guy.

Have had a few mmf plus mm.

Good on you

Unknown User
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We've had a couple of MMF sessions, which my wife found very exciting. (So did I lol). I've also had a couple of MM sessions in the past that she is aware of.  Love to try again one day.  It's been too long.

Warming the Bed
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It really is on another level.

It is amazing how many guys contact wanting to get with a 'couple with bi male', or at least have the wife present for the mm contact.

But won't invite a bi guy into their fun for fear of what the wife would think...pity.

Makes for a wider range of dirty talk too.

Warming the Bed
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im all for it !! 

Warming the Bed
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absolutely, give me mmf over ffm any day !!!! more fun and less hassle lol 

Warming the Bed
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hey guys as a bi curious  guy who's only had one encounter with a couple I felt the whole experience was amazing for both myself and them ,  I was able to fulfill there fantasy and in doing so my own there was a bit of awkwardness at the start but as we got comfortable we all had an amazing time and she got off the most as we both went down on each other , definitely keen on more encounters 

Unknown User
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I love it when a woman understands that guys need some cock occasionally. 

Unknown User
Swingers Heaven Logo 7 likes 2 years ago

Oh I find MMF so hot. I prefer playing with two boys that want to play with each other too. As long as I'm the centre of attention though ;) 

Unknown User
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I love a woman who gets turned on by Guy on Guy action. Makes things much more interesting. 

Forum Virgin
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hi my wife knows i'm bi although she hasn't done mmf with me , so where to now ?

Sexlightened
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yes its exciting, adds another dimension to the playing

Forum Virgin
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my long term play partner gets turned on when watching bi guys playing with me! Loves to hold me tight while I am penetrated. Her only condition is that she gets her share of our cocks!  MMF threesomes have now got that extra special attraction

Jamicp
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Swingers Heaven Logo 5 likes 2 years ago

So long as you are open about it and both are comfortable with however you decide to handle the matter. Then go for it.

Forum Virgin
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Have a great married couple i catch up with in Melbourne - such an amazing experience for all with lots of oral and double p which she loves - a great experience with the right people and vibe (so to speak!)

yobandlrig
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Quote by baldeagle_61
hi my wife knows i'm bi although she hasn't done mmf with me , so where to now ?

 Same boat as you. For her it is just letting gi and be able to have sex with out an emotional connection. May I suggest you talk about it first making her understand that you live her and that being a bisexual doesn't mean you live her less. We have started slow and my male playmate understands that time is required till she gets her kit off. Out plays when she is present is so far as a spectator in oral sessions. Our next will take it a notch up and he will mount me. Hopefully she will give him a hand?. Once she is comfortable enough and she wants to have a ride, then i will just sit back and watch.

Funtimes81
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Quote by yobandlrig
Quote by baldeagle_61
hi my wife knows i'm bi although she hasn't done mmf with me , so where to now ?
 Same boat as you. For her it is just letting gi and be able to have sex with out an emotional connection. May I suggest you talk about it first making her understand that you live her and that being a bisexual doesn't mean you live her less. We have started slow and my male playmate understands that time is required till she gets her kit off. Out plays when she is present is so far as a spectator in oral sessions. Our next will take it a notch up and he will mount me. Hopefully she will give him a hand?. Once she is comfortable enough and she wants to have a ride, then i will just sit back and watch.

 great way to approach the situation like this. This approach will be more rewarding in the long run making for many enjoyable nights 

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Unknown User
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mine is desperately waiting for a nice fem transgender gal to fuck us both and then get double p from the gal and me hehehe

yobandlrig
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Quote by BrisBiker
mine is desperately waiting for a nice fem transgender gal to fuck us both and then get double p from the gal and me hehehe

 ? may need to have a peek in grindr for that to happen

Forum Virgin
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hi, I told hubby I was bi a few years ago. And he said he was bi bi. He always loved me playing with his arse.

I love watching hubby with another guy. It is such a turn on sitting back and watching them. When we have another bi couple it is wonderful to watch him going down on a guy whilst I go down on girl at the same time. Being bi opens up a lot more combinations.? 

Funtimes81
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some awesome stories coming from you all. 

dubbodave
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I’ve told my wife I want Cock but doesn’t really think I’d like it. But I’ve had quite a few ?? trying to get her to swing again after 20 years since last time. So keep playing bi on the quiet which sucks. 

wickedcat
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I used to play with a couple where the guy had "bi-curious" listed on his profile, and when I asked how curious  (so that I didn't cross boundaries), they told me that he had never had any m/m contact .... fast forward an hour or so, and I started to share sucking him with his wife, which progressed to me sucking him while she watched and played with herself ...... At the end of our fun, over a few drinks, she stated that watching two guys had made her a lot hornier than she had been in a long time ... and on subsequent visits, she encouraged more m/m play earlier in the proceedings blast 

Unknown User
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As a bi male who very much enjoys playing with couples, I find that it is more commonplace that a lot might admit too, with many straight couples often broaching the subject when we play.  And many of the wives are very much turned on by it as well., often happening at their suggestion or prompting.

For me, I think it is great if people feel comfortable to explore and enjoy things without fear of judgement.  Some are just testing, others finally exploring desires, to each their own.

It is odd that in todays world and amongst those in the lifestyle that bisexuality for males is still a bit of a fringe topic.  Hopefully over time it is less marginalised.

bijohn558
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Same here works better if you don't have to sneak around

yobandlrig
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well said Biplay69. Though unfortunately there are way too many guys around that advertise being Bi but are only saying that ti just bed down the lady have no interaction with hubby at all. Lrig has been put off (she is still happy to meet playmates for a chinwag and coffee, but alas no play)with having extra playmates because of this. The last guy we chatted with talking more what he would do with her and just have me cuckold.  And then got affended when she mentioned the strap-on and that she would peg both of us while we 69'd (btw short lived member as he deleted his profile). The above is why soo many are sceptical about profiles that say Bi males most that are honest and tag themselves as curiuos would have a better chance even if it is just oral and if still curiuos more may follow at another play session.. What is scarce though a true Versatile BI males.

dubbodave
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Well whilst i haven't shared a guy with my wife i'm happy to say i'm definitely Bi. I've had sessions with guys and look forward to them and chase them. I've told her i want a  guy but she doesn't think i would do it, trying to get her to share and she likes girls and talking about that gets her off. so a bi couple be ideal. ive masturbated to bi porn with her there so im not hiding what i want.  I agree the sad taboo about men discussing wanting other guys. quite ok for girls to discuss and lesbians so much more accepted which is right and wrong. i work in a very male blokey workplace and they be horrified if i was found out to be sharing myself with other guys.  a very discriminatory world we have. 

yobandlrig
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agreed dubbodave, I do find it rather amusing that some guys are all to eager the play around with another guy's partner and then get told to F### off when you mention theirs 

wickedcat
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As has been mentioned, the "would be" Bi guys have caused the majority of bi couples to be overly cautious when seeking playmates ... sometimes to the extent of missing out on a lot of fun ... or wanting prospective playmates to meet extraordinary conditions to ensure that they are not just after one partner.

On the flip side .... Bi males have a hard time meeting couples where the male of the couple is homophobic to some degree, and therefore won't take the chance of  m/m contact. :fuckinghell:

dubbodave
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its a challenge isn't it and u never know till you try do we. also many women seem to find it a real turn on, so cum on guys take one for the ladies and have a crack (puns intended of course). i've had some great times with couple and a bi guy and everyone had a  great time. 

yobandlrig
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One thing I have noticed is that Bi-curious guys have a hard time doing the mm thing in a group situation where there are a few extra couples present. Pure and simple I see it as a masculine thing. I was recently at a gathering where there were 4 other couples. I was eventually racked up in a sling with arm and legs strapped up and a mask placed over my eyes. 3 of the guys I know are bi. I was pegged by one of the ladies and the Host has his fair share of fun with me. The guys however all took a seat and I could hear one talking to his partner how hot it looked and that he wished he could "have his way" too. His partner said what's stopping you. I couldn't hear his response,  still it was fun thou the only ones playing where the Host and two of the ladies. This is where it is interesting. The week later there was an all male night. The guys from the couples night were there and (I couldn't make that night sad  ) but apparently from what I was told everyone was into everyone.

Masculinity or embarrassment. Which is it you decide dunno