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Contradictory Profiles

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Hi, I’ve got a question to which there could be a valid answer that I just haven’t come across. 

I see on many profiles under the Seeking section people will have set Straight male, Bi curious male and Bi male, or various combinations. Then in their description will come lines like “No single males”, “Single guys will be blocked”, “Single guys, don’t waste your time” and you get the picture.

So why set any combination under Seeking if that’s not what you want? Some of us doing a search will set criteria under “Looking for” but it’s pointless if people’s profiles are contradictory.

Is there a reason for this apart from maybe people changing preferences over time, updating in the description and forgetting the rest? What’s the go?

Warming the Bed
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I think its mostly a case if mistakes made when setting up the profile 

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Hmmm, mistakenly ticking some boxes but not others.

Sexlightened
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Perhaps its concentration in order to be a good liar you have to have a good memory.

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Good point! It shows how some people fail to show attention to detail. A profile is similar to writing a Resume, clearer the details are, better are the chances of success. smile

Sexlightened
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In our experience, most bi-claiming men are really only saying that to get to the woman.
We get contact from lots of single men claiming to be bi or bi curious. And then we get the "single straight male" profiles who message us anyway... claiming to be bi/ bi-curious... yeah right. 
We both like closeted bi married men, but thirsty single men, nah.