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My partner and I are sick of No Shows or people who do not even bother to communicate with a reply. We have had a few instances where a play was booked and the guy or couple just did not show up or offer an explanation. We are mature and we explain this in our profile yet we had a younger guy who was apparently terrified to play with a woman old enough to be his mother, even though he knew of this beforehand. My lady is a looker too so it is his loss.

Sexlightened
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This site is getting worse Jay, fake profiles and so many 'members' who have no intention of ever meeting. This is why I have pulled back, so difficult to be able to believe some profiles these days.

Warming the Bed
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Its on every site and part of human nature. You cant pick it either ive had singles, couples, young, old, local, distant and even lonely people who wanna chat either cancel or not show for playmeet.

Best bet is know what you want and what you expect, then the normal due diligence before getting to making a time/place to play. Ive met with so many cpls over the years who have mentioned in the first couple of sentences "you're the only one who did what they said, and showed up"

Its a pain in the ass although i dont think there is a way around this one.

Sexlightened
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Quote by jaycee51

My partner and I are sick of No Shows or people who do not even bother to communicate with a reply. We have had a few instances where a play was booked and the guy or couple just did not show up or offer an explanation. We are mature and we explain this in our profile yet we had a younger guy who was apparently terrified to play with a woman old enough to be his mother, even though he knew of this beforehand. My lady is a looker too so it is his loss.

was there a previous casual meet first up before a playdate was booked and paid for? and no its not an excuse for his average behaviour lol sometimes people find it daunting to play with people theyve never met before, and hes too embarrassed/scared to communicate to you that hes pulling out, so to speak

Sexlightened
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Hi Jaycee51, so Sad about the No shows, I must say your profile is probably the Issue maybe you need to profile it has a couple, just a thought, might help, Good LUCK

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Hi Jaycee51, so Sad about the No shows, I must say your profile is probably the Issue maybe you need to profile it has a couple, just a thought, might help, Good LUCK

My singles profile also says I am part of a couple, the couples profile name is there as well.

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Cool Jaycee51, I did not look at your Profile, well explained