What’s it like going to a swingers party?

I’m gonna try to go to a few either by myself or with a partner I know in the upcoming weeks leading up to Halloween. Anything I should know before I go being a newbie?

Hi Baz,

Depends on what sort of party it is. Some you have ti pay some you don't.  Personally I don't pay to play. I belong to group of about 20 couples, most are bi with the extra few singles of both sexes. You need to find out if it is a bi-friendly group. You don't want arguments starting because you weren't also need to know if it one on one or many in also need to pace yourself as you don't want your night over in the the first 30mins. Most of the ladies expect to orgasm two or three times atleast during the night. So if you find yourself about to cum, just ease off and make you way down and say helllllo to 'that little man in his boat' and a little tweaking with your fingers as well. When you are having a breather talk to people. At our nights there are times when a few sit and chit chat. Even when this is going on hands sometimes wander, leading to more not long after.

Most important.  Some are big, some are small. The night should be about fun and compliments,  most are there to have NSA sex, so what I'm trying to say is don't be picky who you play with and be curtious with all and the night will be great.

Cheers Yob

thanks man, great advice 🙌🏽

Take a walk around to get a feel of the areas in each venue. Some rooms are very open and free (just remember to always ask before doing anything), others more reserved. Bravado bullshit is easily detected so be you, be comfortable with yourself.  I did find however that I became quite a different version of the 'normal' me so don't be afraid as you relax that new ideas present themself.  

At most places there are plenty of experienced people there who are more than willing to guide a newbie through. Chat to your host on arrival.  

Seconding the previous response, pace yourself. There is so much play and fun to be had, it's not just about a fuck.

Only been to one,we enjoyed ourselves but was a bit of a learning curve.

Private playrooms were a bit small but the rest of the club was nice