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New and nervous about being too "niche"

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Hi everyone,

Firstly, I have to say that my experience with using SH has been great so far, I like the interface and the chatrooms have been largely friendly. However, I'm beginning to wonder whether who I am and what I'm after is a little too specific for the majority of people on here (and possibly in general as well!)

I'm always happy to chat with just about anyone, but I feel like I've already painted myself into a corner. It's good to know that there are people out there who are looking for someone like me, but I'm almost convinced I'd have more interaction as a single guy, as terrifying as that sounds to me! biggrin

Not looking for affirmation here, but just some advice on whether it's worth persisting.

-Ruby

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To be honest,  each to their own. I know a few m2f, f2m and CD's. From what I can gather you are are sure what you are after. Could actually say you are happy feeling feminine but still appreciate the lady folk and not so much guys. I'd say stick it out and keep doing what you like. People may still give a hard time about it but I tend to put those in the closet acting out and personally don't give a toss if the don't like what I put on offer. Just agree to disagree and move on,  if they persist then report them. Mainly the SH community is pleasant and I do Recommend to get a Meet and Greet. 


Cheers Yob 

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Thanks for the advice Yob, I can be a bit impatient at times so that was part of the motivation for the post.

As for the meet and greets, I'll definitely be attending one when we're all able to gather in groups again smile

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hi like to met