This is a HUGE move for me

Brand newbie here. Not sure what to say... and debating whether I should even do this.

I have a lot of reasons to be doing this, and a lot of reasons why I'm only just doing it now.

In short, I'm petrified right now. Petrified of failure *and* of success; petrified of this leap into the unknown. My having precisely zero confidence in myself as a viable sexual entity may not win me too many friends in these mysterious lands where "confidence" is one of the buzz words, but I just plain am swimming in the dark here. I don't know where or how to start, who to trust, or what I'm really even doing, but if there are people in here who might desire me, who might want to help me re-fuel my sense of sexual self-worth by letting me even LOOK at them with lust in my eyes, then I'm where I need - and want - to be.

I'm looking for guidance, I guess.

Words of Guidence from Lil_extra  (her)

Relax. Enjoy. Poke around . Ask Questions if you have any. Leave comments if you like photos..& have fun .People are generally nice here. 

Take your own time, to allow yourself to feel at ease. .Dont jump into anything unless your gut says yes..

We dont bite..Unless your into that. Lol

Thank you for a most helpful response. I am trying to be gentle on myself with this move, and I am already getting a vibe that suggests I'm on the right track. Small steps, like you said.