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Diesel79
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Quote by lonelydad
wow ,,,,was that a rant that your not getting none diesal79????? cause it certainly came across that way to me ,,which is surprising as having read your previous posts you sounded like you had your shit together and understood that despite the fact that you may match a person/couples profile requests 110% that is by no means a guarantee that they will be interested in you ,,regardless of your looks or apparent intelligence ,,,,
as for having no reply's to your messages ,,which I would assume from your posts are quite well written and polite ,,well yours are probably lost amongst the billions of rubbish messages that single ladies and hot couples receive on a daily basis, you sound like you have the fallen into the classic trap of expectation ,,,,you seem to expect a reply or reward simply because you have gone to some effort ,,,,sorry fella it just don't work that way, though it would be nice if it did.
I will agree that with both you and baa in surprise and shock that gcg ( whom I have chatted with many times) has had no luck in her search and but I would say to gcg to keep looking, it will happen sooner or later hun ,,and as you know ,,if I were in qld still you would of had a certain buddy in me should you of desired ..
diesel ,,,nothing is certain or guaranteed but with continued effort such as you have displayed, you will also meet folk just I have and do ,,,along with many others who may or may not reply to your posts
keep searching dude ,,,,,it is so worth it when the hunt comes to a fruitful conclusion .

Hey Lonelydad - Thanks for your response to my post, and sadly i think you have me a little mistaken, or mis-interpreted. I am by no means ranting on my own bat of my fruits - i am not complaining due to lack of interest, but pointing out the fact, that talk appears greater than fact. I am surprised that GC failed to receive adequate response, or any response at all, but my comments were pointed as a general word to all. I do not by any means expect anything from anyone, and i believe for me, that i am a giver rather than receiver in all walks of life, personally, professionally and the like. I am stating facts on the basis that (and correctly so in most cases), we are quick to blame the guys for their tardy and "interesting" remarks and comments they post, but too want to draw attention to the fact that many write profiles, but wonder if those profile are just words, to tease and tantalise, with no intent of anything more. I am not concerned as to if i do or don't meet anyone on this site to fulfil my profile or fantasy, but the key message i was delivering was focused around the fact that i do not just randomly message people, if i choose, selectively to send a message to anyone, i make certain that in depth i have read their profile, from top to bottom to ensure that i am in the category in which they search. From this, i expect nothing more than common decency, and having enough respect for others, this stems solely from the respect i have for me.
I believe in offering those the same as we expect in return, and to expect common courtesy, is nothing less than the basics of human decency. As such, if you want to meet good people, then offer benefit of doubt, by delivering to those, the same as you expect in return.
I completely accept that while i may "meet the guidelines of ones written profile", i may have not stirred ay interest, and that it 100% acceptable.
Lonelydad - i have met you at a Meet ad Greet, and you are a respectable, decent, and genuine guy. I have seen you in the chat rooms, and your comments are always respectful, considerate, and what anyone would expect as being decent. You on that basis can understand, or should understand that - respect goes a long way, courtesy does to.
Fair to say i was not ranting about my own mis fortune, and clearly set myself up for failure here - that is ok. What i do know is that over 1500 people have read my initial forum post (regardless of response), and if that helps anyone else to better the way they communicate, and look to gain the respect of others, before expecting anything in return - then i have contributed. Contributed to the better of others, but more importantly, the betterment of me. I stand true to my original post, and wish GC happiness, luck and good fortune in finding what she searches for and well deserves. Well done GC for putting it out there.
Enjoy everyone, stay happy....
Chow
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This post has been a total waste of time. There maybe a lot of single guys on this site but going by the response i have received, most are obviously attached and cheating.................ho hum........

Oh GC - i would like to say i am beyond speechless - but i am not. I am totally surprised on the one hand, but on the other not.
Your post was amazing, honest, real, true, specific and genuine. When i spend time on this site, i float between forums, chat room and profiles and the common things i see are as follows:
* In profiles - couples and ladies stating - NO SINGLE MEN - you will be blocked, do not bother, we will find you when we want you etc etc etc
* In forums - the single guys state - free now lets meet, or oh how i would love to do this and do that to you, or i am keen message me a time and place
A few days ago as you know (and we have spoken about this), i placed a post in the forums section - to my amazement, my post has been viewed in total by nearly 1500 members. On one post i received 10 replies another 12, and another none. All of the posts were from people (combination of males, females and couples) congratulating me for my words, and the effort, for trying to change the way people behave. I also received around 15 messages to my inbox all totalling about the same, all of which i have personally responded to with thanks and appreciation for the recognition.
I must however point out that, in all of the views received, and in all of the messages, not one was close to an offer, a suggested offer, an attempt at communication, or an attempt at even a friendship - nothing (Bare you). All the single guys avoided comments (Bare one with his one liner), and it too was a waste.
I have summarised that being real, sincere and genuine clearly gains no advantage. If the single ladies and couples on this site actually took the time to re-read their own damn profiles (in full), and then match that up to your forum post, or mine, there are a million reasons why connections should have been made, but yet nothing.
I have gine further personally by having identified a couple of ladies who are often i the chat rooms, who when readying their profile, detail exactly what i was looking for, i fit the bill in age, i match their comment requirements, and i match their profile which suggests they are looking for single males etc etc. I took the time to send them a message, to outline my profile, to refer to my forum post. Since sending the message, i have seen them in the chat rooms again - so fair to say they have been back online. And guess what - not even an acknowledgement, let alone a reply.
I have come to realise a few things
1: It is not only the guys that are the problem - while i do not discount the guys being problematic and have detailed posts to suggest this, but it is in fact a community issue - SH has become a chat group rather than its core - which has been lost
2: Both Guys and Girls looking for similar things are not finding it - not here anyway
3: The common decency has disappeared and i almost wonder if those posting the "quickies / gang bangs, couples parties and come and go type meets using un-educated vulgarity are better off than we are
4: I actually wonder if very much actually happens other than Meet and Greets and some commercial parties.
I have to say that i have officially lost hoped on SH and the only reason i remain a member / subscribed is the "enquiring mind" tempts me to log on and see what others have to say - but the realist in me has confirmed that if you want to be excited by the joys of who we are, find only excitement in yourself as no one can give you more than what you can give yourself.
GC - as i said to you, i would love to catch up with you when next i am up your way and only the distance between us will prevent me from being able to give you what you are looking for. I would have offered in a heart beat - and yes my offer would have been more than a one liner
It is with that in mind i wish you luck in finding what you are looking for in your search, and i say to all the single guys on this site who are brave enough to write a profile, suggesting they are looking for a lady, and who equally are brave enough to post in the forum section looking to meet - what happened guys - a real offer and the balls fell out of their sacks...???? Seriously?????
I am out - i am genuine, real, honest and reliable - i have more than one word in my vocabulary, and clearly that is not a recognised trait or quality - so instead of building hope, i will focus my energies elsewhere.
Good luck all - see ya SH!!!
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Hungaussie - i could not agree more. It baffles me how some guys talk to the woman on this site - i wonder if confidence comes from hiding behind the screen, and further wonder if they are the ones that promise to show, never do and give the rest a bad name. I can only wonder...... I know i have never spoken to my mother in the way some post comments, and if i had, i am sure i would have been clipped across the ears. More so, i respect myself, which makes respecting woman easy. I know what i like, i know what i want, but more than that, and more importantly, as i have stated numerous times before - and it never gets old.... My greatest pleasure is gained by the pleasure i give. For those that dont understand that i will explain in context of this site - Being willing and prepared to provide pleasure (i hope) for another person, is the greatest turn on for me, regardless of the outcome. This in no way suggests that you cannot have fantasy, be wild in bed, calm, clean or push the boundaries sexually, but doing so with respect for you, makes respecting others so much easier, and their pleasures are equally heightened by the same. This post of mine has generated some amazing interest, been seen by over 700 people, and i have not only read all the responses on the forum, but too have read every response sent to me via PM, and more than that - I HAVE REPLIED TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM. The responses and replies have all been positive and with great compliment - some have suggested that i should be flooded with interest - well in truth let me tell you that is not the case - none in fact, but i have had plenty of responses from people who agree with me, and my thoughts, and while maybe a little over confident in my comments, i think it is fair to say i have gained the starting point of respect from others on this site, and this places me in good stead. I know now, and have already seen it in the chat rooms - i get the greetings, the chats. What does this mean...well it means i may very well be well on my way to making new friends, regardless - and all because i was true to my heart and my head, placed in words what i believe, and took the time to actually do so - i have gained and will continue to gain the respect. So Guys - GIVE IT A GO. Drop the one liner vulgar responses and choose rather to respond to appropriate forms in an appropriate way, but READ THE PROFILES FIRST. To everyone on this site that has read, responded to or will read my posts - Thank you, and enjoy yourselves.....What ever it is you do, and however you go about doing it. To the ladies on this site who once contemplated single guys - but no longer does due to the influx of dumb comments, and harassing posts - give the good ones another shot if you will...... Have a great long weekend all
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Thank you guys for such great words. I appreciate it and will be at the next Meet and Greet. In the meantime, keep having fun guys.
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Hey GC Well done!!! What a fantastic post (if i may say so myself). I just hope that you too get the real guys, who have read your profile, thought about it first, before they respond, and hopefully can muster up a response better than a one liner which carries substance. I know that my posts have received amazing feedback and response (based on my post) although nothing on the other side - but that is ok. If it makes others think a little first, then for people like you, who are good, respectful and genuine, i hope you find what you are looking for. Good luck, and have faith - good single guys are out there. Lets hope that they can prove it Diesel
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I am glad you enjoyed the post and if nothing else i do hope the post has people thinking. I am so pleased with all the feedback and responses, and hopefully in turn this will too see ladies and couples open their minds to the guys who have the "realness" about them, and have something to offer.
Life is so complex, and it is only because we are complex.......
Have a great day everyone, stay safe, and enjoy.
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feel free to comment, i enjoyed it imensely.
im afraid i dont have the sort of word skills id like to have unlike a ew on here who actually know how to write
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Hi All, Wow - i am a little surprised - pleased in fact. Thank you firstly to all that has responded to my messages, and for the kind words. If i, along with the help and support of others on this site, in this community and part of this lifestyle can make a slight difference, and can step up, proving to those out there who think the same way we do, that guys (especially single guys) should not all be painted with the same brush, then we stand a small chance, but a chance non the less of being able to also find the happiness, care and respect that we seek to offer (the genuine ones that is). Sad to say though it remains true that many guys are just here for that "Quickie" and to fulfil their own needs solely. Look, in reality, this is ok, because that is who they are and what they want, and we never know - they may just find others who want the same so we will accept and respect that. I on the other hand, along with many others (as is being demonstrated by the feedback i have now received), want so much more - but instead of just wanting for ourselves, we look to gain respect, friendship, kindness and more importantly than ourselves, we look to fit in with and please those we are trying to attract, those with like mind, similar heart and the overall enjoyment of a community in which we embrace. One of the comments noted that people have busy lifestyles, and work various hours / shifts, have kids etc and the result of this is they are not always easily available to meet at the drop of a hat - i guess i am a little more fortunate in having more time flexibility and given this is my benefit, i put that out there so that it becomes the benefit of the lucky one that may one day look to catch up with me for a coffee or a chat. Why you ask is this becoming their benefit - well in essence, by being flexible, you have the ability to adapt to other peoples needs, wants, lives and schedules, and if i have the requirements or hope of meeting up with someone, well then i need to be flexible so that we can actually meet - at a reasonable time that works, that works not only for me but for them. Jut remember - if you have a need and a want, you need to know that so do other people, and being supportive of this will get you a lot further than just EXPECTING. To the guys out there - we do not come across with great credentials, and we tend to make that worse by our sad, weak and ill thought out posts saying: "I want to F%$K" or similar. This clearly shows little respect, or effort for ourselves, let alone those that read our posts. Equally, to those that post replies of similar one liners such as "time and place", or "Sounds good message me details" really adds nothing to the attraction, but emphasises the selfish expectations we have. Put in an effort, and the rewards will follow, in what ever fashion they follow - but good does come to those that give before they expect. To the couples out there - i guess all i am saying is that i understand the issue and concerns you have with single guys, the pushy nature, the bombardment of messages, winks, wanks and dumb posts and the unreliability of broken promises, but in the same breathe - believe that this is not across the board and that painting all with the same brush is not a fair call of judgement. Equally, it is worth saying - find the right guys and give them a chance, you may be surprised that there are a fair few that will give you the respect, will build trust in friendship and instead of battling to find away to fulfil your fantasy, you may find that the complexity that has been created need not be there. We do exist and some of us are willing to go the extra mile to prove it. I fear many couples have adopted the NO SINGLE GUYS approach not entirely because they do not want to engage with single guys, but because of the sheer issue that single guys have created in their weak approach, effortless comments and lack of commitment to promises - if you say we are meeting today, then you owe it to all concerned to show up as promised. That is the basic rule of consideration - and that is the expectation i have as a human, in my professional life as well as personal. In truth, if you cannot keep to the basics, then you are not deserving of anything greater - you set your own standards. Finally - to the single guys that have posted replies to my forum message (bar one or two) - THANK YOU. Thank you for acknowledging, respecting and providing positive comments, suggestion and most importantly - thank you for putting in the effort to type more than one line in your response - this shows me that there are many of us out there who are real, genuine, respectful and will do the right thing, and it with that evidence, with that thought i say - NOT ALL GUYS ARE ONE LINERS, ONE NIGHTERS - We all, be us single guys, single ladies, or couples joined SH for a reason, and we have in some cases got lost along the way. I wish everyone "enjoyment" in what ever it is they do. I hope i have not offended anyone in my comments, and i thank everyone that has replied or sent me a message for taking the time to do so, and for all the thought that went in to this. I think it may be time to.....write a book...I clearly have way too much to say.
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Thanks TT - i could not agree more (those one liner put off's that degrade us all)
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That's ok. Anyone can message us if they're just being polite and chatty. We don't bite nice guys. Maybe just a lick and a suck. lol
It's the pathetic "Wanna suck my fat cock tonight?" messages that we would rather not receive.
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i like wat u have to say

Thank you however one of the issues that so many of the ladies and couples tend to have with the single guys on this site, and an issue that helps in making it so much harder for us genuine single guys to get the "invites" or to actually meet genuine ladies / couples and the like is based on the fact that we "as guys" are so weak with words / or lazy or maybe even to expecting, that all we can muster up is a SINGLE LINE RESPONSE.
Without the intention of offending, if you read my post you will see that i am trying to point out to the ladies, that not all of us single guys are one liners, and to point out to the other guys that we need to re-build our credibility by putting in a real effort (with thought) - i find it ironic that over 150 people have read my post in half a day and the one key response i received was a ONE LINER
Well at least i have been humoured and amused (amazed or amused), either, neither or both.......
So i say, if the mind fails us, we still have our legs wink
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TemptedTwo - i sent you a PM ONLY to say thank you in private for your message. Take care and thanks again D
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Hi All Having spent a fair amount of time on this site, it is clear to all that Single guys either get a really bad wrap, or just seem to get ignored because couples are looking for couples and ladies tend to look towards the couples too. This is understandably so. I have also seen so many guys place comments and requests on this site, or respond with one liners - which really does not create attraction or interest. I would like to revolutionise this if i possibly can, but in truth not much can be achieved alone, so i am looking for some help. Here goes: I am a Professionally qualified, Self Employed Guy, 34 years old and love life. I am into most things where it is deemed adventurous, exciting or an experience, and willing to give it a go. That being said, i am totally against drugs, i drink a very limited amount of alcohol (good scotch and good red wine only), but only to compliment a good chat or a good meal - and not to get tipsy or drunk - ever. With the luxury of working for myself - my time is usually my own - this is not the case 100% of the time, but for most part it is, and for the rest, i have the ability to remain flexible. I live in the Bayside suburbs of Melbourne - so keep that in mind when considering locality. What i am looking for is: A Lady or a couple of similar age groups (say 20's to early 40's) who would like to get to know me, and who i can get to know. If you message me, i will reply, i will give you my telephone number (or you can give me yours in your message) and i will call. If we click on the phone, i would like to meet up with you - the sooner the better because anything exciting is based on a moment in time, and if we let that moment pass, we may miss out on what surrounds us. I will buy you a drink / a coffee and we can have a chat - again if the chemistry is right - then we collectively can decide if we want to take if further or not. I am not looking for a relationship of dependancy, but friends - with benefits if that works. Ideally, an ability to chat, but the comfort to play, even at the drop of a hat - i am happy to be your booty call if that works too. What i don't want is to waste your time, or have mine wasted either - i hate the hypocrisy on some profiles where people clearly stipulate what they want and what they don't, and when you fit that profile, and respond to them - they just ignore you. I am not like that, and i will treat you with the respect you deserve and ask for the same in return. If you want to meet - then we wont just talk about it - we will do it. Again, i will not waste your time, i am free in most part fairly quickly and be it a morning / afternoon or early evening - i am sure we can figure that out. My profile has a very limited photo collection - and due to the nature of my profession and industry - i intend keeping it that way. In saying that, my private album has face pictures, which i will happily share. Finally - as i said before - i want to revolutionise a couple of things and need your help - this is where i need your help.....I want to prove to me, to you and to all those on SW who have doubt, that by being a good person, doing the right thing, communicating with more than 1 liners, and by being clear about what we want, what we are looking for, and asking and offering the same in tone, attitude, commitment and respect - that good will come our way, and with that - i hope that the good will be recognised by a lovely lady, or couple with the same ideas and mindset, looking for a Friend with regular benefits in which together we can meet, chat and play - hopefully ongoing, and prove the point that this can and does exist. So can you help me - can i find what i am looking for, or is all hope lost in the sheer and simple fact that I AM A SINGLE GUY?
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Hi All Having spent a fair amount of time on this site, it is clear to all that Single guys either get a really bad wrap, or just seem to get ignored because couples are looking for couples and ladies tend to look towards the couples too. This is understandably so. I have also seen so many guys place comments and requests on this site, or respond with one liners - which really does not create attraction or interest. I would like to revolutionise this if i possibly can, but in truth not much can be achieved alone, so i am looking for some help. Here goes: I am a Professionally qualified, Self Employed Guy, 34 years old and love life. I am into most things where it is deemed adventurous, exciting or an experience, and willing to give it a go. That being said, i am totally against drugs, i drink a very limited amount of alcohol (good scotch and good red wine only), but only to compliment a good chat or a good meal - and not to get tipsy or drunk - ever. With the luxury of working for myself - my time is usually my own - this is not the case 100% of the time, but for most part it is, and for the rest, i have the ability to remain flexible. I live in the Bayside suburbs of Melbourne - so keep that in mind when considering locality. What i am looking for is: A Lady or a couple of similar age groups (say 20's to early 40's) who would like to get to know me, and who i can get to know. If you message me, i will reply, i will give you my telephone number (or you can give me yours in your message) and i will call. If we click on the phone, i would like to meet up with you - the sooner the better because anything exciting is based on a moment in time, and if we let that moment pass, we may miss out on what surrounds us. I will buy you a drink / a coffee and we can have a chat - again if the chemistry is right - then we collectively can decide if we want to take if further or not. I am not looking for a relationship of dependancy, but friends - with benefits if that works. Ideally, an ability to chat, but the comfort to play, even at the drop of a hat - i am happy to be your booty call if that works too. What i don't want is to waste your time, or have mine wasted either - i hate the hypocrisy on some profiles where people clearly stipulate what they want and what they don't, and when you fit that profile, and respond to them - they just ignore you. I am not like that, and i will treat you with the respect you deserve and ask for the same in return. If you want to meet - then we wont just talk about it - we will do it. Again, i will not waste your time, i am free in most part fairly quickly and be it a morning / afternoon or early evening - i am sure we can figure that out. My profile has a very limited photo collection - and due to the nature of my profession and industry - i intend keeping it that way. In saying that, my private album has face pictures, which i will happily share. Finally - as i said before - i want to revolutionise a couple of things and need your help - this is where i need your help.....I want to prove to me, to you and to all those on SW who have doubt, that by being a good person, doing the right thing, communicating with more than 1 liners, and by being clear about what we want, what we are looking for, and asking and offering the same in tone, attitude, commitment and respect - that good will come our way, and with that - i hope that the good will be recognised by a lovely lady, or couple with the same ideas and mindset, looking for a Friend with regular benefits in which together we can meet, chat and play - hopefully ongoing, and prove the point that this can and does exist. So can you help me - can i find what i am looking for, or is all hope lost in the sheer and simple fact that I AM A SINGLE GUY?
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Hi All Having spent a fair amount of time on this site, it is clear to all that Single guys either get a really bad wrap, or just seem to get ignored because couples are looking for couples and ladies tend to look towards the couples too. This is understandably so. I have also seen so many guys place comments and requests on this site, or respond with one liners - which really does not create attraction or interest. I would like to revolutionise this if i possibly can, but in truth not much can be achieved alone, so i am looking for some help. Here goes: I am a Professionally qualified, Self Employed Guy, 34 years old and love life. I am into most things where it is deemed adventurous, exciting or an experience, and willing to give it a go. That being said, i am totally against drugs, i drink a very limited amount of alcohol (good scotch and good red wine only), but only to compliment a good chat or a good meal - and not to get tipsy or drunk - ever. With the luxury of working for myself - my time is usually my own - this is not the case 100% of the time, but for most part it is, and for the rest, i have the ability to remain flexible. I live in the Bayside suburbs of Melbourne - so keep that in mind when considering locality. What i am looking for is: A Lady or a couple of similar age groups (say 20's to early 40's) who would like to get to know me, and who i can get to know. If you message me, i will reply, i will give you my telephone number (or you can give me yours in your message) and i will call. If we click on the phone, i would like to meet up with you - the sooner the better because anything exciting is based on a moment in time, and if we let that moment pass, we may miss out on what surrounds us. I will buy you a drink / a coffee and we can have a chat - again if the chemistry is right - then we collectively can decide if we want to take if further or not. I am not looking for a relationship of dependancy, but friends - with benefits if that works. Ideally, an ability to chat, but the comfort to play, even at the drop of a hat - i am happy to be your booty call if that works too. What i don't want is to waste your time, or have mine wasted either - i hate the hypocrisy on some profiles where people clearly stipulate what they want and what they don't, and when you fit that profile, and respond to them - they just ignore you. I am not like that, and i will treat you with the respect you deserve and ask for the same in return. If you want to meet - then we wont just talk about it - we will do it. Again, i will not waste your time, i am free in most part fairly quickly and be it a morning / afternoon or early evening - i am sure we can figure that out. My profile has a very limited photo collection - and due to the nature of my profession and industry - i intend keeping it that way. In saying that, my private album has face pictures, which i will happily share. Finally - as i said before - i want to revolutionise a couple of things and need your help - this is where i need your help.....I want to prove to me, to you and to all those on SW who have doubt, that by being a good person, doing the right thing, communicating with more than 1 liners, and by being clear about what we want, what we are looking for, and asking and offering the same in tone, attitude, commitment and respect - that good will come our way, and with that - i hope that the good will be recognised by a lovely lady, or couple with the same ideas and mindset, looking for a Friend with regular benefits in which together we can meet, chat and play - hopefully ongoing, and prove the point that this can and does exist. So can you help me - can i find what i am looking for, or is all hope lost in the sheer and simple fact that I AM A SINGLE GUY?
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I am looking for a lady who would like to join me for breakfast tomorrow morning (Tuesday 04th June) in Melbourne - Bayside or south east. If you are interested, please message me....i will take your for breakkie....and then for a massage if you like.... Send me a message if you are interested. Time to have some early morning fun!!!!
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Hi Englishoz, I would love to be apart of this sensational idea and play. Please can you let me know if i can join you guys. I am local to you, and can make myself available to be of service............ I hope to hear from you and to join in on the excitement Diesel
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I have found a good spot down by the beach close to ST Kilda / Elwood etc in melbourne. I was hoping to find someone who would be interested in catching up tomorrow morning for some fun times. I have been a couple times to this location and had the pleasure of watching and chatting to international tourists who were making out in their van, open windows for great views...and she was gorgeous. This time i dont want to watch - i want to play and would like to meet a lady or couple who instead of all the chit chat want the same thing. Message me. We can meet, we can play, have a coffee and say good day...until maybe next time, next time we again will play.....
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Diesel79
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In anticipation of a positive outcome to this forum post, i am so disappointed in the summary findings. I had more faith possibly than i should have in the forums assisting to arrange the random hook up, and more so, the quest to find what some of us are here to find may in fact be fantasy as opposed to reality. I can now only hope that my own personal profile will be read and i will get messages from similar, like minded people who want the same, and joined for the same reason - one day changing what is now only a fantasy in to what i hope to become a reality. I will limit my posts to the forums section none the less for realisation that the feeling of disappointment questions the value, and while spending some time in chats, possibly attending a meet and greet, and with the hope of my profile being spotted and read by those that think the same....this may be that last straw we now hold on to within this site and this lifestyle I have spent a fair amount of time driving between various "hot spots" and so seldom see any activity there, and on the very odd occasions that i have spotted anything....the doors were closed, lights off and windows shut - so fair to say no invitation to watch or participate.... The closest i came was a week ago at a great spot overlooking the beach, a couple lying in the back of a converted 4wd in to what looked like a back packers travel van, mattressed up and all. The male was lying back reading a book, and the female stripped down to her undies and bra (white) and looked amazing just lay next to him, ever so often looking out the window. The two front doors were wide open, i stood back for a fair amount of time...no activity. It was mid afternoon. Light out doors and anyone could see in the windows. Slowly i approached a little closer, but still far away from the couple and the car. I was the only other person around at the time. I made eye contact with the female while the male continued to read his book, i smiled, tried to shrug my shoulders, using my head, and arms to indirectly, or directly ask them if they were just resting or wanted to chat.....The lady shook her head, the male did not move from his book, so i tool that as they were not interested - just back packers finding a place to rest, and so i turned, walked away, got in my car and left....I still think about how gorgeous that lady looked lying there in her white undies and Bra, dark tanned skin, light hair...but that is the only memory of the moment i have, as it continues to remain a fantasy....when i had hoped it would become a reality on that day (with that lady).... So to all out there i say....if you are here for the same reasons as i am, and if your intentions are as real as mine, please read my profile, send me a message and make real my fantasy please. And to that lady in the white down by Elwood beach......thank you for what appears to have been one gorgeous visual which i retain in my mind, and if only you were there to play....and not to rest....if only!!!!!!!!!! Good luck all and happy chatting, playing or pretending - what ever it is that you are here for, may it be fulfilled for you!
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Diesel79
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I was thinking that if we came up with a little private identifier such as a Sticker on the car bumper or back windscreen placed on the bottom right hand side. The sticker could have just a plain colour...like green, or gold. It could even just be a round circle in black so not obvious to the general public, but if i pulled up behind a car on the road with say a black sticker on the back windscreen, it would be huge amounts of excitement and the like to pull up next to the car, wind down my window and say....Hi, i like your sticker. That is the handshake we all have been searching...Next thing you know, we may be in the car park at a local park, and excitement for all. Any thoughts
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Diesel79
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Guys, while i do not know BAA nor his friends (a couple) - i was fortunate enough to witness their meeting via the chatrooms where they were on cam for a fair amount of time (all three of them - BAA and the couple), and i was following their chat with great anticipation and enjoyment. So again while i do not know BAA, or his friends (who i might add have added posts to BAA's forum), i can vouch for the fact that they did meet up and the lady of the couple looked very excited to be where she was....and that heated up when her top came off!!!! This i find is unfair that people add their whinge to the post and good on ya BAA for taking up the challenge. As a single guy on this site, i have found it very difficult to meet single ladies or couples (even though they advertise in their profiles their interests in single guys (yes i do read all the profiles before i comment, message, ask to whisper or the like) so as to not offend. I choose not to offend because i am real, i am genuine and so are my intentions, and more so - if i say i will meet, or am invited to meet, i will meet if its the last thing i do because we are all only as good as our word until proven otherwise....and my word is my honour. Ladies, it appears BAA's request is genuine and so come on, give it ago....
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Diesel79
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I can only hope that others are game enough to join in, to drop past and say hi, be open and inviting to watch, be watched, to even just chat. Lets hope today is a good day
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Diesel79
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Hi Guys I have just sent you a PM, so please have a read and lets hope we chat soon
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Diesel79
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We all have an agenda, we all want to be satisfied and to satisfy and we all have the desires in which we need fulfilled in various ways...... The truth is that i am no different, i too want to be pleased, but equally most of my pleasure comes from pleasing others, and i am turned on hugely when i get to tease, play and pleasure be in orally, sexually, in various ways, in odd locations, spontainiously, enjoying the adventure I am professionally employed, in my early 30's (33 to be exact), of slim build and i love sex, the thought of, the adventure and the action. I am looking to find a lady in her 20's to 30's who is spontanious, loves life, loves sex and everything in between for a NSA regular fun in melbourne (bayside and SE) So if you want something fun, on going and available most days at the drop of a hat, message me, i will give you my number and lets get it on....
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Diesel79
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Guys, i would love to catch up with you when you are in Melb. I am a pleaser....i am open minded, energetic, and enthusiastic. More important, i pride myself on being reliable, and when i say i will be there....i will be there. If you guys are keen, please let me know, i will give you my number and we can meet. I hope you enjoy your time in Melb...Happy to show you some places too if you like
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Diesel79
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Guys if you are looking for someone at short notice during the days (mornings especially), i am available. Send me a message and i will give you my tel no. Pics available to so just ask Talk soon hopefully
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Diesel79
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Wouldn't it be nice.... Come on Melb people - we need to play catch up to NSW and find our spot to...where people are happy to come to, for a chat, a play. Come on melb what do you say
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Diesel79
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Hi Guys Sent you a PM with a photo - hope to get a reply from you soon D
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Diesel79
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I all, just to let you know that i have sent a PM to all that have replied or added to the post, and to all that sent PM's to me. Thanks for the responses and i am looking forward to this being a success Take care
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Diesel79
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Just off Power Avenue, some fun in the sun. PM if you are up for it. Some more ladies or couples would be great too. Hope to see you there
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Diesel79
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Are there any ppl who are up for some fun and keen to play in the area or close by this afternoon. Send me a PM and we can meet up!
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Diesel79
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If anyone is keen to meet an play in the Oakleigh Chadstone or close by this afternoon. Send me a PM.
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