There's a semi-regular event called Pounce, it's not a swingers party but certainly a good place for BBW lovers like myself to meet curvy ladies. It's in Melbourne and I'm in Adelaide so I can't tell you what they're like.
Pounce BBW Night isn't strictly a swingers party, but any BBW get together has to be good. Wish there were something like it in Adelaide.
Turns out a lovely MILF I'd often admired on my morning bus commute was on this site with her hubby. Didn't hit it off and end up playing, but interesting coincidence.
Everything about this sounds excitingly horny!
Shame this won't be going ahead, I was thinking that the upcoming long weekend may hold a promise of fun. I'll keep an eye out for any future plans though.
Absolutely down for that! Keep us updated.
Free for the ladies? Sweet! A lady friend of mine said she may like to check it out one day so at least she won't have to budget for it. I'll have to, as she won't go without a chaperone, but I'm only going to have to cover one ticket from the looks of things.
Keep us all updated!
A couple more weeks? Great! Time enough to get an opening weekend celebration organised.
Thanks for the update and clarification!
Anybody got any fun plans for the long weekend? Post them if you want to share.
Will definitely have to check this out then. It was such a shame when we lost the cinema in Hindley.
A spot out east of the city? Finally! Hope some couples take up the challenge.
I'd certainly be interested in watching! Are you sure the Aquatic Centre is a safe enough spot though? From what I remember it's fairly well lit and patrolled, and I reckon there's security cameras but may be wrong on that last one.
I have to admit I expected you to give dogging a miss in the future after such an horrific time. Remember though there's always the opportunity to find the right people with whom to have some private and respectful fun. And you're in the right place to find such swingers.
Best of luck as you move on, and I think you've reminded us that the dogging scene we love so much is in need of constant monitoring. Perhaps if real doggers left Maslins alone we wouldn't continue to encourage scum like this. Or perhaps I'm being too optimistic.
Perhaps if you'd wound down the window, let him stick his unwelcome dick inside, then jammed that window right back up!
In short; absolutely disgusting. That's not dogging, it's assault, and should be treated as such. I'm sorry to hear you had such a vile experience. Words continue to fail me, but rest assured I choked on my sandwich when I read that.
Sounds like it may be fun. Please keep us updated if there are any last minute changes.
Definitely something you should approach together, with complete honesty, and glacial care. Do not rush into this fantasy at all, because the reality of watching the woman you love with another man is much more than physical. She's not just giving him her body, she's baring her sexuality to him, sharing pleasures with him. And unless you're both 100% prepared then jealousy will kick in well before they've finished.
Because what she's sharing with him is what you thought was special and unique to yourselves, and now some bastard is moving in on your girl! And she's loving it!!
That's just a hint of what it might feel like. At worst it can destroy your relationship. I've seen it happen once before I'm sad to say. They both wanted to play a bit, but they were both under 25 and had only been together about a year. You can see where this is heading. Spontaneity can be a good thing, but not in cases like this. Just picking up a playmate didn't work out for them at all.
In my own case with my previous girlfriend we had a lot of fantasies and lots of magnificent dirty talk. But we knew that only one or two could ever come to fruition, we were realistic. And a threesome with another man did happen, more than once, and we both loved it. But it was discussed and planned for almost two years before we went through with it, and the third man carefully chosen. We had a good idea what we were getting into, we'd covered all our bases, we were very stable in our relationship (can't overemphasise the importance of that bit) and we were both in agreement about exactly what we wanted to happen.
If you and your lady are both serious about this, keep talking about it and seeing if there's anything which might make you feel jealous. Turn it into a regular pillow talk fantasy, discuss different scenarios, think it through. If there's a twinge of doubt for either of you, bring it up immediately and talk it through because it may be the unforeseen fly in the ointment. Only when it all seems to be a natural progression for you should you take that next step.
And might I suggest a better setting for the first experience? It sounds great on paper (or the monitor as the case may be) but some time in a private place to get to know each other intimately and be more affectionate will make the experience much nicer. And yes that affection which your lady must feel for, and share with, another man is The Big One which you personally have to come to terms with before even beginning to search for the right person.
A threesome can actually be a very sweet experience which bonds you both together over a special shared moment, not many people think of it as romantic but it was for us. Do it right and you have unique memories to share when you're together and relive in your dirty talk.
Breathe calmly, talk it through, play act. Repeat. It will happen when you both want it to.
