We haven't looking into that yet but I've seen 'official' photographers at some of these clubs. We've been to a huge event where there was a photographer set up in a special room for couples who really wanted their pictures taken, and knew very well their pics were being taken. It was really great.
We just think you should try to go with the flow so to speak. Trying new things is part of the expierence for us, some we like, some we didn't, but you never truly know untill you are at that point
If you don't want to swallow the semen, then why have the man cum in your mouth to begin with? I get turned on by having them cum on me. I like to see the cum spurt and flow out on me.
I don't think there really is any difference if you use a condom or not. Condom is essential if you care about your health. We never had any condom failures. no slip off or ripping.
most of the women in the lifestyle have at least been curious about having sex with other women, at least as much as, if not more curious about having sex with other men. I've only met only 2 guys who's ever even considered having sex with another man.
There will always be a little jealousy there. After all, you are sharing your loved one with others. The best thing for you to do is to keep talking to each other..If she can't handle something, you should certainly avoid it. Marriage comes first..swinging should be seen as a leisure time activity.
With my husband I always swallow... but with other men I never swallow. To me it seems like a personal preference but to me its just personal. I swallow my husband because we have exchanged every bodily fluid there is.. I don't exchange bodily fluids with other men. I don't know if there are any risks involved but better safe than sorry.
There is no need for anybody to know about our most private matters. we are not ashamed of being in the lifestyle but others just wouldn't understand. People would judge you blindly.
STD's are very real and we are well aware of it. The only thing you can do to protect yourself is a condom. Other than that, there is nothing. STD's are the main reason that keeps most people away from swinging. As most of them don't have any cure, it is very important that we do whatever we can to protect ourself
Well for us we look for people who think 'fun' in the same sense as we do. People who share the same interests as we do. We are not just looking for sex buddies..we are looking for good friends too. So it's just like looking for a good friend. A friend you can have hot wild monkey sex with. lmao.
very true. You shouldn't push your partner against his/her wishes. The fantastic possibilities of swinging is great indeed but a meaningful relationship is just as important. Never do anything that can put your marriage in danger.
As much as fun it is, like everything else swinging too has its downfalls. Your partner can get too attached to it. The line between swinging and cheating is very thin one. The truth is that only a very small percentage can maintain the lifestyle for long periods.
Yes it's perfectly safe. We had regular sex while amanda was pregnant. There is no harm to the happy. As you are on 5 months, I would suggest you not to go on top. The side of the bed, missionary or any position where you can rest your back comfortably is fine.
I would agree with the others. You should check out local ads..see if you come across something that might interest you. or you can place your own ads. There are lot of newcomers out there..If you don't like all the exposure from the clubs..ads are the next best thing.
It's wise to take some precautions. We now stopped going to clubs all together. Ads are much more better and convenient for us. We get to choose the playmates..and we can also check out recommendations from others. Don't bring too much rules into swinging as it wouldn't be fun..
We always invite our playmates to our home. Our home is our private place and it makes us feel good to share it with our playmates. And the whole cleaning, preparing food in anticipation is all very fun. We also have sleepovers when the conditions are right.
The answer is no. Swinging doesn't make you like sex more. It just makes you more open to ideas when it comes to sex. It doesnt really make you a sex addict..but it certainly makes sex a much more enjoyable experience.
You should never do something like that. Never push her to join the lifestyle. If you have a healthy relationship with your wife, why ruin it?
Ask yourself why you want to do it..Never lose your respect for your wife. She is not something on which you can fulfill your fetishes.
Glory hole is like a hole in the wall where an anonymous human being can insert his member to be sucked off by another anonymous human ( male or female) It's a fun concept..but my wife could never do that without actually knowing the person..You have to feel a certain connection to somebody before getting intimate like that.
actually, most women don't like extra long members. They can only take so much!! It will cause them more pain than pleasure if your member is too long. Pleasure cells only extend upto 2 inches or so. I'm positive nobody has it lower than 2 inches. I think you should stop watching so much porn. They only select long membered guys for those things.
Hey..Nobody has anything against single males :P They still have a little hope. Don't be shy. Everybody starts somewhere. Explore your instincts..The most important thing is to have a good no need to worry. Welcome to the lifestyle
