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Hi Rose
You are so beautiful
I can see it in every post you help us out with
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1 week ago
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Sexlightened
Hmmmmmm
Well it's a 'nice' thought .... except that most nudists are not swingers - they are just people who like fresh air on their skin. all over their skin
And many of the swingers I've met are not nudists. Funny how we can get our gear off and get into / onto a bed, but not out in public & onto the beach !!!
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day NC
Maybe - pop into your local newsagent & find a copy of either "The Aussie Naturist" [TAN] or "Sun & Health" [S&H]
They will have listings of the naturist places in & around brisbane ... and they do have spas & pools & are well & truly 'woman safe'
I know of several in that area but will not put their details up here - I'm sure you know why
Phil
Phil
Sexlightened
Like any computer upgrade anywhere - anytime, ...
give 'em some time to sort out the gremlins that arise after going live
I'm sure that testing has been going on for quite a while - but gremlins do arise in all system upgrades
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day Harry
Yeah matey - there are 2 in the Beaudesert area, 1 out near Boonah, and a couple up north towards Caboolture. You will find them listed in both TAN and S&H - both available at your local newsagent in the Lifestyle part of the magazines
For a first time visit to a park / resort, be up front to the owner that you wish to explore the lifestyle
It also helps if you are a member of the ANF , as then you can quote a membership number to show that you are 'genuine'
As a first timer, you will need to remember that these places are private businesses - ie: they are registered businesses but with the owner always on-site , and they will help you around the park with introductions and that stuff. There will be all of camp sites, caravan sites, cabins etc for overnighting, swimming pool, entertainment areas, camp fire area, maybe bushwalks around the fire trails, and heaps more at some places. At special events people will get dressed up in spectacular, very sexy outfits !!
It is also true that within 1/2-hour of taking your gear off, you very quickly leave behind your worries and concerns about 'going starkers' as everybody else is dressed the same !! and apart from an initial up & down with a 'hello', no one bothers about clothes any more. Obviously, if it's stinking hot or bluddy cold, you put something on - otherwise, just get out there and enjoy yourself
Feel free to PM me if you want more info etc
Phil
Yeah matey - there are 2 in the Beaudesert area, 1 out near Boonah, and a couple up north towards Caboolture. You will find them listed in both TAN and S&H - both available at your local newsagent in the Lifestyle part of the magazines
For a first time visit to a park / resort, be up front to the owner that you wish to explore the lifestyle
It also helps if you are a member of the ANF , as then you can quote a membership number to show that you are 'genuine'
As a first timer, you will need to remember that these places are private businesses - ie: they are registered businesses but with the owner always on-site , and they will help you around the park with introductions and that stuff. There will be all of camp sites, caravan sites, cabins etc for overnighting, swimming pool, entertainment areas, camp fire area, maybe bushwalks around the fire trails, and heaps more at some places. At special events people will get dressed up in spectacular, very sexy outfits !!
It is also true that within 1/2-hour of taking your gear off, you very quickly leave behind your worries and concerns about 'going starkers' as everybody else is dressed the same !! and apart from an initial up & down with a 'hello', no one bothers about clothes any more. Obviously, if it's stinking hot or bluddy cold, you put something on - otherwise, just get out there and enjoy yourself
Feel free to PM me if you want more info etc
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by OKandQ
numbers we have only attended and participated in equal partner swaps we feel this is the ideal number we have no interest and our play mates are likewise inclined no free loaders no free rides a balance so as to maintain the principal relationship I guess singles or gang bangers want something else
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Sexlightened
G'day mate
Go into your local newsagent and buy a copy of either Sun & Health [S&H] or The Aussie Naturist [TAN]
They have lists of places you can go to as well as heaps of stuff about the nudist lifestyle
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day mate
congratulations for taking the plunge - I did it 20+ yrs ago and the first couple of times were a bit scary - 'how would others take my odd-shaped body' - but I soon found that I was just like most others
Since then I have enjoyed nude / nudist places around Oz dozens & dozens & dozens of times ... and it's all good fun
Phil
Since then I have enjoyed nude / nudist places around Oz dozens & dozens & dozens of times ... and it's all good fun
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day Candy
Over the [many] years I've had fanny-farts, real hum-dinger farts, burps, wacho funny noises and heaps of screams as each of us comes. It's all part of the pleasure of sex ... get on with it and keep coming
Phil
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day
While it's not a beach - there's Valley View nudist retreat 1/2-way between Cairns & Mareeba ... it's a very spunky place, excellent managers, great facilities, accommodation etc etc
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day guys & gals
Agreed - there are many places along river banks where a few tents / campervans can be suitably located to encourage some easy playing without other campers further away getting upset
If you haven't already got the Camps Australia Wide book [about $60] which shows about 4000 spots around Oz for camping - then I suggest that you get a copy asap.
In northern Vic for example, you've got over a dozen sites at Eildon - there's over 2-dozen along the Murray R beween Albury & Yarrawonga ~ all it needs is for someone to start the ball rollong and it will go from there
SH people in other states can do the same with their area as well
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by dknloz
We think it would be a great weekend away the great outdoors sex and whatever goes. In relatively secluded and private areas. But naturalist parks are also a great option. Looking forward to the warmer weather.
G'day dkn
naturalist parks are also a great option
This has been discussed here & elsewhere previously
A naturist / nudist park is NOT the place for swingers to enjoy themselves
Nudists are NOT swingers, and naturist / nudist retreats are privately owned locations where if you misbehave / detour from their 'rules' you will be out the door before you can do your zip up
As a practicing nudist, may I offer you this ... the 'rules' of social behaviour inside a nudist retreat are stonger than in your street at home - there is no touching of others without permission, there is definitely no sex with others at all
You might be at a clothed party and think it's quite okay to put your arm around a pretty girl's waist while you're chatting. Try this at a nudist place and you will be asked to leave ~ never mind putting the hard word on a female for a bit of sex
If you want to have a wild party, book the 4 or 6 or 8 of you into a hotel suite for a night and whatever you do in the suite will not involve anyone who was not aware of the agenda
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by Rainbow641
Just wondering how many would be interested in being a ravelling compainion, where sex was part of the deal? Rainbow
G'day mate
I've done this a few years back - before I teamed up with my lovely AJ
It is very hard to find a travelling companion anyway - we all have such differing lives & needs / wants
I found that membership of several 'singles' clubs followed by personal publicity about the trips I was taking and planning did get me some interesting offers - but I had to 'prove' myself first. I then had several travel companions for trips to kakadu and other 'exotic' places and it all worked out quite well
If you want more info about how it worked, pm me and we'll chat off-line
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day Haidee
Yes - agree 100%
I get very shirty at someone locally who txt msg me asking for a play party - when we have told him 3 or 4 times that we don't play with people under the age of our children ~ it just doesn't seem 'okay' to us ... we prefer couples of our own age group
But no, every couple of weeks there is another txt msg asking the same stuff ...... Grrrrrr
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day all
There's also a parallel post in the General Discussion list at the moment too
If you haven't seen it, you might like to pop over there too
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day all
Well we've just had 10 days in a northern NSW nudist retreat - and it was great
There were 50-odd people there for NYE - mostly couples and a few singles, no one under 40 as it seems that the under 40s are too shy about the state of their bodies. Most people there look identical to the people you see on a suburban bus going to work ... tall - short - skinny - broad - ordinary lookin' & damn good lookin - and so it goes on
The place had a large pool - great on the hot days we've had recently, the spa was 1/2- built ... up soon, a great amenities room / dining room / tv room
Four or Five cabins with linen supplied + 2-dozen or so powered sites costing $28pn with the 7th night free
Every powered site was about the size of a tennis court - ie: huge spaces between happy-campers
One of the outdoors showers was an open-sided 'shed-like' building overlooking the hills and valleys with the view across to the next door neighbouring farm about 3/4-km away - giving an amazing 'million-dollar-view' of the countryside while enjoying a nice hot shower
Plenty of bushwalks along the internal fire trails - all very safe and no possibility of meeting neighbours
The whole scene is so safe that people leave car doors & caravan doors wide open for some breeze thru the day
Social 'rules' say "by all means look but don't touch" ~ unless you know each other real-well
Well we've just had 10 days in a northern NSW nudist retreat - and it was great
There were 50-odd people there for NYE - mostly couples and a few singles, no one under 40 as it seems that the under 40s are too shy about the state of their bodies. Most people there look identical to the people you see on a suburban bus going to work ... tall - short - skinny - broad - ordinary lookin' & damn good lookin - and so it goes on
The place had a large pool - great on the hot days we've had recently, the spa was 1/2- built ... up soon, a great amenities room / dining room / tv room
Four or Five cabins with linen supplied + 2-dozen or so powered sites costing $28pn with the 7th night free
Every powered site was about the size of a tennis court - ie: huge spaces between happy-campers
One of the outdoors showers was an open-sided 'shed-like' building overlooking the hills and valleys with the view across to the next door neighbouring farm about 3/4-km away - giving an amazing 'million-dollar-view' of the countryside while enjoying a nice hot shower
Plenty of bushwalks along the internal fire trails - all very safe and no possibility of meeting neighbours
The whole scene is so safe that people leave car doors & caravan doors wide open for some breeze thru the day
Social 'rules' say "by all means look but don't touch" ~ unless you know each other real-well
Sexlightened
Quote by Haidee
Storyline? There is supposed to be a storyline?
I don't care WHY they are fucking, I just want to see everyone having a good time
:) :)I saw one recently where the bloke was standing next to a bed
His hard-on was almost too good to believe and yet he was reading a book
The 2 girls who were 'fighting' over sucking him off were rolling all over the bed - and all he could do ?? was read a bloody book?
It ain't real when that occurs
- yeah, I like many of the amateur ones too coz they at least show people who are trying
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Sexlightened
G'day all
Copied from another forum ...
App 'permissions'
I was just invited to update Google Maps. In the process I decided to actually read the new permissions. Now included (in my words from memory) is the ability to wake tablet from sleep, connect and disconnect from wifi AND ability to search for, read and use my 'contacts', investigate who, when and how often I contact them. Now why should Google need to contact my contacts, presumably at any time it chooses and in secret? It can also add, remove 'accounts' and delete passwords. Other common Apps are just as intrusive. I find this a bit concerning.
It seems that other things & other mobs than Fb are after control of you and your information
A variant of Caveat Emptor
Copied from another forum ...
App 'permissions'
I was just invited to update Google Maps. In the process I decided to actually read the new permissions. Now included (in my words from memory) is the ability to wake tablet from sleep, connect and disconnect from wifi AND ability to search for, read and use my 'contacts', investigate who, when and how often I contact them. Now why should Google need to contact my contacts, presumably at any time it chooses and in secret? It can also add, remove 'accounts' and delete passwords. Other common Apps are just as intrusive. I find this a bit concerning.
It seems that other things & other mobs than Fb are after control of you and your information
A variant of Caveat Emptor
Sexlightened
Quote by blonde_nymph
They are- just click dogging tab on homepage ....
Australian Capital Territory (19)
...
The biggest problem with the list is that things change over time
As an ex-ACT fella, I am aware that 5 of the 19 locations listed are -not- in the ACT, and 4 of the 19 are so out of date to be a complete waste of space to list them. Memory says that I PM'd admin a long time ago about this but I see little has changed in the lists
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day mate
great to hear from you
You would also be aware that in France there is a town just like that - and it's full of textile visitors who come for a perve
Here in Oz we have several locations - Nimbin being the most famous - where the community says that clothing-optional is okay ~ so it's not unusual to be walking along the street to see over the fence that the farmer is naked or 1/2-naked to avoid sunburn
There also are several communities of a dozen or so singles & couples who are both optionally naked and sexually 'open'
They exist - it's just a matter of tapping into them - but showing that you're interested in joining and living with them takes a lot of effort and $$ to build your 'shack'
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day TE & Ange
I've met a couple of "single-couples" here and it is a bit disturbing to hear him say 'she doesn't know.....' &/or 'we'd have to meet secretly and hope she gets some vibes.....'
To me it's all a bit -off- being here pretending to be one thing while in reality you are another and to me, it does not speak kindly of the relationship behind the profile
Sexlightened
G'day Jenn & Steve
Whatever you do - keep doing it
One of the poly places I visited was an unusual house specially built for two couples - a long thin sort of design with 2 sets of living quarters at each end, the main bedrooms being much larger than a traditional design to accommodate king-size beds etc etc, followed by the wet areas and ending up with a common kitchen and dining area
The poly relationship fell down as the 2 cooks couldn't accept the others cooking methods - one was clean & tidy, the other a bit laizzez-faire and let it all happen ...
So while you are looking for a beaut MFF arrangement. please remember that we are all individuals who need space / quiet time as well as communal / randy times within the small group. This may well cause you to do some serious planning as regards the sort of place you end up living in
Hope this helps
Phil
One of the poly places I visited was an unusual house specially built for two couples - a long thin sort of design with 2 sets of living quarters at each end, the main bedrooms being much larger than a traditional design to accommodate king-size beds etc etc, followed by the wet areas and ending up with a common kitchen and dining area
The poly relationship fell down as the 2 cooks couldn't accept the others cooking methods - one was clean & tidy, the other a bit laizzez-faire and let it all happen ...
So while you are looking for a beaut MFF arrangement. please remember that we are all individuals who need space / quiet time as well as communal / randy times within the small group. This may well cause you to do some serious planning as regards the sort of place you end up living in
Hope this helps
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day Jenn & Steve
Good for you to go for your 100%
What you describe is polyamory rather than polygamy ~ and there are many polyamory relationships across the country
If you google it, you will find a very large poly community ~ it's big in Sydney + the hunter valley + Taree + Melb + central victoria that I know of and have visited in years past
Everyone in poly relationships describes is as very rewarding along with lots of hard work which becomes communication and compromise to make it successful
I also know of poly relationships where the 2 females have their own house fairly close by and he alternates between them
Whichever way it goes with you - enjoy
Phil
Good for you to go for your 100%
What you describe is polyamory rather than polygamy ~ and there are many polyamory relationships across the country
If you google it, you will find a very large poly community ~ it's big in Sydney + the hunter valley + Taree + Melb + central victoria that I know of and have visited in years past
Everyone in poly relationships describes is as very rewarding along with lots of hard work which becomes communication and compromise to make it successful
I also know of poly relationships where the 2 females have their own house fairly close by and he alternates between them
Whichever way it goes with you - enjoy
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day mate
I too would suggest you follow Rose's suggestion
A year or so back I was the same with Taree rather than Townsville
I searched around the postcode to find names, then emailed them asking if they would be interested
While I messaged about 90 people, we now have about 20 couples in the "2430 Taree Couples" group
So - give it a try ~ make it a bit more personal than a Forum / public challange & in the process, explain why you are doing this and what you want to get from it all
Hope this helps
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by rach_pete
we personally send out messages to people and they see them but cant even send a reply ....
G'day Rach
If the people you are sending to are newbies and still on a 'free' membership, they cannot reply to any messages
these days you must be a full paying SH member to be able to reply
Phil
Sexlightened
G'day mate
It's very easy for anyone to take pix of themselves - or others - while unclothed
It's very hard to make those pix become sexy & sensual and interesting & desirable
My thoughts for you is...
+ think very carefully before you show your face clearly / in close up > this is a public site and who knows who might wander thru the gallery
+ a penis / fanny is not all that exciting for most people to look at > find other views of you side on, husky chest etc
+ get a mate to take some pix of you doing blokesy stuff > try to offer a sexy idea rather than a stiff cock coz they're a dime-a-dozen
Hope this helps
Phil
Sexlightened
Thanks for the link
I just popped over for a qwik look ... and the "latest postings" are all dated August 2010
Hmmmmm
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by bootystud
is no one interested in fucking another ladies hubby???
Hey there Booty
I'll bite the speeding bullet
Your profile shows a very spunky couple so I can't see what the 'problem' is in getting a taker for your suggested liaison
However - Speaking personally - I found the opening text somewhat amazing and as a bloke, completely off-putting. It sounds 100% like a single-bloke is trying to con someone else's woman to come over for a qwikkie ~ certainly not like a woman trying to give her fella the fuk of his life
May I be suggestive here?
You've been members for a couple of years - surely you have made a few playmates by now .... how come none of them will suit?
You know your location - how about doing a search for someone inside a 25km radius of your place and offer a personal invite? - I suspect that you'll get a better result this way
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by like2watch
Hi everyone,
A thought just popped into my head recently, how many others out there have been wanting to try something kinky but haven't for any reason yet??
Mine is for a lady to give me a golden shower. I don't know where this fetish has come from but it is something I have been wanting to try for a couple of years now but I have been too afraid to ask any women I have been with for a fear of being told I'm disgusting and have them walk out.
So peoples, what are we all hiding?? What is that thing or things you want to try but haven't yet??
Hey matey - just look for profiles where the little duck is listed .... you never know your luck
Phil
Sexlightened
Quote by Drooper_sa
I agree. Or at least can we filter out those that haven't been on for 90 days plus
I agree - this is one of several suggestions I have made to Admin for incln in the new site rebuild
Phil
