We have been happily Married for 16 odd years. Just recently we hit a bump...our sex life is good to awesome and regular.  We recently introduced toys as found our selves wondering. We are looking for that next level of different, wife's really keen, I just don't want to loose her or get into "routine". Our plan is meet, greet, get together and just have fun, no further communication afterwards (for now, that's our theory)