I’m a late-40s guy (cis-male, pan, polly) who’s re-new to the lifestyle after a 25 year hiatus. 
Seems like things have changed a bit!

Would love to meet older, more experienced ladies/couples but I’m open to hearing from anyone.

I’m definitely a big fan of curves, a gorgeously voluptuous lover will have me at their beck and call. Having said that, physical attraction is just 1 part of the mix for me, your wicked sense of humor and interesting personality will intrigue me just as much, if not more.

In a couple situation you’ll find that I feel the need to be just as respectful and understanding of both partner’s needs/wants/desires, clear boundaries and explicit consent is what I’m all about, out of respect for all involved.

I would describe myself as a more of pleasure-giver rather than taker, but you never know, you may be able to bring out my insatiable side. 

Looking for my people, I know you’re out there…

I’m polyamorous but not casual, real connections and meaningful interactions are my go

Take me to a waterfall or a blues club or some clandestine rendezvous…

Serve me up a Moscow Mule and a Woodshed surf docco…

Or just hang out at 4:20pm

Talk to me about saving the planet with core values or stand up comedy or sexual/gender ethics…

But most of all, banter me baby!

Getting online has confirmed my long suspected belief that I am thoroughly Sapiosexual

So please no more unsolicited nudes (I will obviously know if you haven’t read this far)

Banter me…

I am a:

Passionate human first.

Genuine switch.

- Service/Gentleman Dom (Pan)

Rigger (western & shibari)

Cupper and Needler ethical by profession (discretion essential!)

Secondary/assist for all of the above.

- Soft sub only for the the right NIX

Be non-judgmental, non-racist or sexist, nor homophobic, certainly not right leaning…

and we’ll get along.

Do you think I’d like to get to know you?

Could we find some fun loving together?

I hope so

Indubitably

Message me for real, not just generic text, you’ll get so much more from me that way. Having said that, I won’t be precious, if you’re dtf, tell me and I’ll respond accordingly

I’m looking for genuine lovers… 

If you’re looking for someone polite, respectful and sooooo sensually passionate, who’s excited about having some fun play with you, then I’m your guy.