I'm 40 years young and have a very busy life. The one area that often gets neglected is meeting and connecting with women, and obviously that rolls over into neglect of my sexual needs as well.

My general pleasure when having sex is always accentuated by the amount of pleasure I perceive I'm giving to the other person. Don't be mistaken, as I'm not totally without wanting pleasureable attention myself, but if I can give it then I'm already getting some too!

I like all sorts of things in bed, but my favourite is without doubt giving cunnilingus. For me there is no greater way to know that she is experiencing something wonderful.

Okay, I'm an active man who enjoys exercising and would much prefer to be doing things rather than sitting in front of the TV. That said, I am overweight, and have been for my entire life, though it can and does fluctuate greatly due to my fitness regime. I have a very busy working life and am often on call for jobs, which means there is no regular "best times" for me to meet, but I am flexible and accommodating when I can be. I'm also a little old-fashioned at times and am not against extra activities to ensure we are both comfortable before getting down to anything more intimate. A meal, or a movie are good examples of ways I'd like to be introduced if you would prefer. This is not a must, but is an offer if you so desire.

Finally, I live in Bendigo, Victoria, and as the highway to Melbourne is fully functional now, travelling for contact is not an issue, but it might mean a little patience is needed to arrange a good time.

If you like what you read and am interested in a little fun, feel free to contact me and we can perhaps get some "getting to know you" stuff out of the way through digital means.