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Why are single guys so disliked here

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Master of Sex
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your reply is ok im hope you werent offended just calling it like I see it , as too having offered pussy etc thats were standards come in you obviously dont continue on a play path when your not attracted , many go way to fast to the end game and find plenty missing others take for ever and dont get into the finals But hell if everyone was the same you would stay home knowing everything and everyone lol I wouldnt waste too much time wondering about why others do things as long as they arent playing you You will never know nor understand why folks do things and really who cares many requirements seem onerous but they have that right to be that way
Orgasminator
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the link was not to showboat, but to let you know what the majority of women in here are looking for, but if you aren't interested in that, you aren't intereted. The single guy here that I know is the busiest and most popular with the ladies and couples does not have a large dick, but is a genuinely nice guy, who gets joy out of giving pleasure to others.
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We like this bit from ultraAngels prev post can eat as much pussy as I can until my jaw is sore and give her as much rod as she can take but, if she won't cum at all then there not a lot I can do. Simple answer is you must not be doing it right then if you fail to make her cum , if she has argeed and met up with you then she is there for her enjoyment , ever think its you not pushing the right buttons and no fault of hers You can go down and eat as much pussy as you like or give her as much "rod' as she can take but if YOU miss the sweet spots thats no fault of hers
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Quote by Penrith_guy
Just throwing the question out there I know the obvious reason is that they are only on here for sex and not genuine about swinging. I would just like to say not all of us single guys are like that. Some of us like myself are very genuine about the whole swinging experience not here just for the sex but the friendships you can also build. Tell me your thoughts!!!

Bravo Penrith Guy
I'm,at the moment, a single guy myself. I've been on-site for prob close to a year and I think its a fantastic site. I'm a very broad minded sort with a pretty deep understanding of my sexuality. I have the mindset of a swinger and I really enjoy the chatrooms & interacting with the myriad of people here. I've been to meet & greets, chatted with many, etc. In short I've been having a fantastic time. But I know why "single guys" are viewed with quite a bit of distrust & disdain. I view a lot of "us" the same way after experiencing the behaviour that can go in the chats (& thats only half, imagine what couples have to contend with!). Now I won't be single for ever, so while I am single I am quite content to be here for networking. Its been a successful approach because I've met some great people (coupes & individuals) from this site, just on a friendly basis, to the benefit of all concerned. I realise that any couples interested in what I may have to offer will contact me. Its all good.
I've encountered some desparate individuals prowling about the chat rooms. Just the crap they're throwing into the stream, it gets nauseating. I've come to handing out backhanders to some of them (chatwise).
So stick to your guns, people aren't stupid (mostly). There is a distinction between "unattached open-minded individuals" and "dreaded single desparate dipshits" and it is , with time and familiarity, noticeable. So be honest, be open and be aware that in the Swingers Heaven Restuarant, individuals such as ourselves are on the menu, we're not the diners, and you'll have a positive, fun experience here much as I am having.
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Orgasminator
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Here is one of the reasons solo guys are found to be intimidating and not to be responded to. A lot of these responses are similar to ones I have received. While reading through them, all I could do was nod:
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as a single married guy who plays alone I just think it is a personal thing if couple don,t want to entertain single guy fair enough move on to people that like the idea of single guys, sure you will always get the guys that are rude and make it hard for others but that's in all forms of life just chill and go with the flow , show respect for others 

Warming the Bed
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All I can say is whether your single or not, doesn't mean you have to treat single people like crap. There lonely and yes, some come on too strong but others just look for friendship and build it from there, I'm one of them, I don't expect couples to bring me into there little swing group but I'm here to make friend's and have a good time. There nothing wrong being single and looking for friendship or to swing with other couples.

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Quote by hrnycple
The name of this site is swingersheavan not singles heavan

 thats the main reason Me and Lisa joined up, to find other couples so as to swing partners around with. now you get lots of single guys hitting you up so they can hopefully jump on top of your missus. maybe the organisers can put a filter on  the page  so no single guys contact you unless you request it. now i have gone single on my profile and when a couple turns up we like i explain my situation and go from there. if we wanted a guy then the nearest pub is a walk in meat market if you like to put it that way. but to find bi women , well thats another story. Dan