Don't attempt anything longer than 6" or thicker than 1" diameter for your first attempt or you may find it too uncomfortable and be put off from trying again.
Ensure you have a good crap before hand and then clean your rectum by way of an enema. Also make sure you have plenty of lube and purchase some poppers as they help in relaxing the sphincter.
Take control of the initial insertion by having the guy who is going to fuck you lay on his back whilst you kneel over him, placing his cock in line with your ass hole. Make sure you are properly lubed up, take a hit of poppers and then slowly lower your ass onto his cock.
At first just allow his cock head to go past your sphincter than stop as you will probably feel some pain and you need to wait until the pain passes and you feel the awesome sensation of feeling a cock in your ass for the first time.
Once you feel comfortable lower yourself deeper onto his cock and as you adjust to the sensual feeling work out what pace suits you. Remember to stop and take an occasional hit of poppers as this prolongs the experience.
Finally welcome to the club – You will not regret it!
Wow, jolama, what great advice. I've been wanting to try some arse action for a while now as well. "poppers" what are they, where do you get them. thanks
Hi Midcoastman
To quote from Wikipedia 'Poppers is a slang term given to the chemical class called alkyl nitrites that are inhaled for recreational purposes, especially as an aphrodisiac'.
If you've watched any gay porn you will see guys sniffing from a small brown bottle – that's what poppers look like.
When you inhale poppers you get a rush type of sensation in your head and a general relaxed feel, especially around your sphincter.
Most sex shops sell poppers but they are ridiculously expensive. I purchase mine over the internet via a site called power poppers (just Google it). They are a quarter the price, arrive by mail generally within 6 to 10 days of ordering and most importantly they are the real deal and work well.
I've never had any problems with power poppers sending them to Australia and usually buy 4 different types to experiment with the different rushes, although I must admit to favour Jungle Juice and Eagle, with Jungle Juice giving you a nice steady rush and Eagle being a big quick hit when taking large cocks.
I would suggest you get yourself a dildo or two of different sizes and experiment with what feels right.
Anything is possible with a lot of patience and a lot of lube