hey, im just wondering if this is normal ive had many bj's but never cum form it before, does this mean that they weren't any good or that it just doesnt do it for me?
Any dieas? oh and any1 willing to try is more then welcome lol
Quote by shyguy87 hey, im just wondering if this is normal ive had many bj's but never cum form it before, does this mean that they weren't any good or that it just doesnt do it for me? Any dieas? oh and any1 willing to try is more then welcome lol
I often can't cum from blowjobs - sometimes it's a timing (as in time of strokes) thing, sometimes was just a personal non-interest thing, etc.... It's not for everyone/always.... I now have a very sexy and lusty attentive lady, but still doesn't make me cum often from BJs alone - and she tries I can assure you. Just try telling your partner at the time what feels good and what doesn't to see if it can be worked out. Persistence can sometimes be the key
it's normal.... not everyone will come from one act alone.
You hear more about women having issues with cumming than you do men - but its very normal for men
Quote by tonessyd I guess you could say i'm on the other end of the spectrum... I love my BJ's, I will usually come from a BJ within minutes..
i,v had trouble cuming a couple of times,till i met my wife never had it happen since, some times just the thought of her doing it has my john thomas stuck to my reggies!
I rarely cum from a BJ. I agree it is about the timing and rythme. Someone will do it for you one day. Tell the person what you want and guide them along your orgasm. The guidance may be what he/she can use on others as well.
Happy BJ's
Quote by lakota I guess you could say i'm on the other end of the spectrum... I love my BJ's, I will usually come from a BJ within minutes..
i,v had trouble cuming a couple of times,till i met my wife never had it happen since, some times just the thought of her doing it has my john thomas stuck to my reggies! Mr Lakota, I would be as happy as you if I got a BJ from a great looking lady like Mrs Lakota lolol ;) Any time is great just message me lol
Quote by Infinite_Sky it's normal.... not everyone will come from one act alone. You hear more about women having issues with cumming than you do men - but its very normal for men
Well this one has never been a problem for me...... My lady has never cum from oral before, but now does EVERY time - Yay for her (and me cause I love doing it) :-P
I've found that I've cum from blowjobs, depending on the person & situation. Some people (not gender specific) are good at it and make me cum quite quickly, others I say thanx, but let's move on to other play. Find my mood and location also to be factors (eg really horny & looking for it / at a gloryhole or sauna)
I am the same. I can cum pretty damn quick when i am turned on but a girl could go down on me all day and get no where. I have read that guys who are circumcised are far less sensitive and less likely to pop from a BJ.
Im still in 46 years to receive a complete successful blow job that its becoming a fantasy to be blown once
Id allow any lady who thinks they can do it try
Given there is range of responses on the ability to cum or not to cum from a BJ. i think we should see if we can bust the myth. Why dont we bring the partners down who are given the BJ and see if its the technique is in question or the reciever...... i think this is the only way we can get some clarity......lol. Either that or a whole lot of fun...
Well it was worth asking. Rick
Personally don't have any problems cumming from a bj... Finding a girl that likes giving them however, is another story...
Why must I always be attracted to girls that hate oral sex?!
/facepalm
Quote by Lucas91 Personally don't have any problems cumming from a bj... Finding a girl that likes giving them however, is another story... Why must I always be attracted to girls that hate oral sex?! /facepalm
Haha, same! I'm pretty sure I could cum right now thinking about a blowjob.
Quote by helpinghandmore Amen Brother! I have to say though, I've had a couple of blows that were so poor I wouldn't have come if she'd kept labouring all night
Dude, you realize thats probably just as much your fault as hers, right? Coach her! Tell her what feels good, etc. And if all else fails, face fuck her!
well i guess its hard to finish for some guys because you dont really set the pace when your receiving so you cant personally decided to speed up when you want, unlike masturbation (like how most bj porn stars finish off). However if you have a kind person who lets you face fuck them you can set the pace aslong as there teeth arn't too sharp;) or atleast thats my POV.
Quote by lakota I guess you could say i'm on the other end of the spectrum... I love my BJ's, I will usually come from a BJ within minutes..
i,v had trouble cuming a couple of times,till i met my wife never had it happen since, some times just the thought of her doing it has my john thomas stuck to my reggies! I agree 200% with lakota. exactly my sentiments.
The best BJ I ever had was from a Negro hooker in Amsterdam. She was an expert; came in about 2 minutes. And the most memorable part was after I came, when she quickly and lightly scrathed with both hands, long nails, across my abdomen - absolutley sinterlating!
sometimes you cum, sometimes you don't, and sometimes it feels so good it hurts. It all depends on the person and how sexed up you are.
Can women answer this post... i don't remember seeing too many. Anyways... yes anal play with finger can help with some men, also get the woman to lightly pull and caress your testicles at the same time.
Trying different things is the big key to it, as with everything in sex... we are all different.
Cheers
sometimes if its not done right is a problem like too much saliva or so on like u have to massage the tongue against it and make sure u have a good rhythm and that ur sucking correctly its all in the way u do it and it can be quite enjoyable for the lady as well hehe well i love it
Quote by shyguy87 hey, im just wondering if this is normal ive had many bj's but never cum form it before, does this mean that they weren't any good or that it just doesnt do it for me? Any dieas? oh and any1 willing to try is more then welcome lol
It depends. I usually cumshot from blowjob to woman face, however sometime I took my penis of her mouth and masturbate a little bit. Also girls usually masturbate it when they take a rest from sucking.
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