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Forum Virgin
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My wife is a horny bbw and when we arrange meets the guys always pull out at the last minute. It seems that most guys on here just want to chat and cam or see pics. There must be some genuine bi guys somewhere
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Quote by westmelbcouple
It seems that most guys on here just want to chat and cam or see pics.

Or they can't get away from their wives....
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Hey all Ive never missed a meet up so not all of us are like that but alas sorry im not Bi
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Damn, I'm free, Bi, ...but stuck in Sydney... could prob make it with a bit of notice.
Orgasminator
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my favourite lame excuse, and the one I measure all lame excuses by: "Sorry my flatmate has me blocked in with his car and I can't leave" Riiiiiight, cos rampant sex is no incentive to ask your flatmate to move his car smile
Master of Sex
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how about when the guy only turns up "well the mrs had to go interstate on 10 mins notice but Im here and raring to go " Oh and to this thread I dont believe its explicitly BBW that's the issue, there just wankers. Everyone gets them till your tosser filters get refined But would say spend the time to establish a feel not just a lust and more will turn up
Forum Virgin
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It doesn't appear to be just bi guys here.. it's guys in general on here... I've had quite a few pull out at the last minute with some lame excuse..
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hi curvybella
you will never get a lame excuse from me/
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my favourite lame excuse, and the one I measure all lame excuses by: "Sorry my flatmate has me blocked in with his car and I can't leave"
Riiiiiight, cos rampant sex is no incentive to ask your flatmate to move his car smile

We couldnt use that excuse Haidee we could walk there and grab a pizza on the way LOL
Melbcpl01
Orgasminator
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I do admit, I was suss when I got the "Mrs is in hospital, but I can make it'. Turns out, they were actually married and she was in hospital. My bad there
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Quote by Haidee
my favourite lame excuse, and the one I measure all lame excuses by: "Sorry my flatmate has me blocked in with his car and I can't leave"
Riiiiiight, cos rampant sex is no incentive to ask your flatmate to move his car smile

I *do* love this excuse. Happily, never a problem for me, as a non-driver...
I can honestly say that I've never backed out of a meeting at the last minute, although I *have* backed out of meetings.
I remember in the bad old days before mobile phones coming home to emails or ICQ (remember ICQ?) messages full of gushing apologies about mixed up times or places. More than once I've known for a fact they've been there and then just left.
Nowadays with mobiles and smartphones, there's no reason to back out at the last minute. If a rhino fell off the back of a truck onto the bonnet of your car, now you can take a photo of it with your phone and send it to the people you're meeting, and (hopefully) push back you meeting time. It's courtesy and common sense, ffs.
:-)
Sexlightened
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Whenever we hear from bi-claiming single men, we always have a boys only meet first. The man gets to arrange a place to go... his house, or a motel. Sorts them out quick smart.
Sexlightened
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I personally hate making or giving excuses its rude unbecoming and unless real should never be made, however I have done it and always offer to go well out of my way to prove it was not just an excuse if the other party wont accept my offer I sadly apologise
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Quote by timbo
Whenever we hear from bi-claiming single men,
we always have a boys only meet first.
The man gets to arrange a place to go... his house, or a motel.
Sorts them out quick smart.

I don't do the boys only stuff unless I've met the couple beforehand and ascertained if its allowed. Too many singles posing as couples, not to mention couple and single profiles who are cheating on their parners ir their partners don't know he's bi.
I have been burned in the past so all couples are met together for a chat if she doesn't want to play but gives her consent I'm cool with that
Sexlightened
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Quote by Haidee
my favourite lame excuse, and the one I measure all lame excuses by: "Sorry my flatmate has me blocked in with his car and I can't leave"
Riiiiiight, cos rampant sex is no incentive to ask your flatmate to move his car smile

if my flat mate had me blocked in I would move heaven and earth to get my car out to meet with you lovely :)
Warming the Bed
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We have had the same issues, seems to be a common theme i feel.
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I have only ever managed to hookup once off this site, and I sure as heck turned up and made a wonderful MMF 3sum. I even had to drive to the other side of town at 10pm to make the meet, but I still managed to show up.