We are a couple and over time have found that quite a few couples adverts are being posted by males without their partner knowing or even wanting to be involved . Its very frustarting when having contact with these people and always turns out that its a guy wanting to play on his own . I realize it would be a little more work for Swingers Heaven but a verification process would eliminate the dodgy ones . The process could be as simple as any couple that wishes to show they are genuine can take a picture of themselves holding a piece of paper with a verification number on it . The pics dont have to show faces , just the both of the couple shown in the profile . verification could be shown on their profile with a letter V or something similar . There are lots of men who when contact is made , tell us that the partner isnt interested or dosnt even want to be involved in which case they should be advertising as a single . What do others think of this ? We would happily submit a verification pic and believe that all other genuine advertisers would probably do so also . Phil and Jan OOOO
Just to let you know, there is a process called shrep coming in.
Similar thing.
To what your suggesting. Check out those on cam, in the chat rooms, if they are both there. :) there yeh go.
Fraid nothing is easy...
No matter how often we wish for it
That is a really good sugestion but there is still flaws in it as a male could simply ask a female friend a favour to get verification and then he is still single. This problem will never be solved unfortunately your just gonna have to sought through the genuine ones from the liars
The shrep that i mentioned - allows both site and real life verification ...
Which will help solve some of those issues.
But it comes down to you doing your homework.
True, you will find a lot of cheaters on this site which accepts members without pictures, age or locations. Love them, they get blocked instandly. It is very simple, just put in your add that where some one poses as a couple, then a meeting will only take place with both of them showing up. That works!
a good way to sort them out is ask to ask to speak with both of them in the same phone call to know there is a female and male involved , the times we have had no she is busy now or she is away for work or overseas have been countless
Melbcpl01
This is not only limited to single men posing as couples
The same can be said for females joining as "females" however when you view their profile their description clearly states they are only looking for either couples or single bi females, adding "no single males".
I'm sorry, but if you are genuinely looking for someone to play with your partner/husband, then please join as a couple.
As a single male, when I search I look for female only profiles as I am looking for a female to play with, it doesn't help when I get search results of "single females" looking for someone to play with their partner then specifically exclude single males.
I can accept people not wanting contact from single guys, but please do us guys a favour by portraying yourself correctly to begin with.
Cheers,
MJ
if you come across a profile that you believe to be fake - report it for abuse
those which have been reported undergo a verification process if they fail or refuse their accounts get changed or become deactivated.
Good point raised and lots of sensible responses.
Of course you should report abuse - but this is a bit after the event. Just exercise caution and judgement at all times we suppose. Trust your gut instinct.
Go to meet and greets.
Meet up socially with others here.
Become a regular on the chat site.
We have done all those and more, and there are quite a few around this site that can (cheerfully) testify to us two being real and being a happy committed couple that happen to enjoy most things these pages have to offer.
And, by the way, we have achieved some lasting friendships and more on this site without a photo or camming on this site. So, it can be done!!
Just ensure your bullshit meter is finely tuned and don't accept any crap. Ask direct and open questions.
Don't lose your sense of humour!
Love from Deux
Oh Baabaa5,
You know that flattery will get you everywhere!!!
Thanks for the endorsement!
By the way folks, we can warmly attest that Baabaa is one of the nicest guys in town, couples - you should look him up.
Deux
I can fully understand and appreciate the frustration about verification, but hard and fast rules don't necessarily always apply to everyone...
Take my cause - I'm hoping to slowly and carefully select the "one" to help give my lady her first ever 3sum - but without her knowing anything about it before it happens. I want this as a total surprise for her. I am very clear about the who, what, why in my profile and in my ad - but yes, I have registered as a couple because we will be a couple on "the" night...
And because of privacy - will only do this interstate - with Melb as the first preference, Sydney the second.
So in my instance - verification as a couple when it's all about giving her a big surprise would be difficult.
Otherwise, agree wholeheartedly with most comments...
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To what your suggesting. Check out those on cam, in the chat rooms, if they are both there. :) there yeh go.
Fraid nothing is easy...
No matter how often we wish for it
