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Hi All, I'm just curious if there are other like me, if its the norm or what so here goes.... I find that after orgasm(female) I am way too sensitive to touch down there, let alone keep going for my husband to finish or start or wherever were up to!! It becomes almost painful. Then I either have to wait ages before being able to continue or just let him keep going and get his rocks off, but I cant orgasm again and it feels uncomfortable and sometimes painful because my vagina is so ...hard/tight?! I have had multiple orgasms before - well maybe 2. But they were very special circumstances. (we were having a very good time!) LOL this is my first post so be gentle wink
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G'day jazza
What you're describing is not at all unusual
Your comment "I find that after orgasm I am way too sensitive to touch down there, let alone keep going ..... It becomes almost painful" perfectly applies to most blokes too
Several thoughts
> in one respect you are very lucky that your clit has that sensitivity ... over many years of love-making I have met many women with little or no feeling within their clit / vaginal area
> maybe work with him for him to bring you almost to a climax as he comes too, then for him to bring you to climax by whatever means you enjoy to 'finish you off'
Hope this helps a bit
Regards, Phil
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i have the same problem. ive found exploring myself a bit more through touch and masturbation makes it easier to handle and now i can have multiples or longer orgasms and still be able to keep going.
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my Mrs gets the same thing seems like more so lately than in the past years, ny advice on how i can make it easier on her or help her get over it? id love to b able to keep her cumming without stopping especially when im giving her head which she loves so much and i looooove giving ;-)
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yeah, i notice the tightness as well after orgasm, and it feels really painful if he isnt finished, but cause i am so tight it feels great for him, which pleases me... i can after a minute or two, start to play with myself and get all worked up and ready for sex again, but cause the guy is still recovering, i usually just get myself off with him watching. but i can play solo and cum over and over i just change up how i touch my clit in stroke pressure etc each time.
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G'day all
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yeah, i notice the tightness as well after orgasm, and it feels really painful if he isnt finished, but cause i am so tight it feels great for him, which pleases me... i can after a minute or two, start to play with myself and get all worked up and ready for sex again, but cause the guy is still recovering, i usually just get myself off with him watching. but i can play solo and cum over and over i just change up how i touch my clit in stroke pressure etc each time.

Much the same as my missus, so I got here to talk 'long & hard' with me about it then show me how to play with her after a few minutes delay so that I could keep pleasuring her long after I was dead & gone ...
Regards, Phil
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Lumix have you tried...Kissing, nibbling after she gets her breath back, touching her thighs, tummy helps unlock the strong contraction and tightness I get. Play with her labia, move to clit, don't rush, and soon she will move into your hand saying she's ready.
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Thanks NeeNee we have something like that > great to see you are coming from a similar viewpoint Regards, phil
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[quote="jazza"]Hi All, I find that after orgasm(female) I am way too sensitive to touch down there,.......................and sometimes painful because my vagina is so ...hard/tight?! {quote} i paid a beautiful young woman once and this happened.................damn waste of money lol ms