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Warming the Bed

0 likes 1 Feb 2013

Hi just looking for some advice my wife and i have been happilied married for 16 years, we have been looking for a couple close by for us to both play with but to no sucess it is hard with kids as many will agree. Now to what i need help with a mate and i had a threesome with my wife it was good she wanted more so i gave her permission to play alone every now and then but it is all the time lately i have asked my mate to stop he said he would. Is it wrong for me to do this to them because i can't get a root the worst thing it is starting to take a strain on our relationship. Thanks in advance.

melbcpl01

Sex God

0 likes 1 Feb 2013

For a start the first big mistake was getting a mate involved , way to many problems can arise from this as it looks like your finding out . dong so not only do you risk your friendship with your mate you also risk your own relationship with your wife as you seem to be finding out already If he was a true mate he would have declined your offer at the start and a true mate wouldnt want to get into your missus pants as thats not what mates do to each other , so you realy have to think how much of a mate he realy is Time to sit down with your wife alone and have a good chat about things and how each other feels about whats happening Melbcpl01

twonewbies

Sexpert

0 likes 1 Feb 2013

agree with melb coule were a couple and thats how we play i wouldnt let it happen again talk about it, maybe you neeed to travel to a bigger town to play

tonza10

Warming the Bed

0 likes 2 Feb 2013

Thanks for the replies guy's. It was never suppose to be like this we had a foursome with my mate and his mrs i never got to touch his mrs the two girls were to busy lol, and him and my mrs have continued and his mrs doesn't know so it is very awkward in an ideal world the foursome would be still happening but we lucked out.