How do young single men fair in this website

Just wondering if there's any men my age that has trouble finding couples or singles to play with? I'm a little worried that some might think I'm not capable of pleasing a female or have no experience but I think I bring a lot of aspects to the bedroom. I love watching porno's and figuring out new moves or learning some, I always read up or research different sex positions and moves. Just wanna know your thoughts fellow Swinger Heaven Members...

Being able to converse and socialise are both useful swinging skills and are often necessary to ensure success.   An impressive sexual history and a portfolio of 'moves' will seldom, if ever be enough to attract potental playmates although might be appreciated once a naked liaison has commenced.   Watching porn prior to a play date can be somewhat akin to seeking inspiration and moves from the Bathurst car races prior to taking a drivers licence test.  Not everyone will be seeking clever sexual moves or a fast and furious approach to play.   Preconceived ideas can lead to embarrassment and failure.   Conversing socially before playing can often reveal what others are seeking and what their likes, dislikes and boundaries might be.

Single males outnumber couples in here by about four to one and single women by around twelve to one which means that the guys are operating in a very competitive arena.   The single guys who we have seen enjoying success at meets have been well presented, have engaged in polite, social chat with other guests and have asked before touching once invited to play.   Not every woman or couple in the site or at meets will be seeking a male and even those that do might be after a particular play style.   Time spent conversing can be a good investment.

That is an excellent response, most of the success I have had on this site has come from attending meet and greets, dressing well and being polite and honest in conversations, a photo of you in a suit will get a far better response than a dick pic   

i am probably one of the few in here that prefer single men, be they legitimately single or married and cheating ( yes theres a massive stigma in here of the latter), so im always willing to give those men a go with whisper talks and see how things go, but after that, the first meet for me is always social, ie not sexually based, but having said that, i have been known to accidentally fall on a cock with my mouth on the first meet lol 

hardest thing for single men is theyre 100 to 0ne, really need to stand out. be polite and be inclusive in chat. I see so many come to the chat room and first thing that's said is hello ladies or looking for a lady to cam with or any horny ladies on here. instant failure.

lol your mouth fall on a cock Kerry 

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lol your mouth fall on a cock Kerry 

 lol its been known to happen 

hahaha. Can’t say I blame you 

Kerry_1975 I am just relieved that you were lucky enough to find a cock that could break your fall hate to think what could of happened 

I find that being a single male in here is a 'double-edged sword' .... some like the idea of a young guy with the stamina that youth provides, but question the knowledge and experience they seek .... while others like the experience and finesse that being older provides, but question whether he can 'go the distance'.  Regardless of your age, RESPECT and courtesy will go a long way in helping with your search.

There are so many single men on this account. For us personally we don't want alot of threesomes so we aren't going to meet up just any single guy that messages us. I think the things that stick out to us on a guys profile would definitely be if the account is verified. And has at least one full body pic. There are so many dick pics on this site and unless you are hung like a horse they all the same. I think you should be be respectable and learn more about the person you are trying to sleep with instead of just going in saying how sexy they are and what you'd love to do them. Direct message them and don't send those generic messages that say "hey I like your profile why don't you check out mine" we never reply to those messages. Say something that's going to set you out from the rest. Then once you get through all that and meet someone for a coffee or a beer don't be pushy, wear nice clothes, brush your hair, teeth and just be clean and presentable. It's abit like a work interview. We'd personally want the guy to be presentable, looks don't worry us to much but if you don't look put together It'd be a big no to us

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There are so many single men on this account. For us personally we don't want alot of threesomes so we aren't going to meet up just any single guy that messages us. I think the things that stick out to us on a guys profile would definitely be if the account is verified. And has at least one full body pic. There are so many dick pics on this site and unless you are hung like a horse they all the same. I think you should be be respectable and learn more about the person you are trying to sleep with instead of just going in saying how sexy they are and what you'd love to do them. Direct message them and don't send those generic messages that say "hey I like your profile why don't you check out mine" we never reply to those messages. Say something that's going to set you out from the rest. Then once you get through all that and meet someone for a coffee or a beer don't be pushy, wear nice clothes, brush your hair, teeth and just be clean and presentable. It's abit like a work interview. We'd personally want the guy to be presentable, looks don't worry us to much but if you don't look put together It'd be a big no to us

Those generic messages, sound like the winks, And some times only way those on the basic accounts, can message, they are only limited to 3 a day, I believe. But you can also sent a automated reply back to them in your settings 

:)