I have lived with the stigma that a woman must be shaved or waxed totally. Yes I have had some nice experiences totally clean but a couple of months I thought I'd just be natural and let it grow! Wow! I've had sex every day with my husband, sometimes quite a bit more than once. We used to do it on a good week twice a week.
So now the real question????? Stay natural or wax it off?
I agree TT, manicuring is the way to go, both for mena nd women.
Totally waxed for me is a turnoff. I feel like I'm looking at someone who is underage. Plus, a bit of hair acts as a bit of cushioning as well
Manicured is a must, especially if oral is on the table (or bed, or couch, or floor...) If my mouth is going to be on it, I would like hair short so it doesn't get caught i my teeth.
A bit of hedge trimming never goes astray :) After all, you manicure so your important bits are shown off, not hidden away in the undergrowth.
My ex trimmed, so it was really short, but still there. I'm not a keen fancier of shaving, razor rash is no one's friend. At the moment, I'm single so I've let things slide a little.
I think quite a lot of women wax/shave/trim/frantically maintaining the landscape, where a lot of guys just let it go. If you aren't going to keep the playground nice, why should I play there?
justwannahavefun, it depends where the hair is. I prefer trimmed or clippered to waxing. I don't like the smooth look for either women or men, it screams of underage to me. But that is my personal opinion, and should be regarded with a grain of salt.
Quote by juswannahavfun How about women wanting waxed males? I'm not really into hairy men. J
For guys we like nicely manicured, but it has to been in keeping with the rest of his body. We've seen photos of some guys who are hairy all over except for a sudden bare smooth patch at his groin and it looks totally weird. Similarly, a smooth almost hairless body with a pubic bush that almost swallows his penis is not nice either.
TT, my ex was kinda like that - he was half Spanish/half Italian, and the hairiness of both, but had his 'bits' lasered. I had to stifle a giggle upon occassion, but at least it was nice and clean (he had to have the laser for medical reasons)
I prefer to shave or keep closely trimmed for comfort, and I like hubby to do the same so that I'm more inclined to give him blowjobs. I find that letting it grow long is seriously uncomfortable and can sometimes make chaffing worse (we are both runners). I won't go into all the details (gross!) but for me it's just more comfortable and more appealing.
Quote by Haidee" date="06/01/2015 11:00:06 am I agree TT, manicuring is the way to go, both for mena nd women. Totally waxed for me is a turnoff. I feel like I'm looking at someone who is underage. Plus, a bit of hair acts as a bit of cushioning as well Manicured is a must, especially if oral is on the table (or bed, or couch, or floor...) If my mouth is going to be on it, I would like hair short so it doesn't get caught i my teeth. A bit of hedge trimming never goes astray :) After all, you manicure so your important bits are shown off, not hidden away in the undergrowth. My ex trimmed, so it was really short, but still there. I'm not a keen fancier of shaving, razor rash is no one's friend. At the moment, I'm single so I've let things slide a little. I think quite a lot of women wax/shave/trim/frantically maintaining the landscape, where a lot of guys just let it go. If you aren't going to keep the playground nice, why should I play there?
Great to see I am not the only one Haidee. Each to their own but I have the same thought as you do.
Someone said a woman totally waxed was like Kings Park (Perth reference) without trees. Personally I like waxed for myself and I love a clean shaven or waxed man.
I prefer a neatly trimmed and manicured bush, ultimately in a landing strip or I have seen the love hard and patterns shaved into it before. Completely smooth is not as good, and a little hint of something always makes sex more enjoyable.
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