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Warming the Bed
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We have been on this site for about 10 years, and at the beginning it was very vibrant and exciting. Lot's of genuine couples, events and interaction. There was a nice sense of a community. We met some lovely people and attended some great parties. But now it seems to just be filled with frustrated single males who don't read profiles properly, forums that seldom have anything interesting to say, and outdated so called matches that have been inactive for a bit too long.

It's pretty much pointless checking. It would be really nice to see thing's improved and to get some energy back. And the fake single men spending way too much time wasting our time, removed.

The owners of this site and the moderators must surely be aware of this?

Regardless thing's need to be fixed a.s.a.p. There are now many more much sophisticated sites around these days.

So let's see what happens...

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I hate to ask it but I'm super new to the scene (just exploring atm). Is there another Australian forum? Or one for states?

I have glanced through a couple of threads about starting out and most have no replies and it seems the ones that do are from years ago

Warming the Bed
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Sorry to say , but ,I couldnt agree more with whats been said above ,,,, its becoming a very stale site , if some tech type person was to set up a new Australian only site i believe they would be flooded by people from here , it seems when chatting that many ppl have lost interest here , just look at the number of profiles that are inactive for so so long. Thats probably proof of the loss of interest.

Warming the Bed
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No but I am just a single bloke that has been on here for over 12 years just before Covid it was pumping. Covid is still around and people are being more picky as to who they play with. I was at a function the other week and 25 people out of the 75 attendees got Covid. Precautions are still needed and it might take a while to get back to the free and easy lifestyle that we had. Plus in winter it gets slower the further south you go.

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Quote by Freebuck

No but I am just a single bloke that has been on here for over 12 years just before Covid it was pumping. Covid is still around and people are being more picky as to who they play with. I was at a function the other week and 25 people out of the 75 attendees got Covid. Precautions are still needed and it might take a while to get back to the free and easy lifestyle that we had. Plus in winter it gets slower the further south you go.

You only catch covid if you get tested..

Covid is only dangerous if you watch the news.

Sexlightened
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You only catch covid if you get tested..

Covid is only dangerous if you watch the news.

And you wonder why you have no vouches and meets after 12 years!!

Sexlightened
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We have been on this site for about 10 years, and at the beginning it was very vibrant and exciting. Lot's of genuine couples, events and interaction. There was a nice sense of a community. We met some lovely people and attended some great parties. But now it seems to just be filled with frustrated single males who don't read profiles properly, forums that seldom have anything interesting to say, and outdated so called matches that have been inactive for a bit too long.

It's pretty much pointless checking. It would be really nice to see thing's improved and to get some energy back. And the fake single men spending way too much time wasting our time, removed.

The owners of this site and the moderators must surely be aware of this?

Regardless thing's need to be fixed a.s.a.p. There are now many more much sophisticated sites around these days.

So let's see what happens...

I think you have conveniently forgotten all the false couple and single female profiles that have proliferated over the last couple of years too. I don't doubt that SOME single males don't act with the right amount of discretion or respect, but the majority on here are just as frustrated by the sites performance as you are. Blaming 'single males' is unfair and not entirely correct.

Warming the Bed
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Correct Ozcock

Warming the Bed
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Yhea , have to agree here , member for well over 12 years now , its really died off , unless your a bloke wanting a bloke LOL, the amount of " So Called Couples" is amazing when only one party , generally the male shows up. There are a lack of ladies , and maybe thats cos they get hounded , and yhea the internationals , spoiled it big time , hope yall listening , feel free to message me ppl if ya wanna say / add something privatley

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Quote by running_wolf couldnt agree more we have been on here 13 years now and have seen it slowly go downhill as well

We have been on this site for about 10 years, and at the beginning it was very vibrant and exciting. Lot's of genuine couples, events and interaction. There was a nice sense of a community. We met some lovely people and attended some great parties. But now it seems to just be filled with frustrated single males who don't read profiles properly, forums that seldom have anything interesting to say, and outdated so called matches that have been inactive for a bit too long.

It's pretty much pointless checking. It would be really nice to see thing's improved and to get some energy back. And the fake single men spending way too much time wasting our time, removed.

The owners of this site and the moderators must surely be aware of this?

Regardless thing's need to be fixed a.s.a.p. There are now many more much sophisticated sites around these days.

So let's see what happens...

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I think over the years and the changes that have been made for the better, have actually made it into a wanna be porn site rather than site for people to chat and meet up. I don’t think there is as many meet and greets as previous and the people that had an interest in setting them up have either moved on or given up. Probably more, the journey for some is over and for the newbies about to commence.

I do remember a total of 60 people in the chat room for the day was a great day, now, no one chats and the banter is slow, the global rooms in the chat have made an impact, but only if you use them, Covid has had an impact everywhere, however if you really want to meet and play, it never stops anyone really.

Is this site dying a slow painful death, probably but in some ways it’s the cycle of life and maybe this site has jumped the shark, but it can be reborn if someone takes charge….

Sexlightened
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Bang on Ozziehard, great analysis and I also like that you haven't blamed anyone, it's just how things have happened.

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I think over the years and the changes that have been made for the better, have actually made it into a wanna be porn site rather than site for people to chat and meet up. I don’t think there is as many meet and greets as previous and the people that had an interest in setting them up have either moved on or given up. Probably more, the journey for some is over and for the newbies about to commence.

I do remember a total of 60 people in the chat room for the day was a great day, now, no one chats and the banter is slow, the global rooms in the chat have made an impact, but only if you use them, Covid has had an impact everywhere, however if you really want to meet and play, it never stops anyone really.

Is this site dying a slow painful death, probably but in some ways it’s the cycle of life and maybe this site has jumped the shark, but it can be reborn if someone takes charge….

Warming the Bed
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could not agree more , i fit the single male part of your comments, but im no fake , and genuinely love a fun time , i dont hide behind anything, but yhea , its getting bad.

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So I suppose the obvious question is, does anyone know of any other sites that they reckon are better?