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Just because I say I'm a Bi male doesn't mean I'm going to j

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Just got off with a guy on the chat room and we did a little cybersexing and it was fun but it was in an attempt to get me to physically come over and play. I like sex as much as anyone else but I'm not going to play with someone I've only just met online. At a party or a sex party is a different thing. You're face with the person or persons going to play with and can have a chat and decide on whether you're (or they're) going to play. This is the second time this has happened in chat, it's not going to stop me using the chatroom but people shouldn't expect people to have sex with them because they've said hello it's insane!
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G'day Mate Agree 100% mate - it's just common sense > and what no doubt, most if not all of us also do too Any contacts whether via this site or elsewhere - even non-sexual contacts made at a pub/club - need to be viewed with caution Always safety first smile Regards, Phil
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Omg do I agree with you on this one! I'm bi-curious/friendly. I'm happy to watch other guys and maybe get a little bit involved but I'm not going to start sucking every guy my partner and I play with!
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yeah your 100% correct, im straight and there's always guys asking me to play..
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With all due respect, partyboi, you do have a particularly gay sounding name there, perhaps you're not aware of the connotation of the word 'boi'??
Try Wikipedia for it:

That *may* be why guys want you to play?
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really garth?! i hadnt even realised that!
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Damn, that gets confusing!
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Quote by Garth44
Try Wikipedia for it:

Damn, that gets confusing!
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With all due respect, partyboi, you do have a particularly gay sounding name there, perhaps you're not aware of the connotation of the word 'boi'??
Try Wikipedia for it:

That *may* be why guys want you to play?

Look at my username. It says 1giantROBOT. It doesn't say roBOI. And now I'm distracted by ajsydney's profile pic so I can't think of any other arguments. In the end I can tell if a guy's angling for a quickie and I'll just law down the law.
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Just got off with a guy on the chat room and we did a little cybersexing and it was fun but it was in an attempt to get me to physically come over and play. I like sex as much as anyone else but I'm not going to play with someone I've only just met online. At a party or a sex party is a different thing. You're face with the person or persons going to play with and can have a chat and decide on whether you're (or they're) going to play.
This is the second time this has happened in chat, it's not going to stop me using the chatroom but people shouldn't expect people to have sex with them because they've said hello it's insane!

If i just had a sexual encounter with someone be it on cam or in person, i'd class it as a little more than "hello" & would not take offence if i was asked to be involved in future action.
Cry baby lol
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Look at my username. It says 1giantROBOT. It doesn't say roBOI. And now I'm distracted by ajsydney's profile pic so I can't think of any other arguments. In the end I can tell if a guy's angling for a quickie and I'll just law down the law.
Yeah AJ stop distracting us with J's pic, it's so not fair!
Warming the Bed
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Yeah AJ stop distracting us with J's pic, it's so not fair!

I was a bit distracted till i read the profile/out of court settlement lol
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I sometimes play online, or just chat, there are heaps of guys who then put it on you to meet straight away even though you make it clear it is not going to happen, then oopps, they just disapear with out any further conversation. Oh, and i wonder what they are going to be like when you meet, arrogant online and in person, i certainly would not want to meet them, it cost nothing to at least say goodbye.