Hi: We clearly state on our profile that we only play together. Consequently those that we play with have to be bi or at least bi-curious. It is very interesting that when we are bombarded by requests in chat for MFM that 'Straight' males suddenly claim to being bisexual. We must have a talent in getting people out of the closet !! Ha! Any others find that they have this ability to convert straight males?
Quote by KT3130" date="31/03/2015 2:57:15 pm We clearly state on our profile that we only play together. Consequently those that we play with have to be bi or at least bi-curious.
Do you mean singles that you play with? Because a straight couple could entertain both of you as long as you are happy to play straight. And your profile does include straight couples in your seeking list. But your profile also says you're interested in gay males (who would only entertain Mr) or gay females (who would only entertain Mrs) - so why not straight males/females? If you're willing to have only one of you getting action with a gay single, why not have only one of you getting action with a straight single?
Quote by KT3130" date="31/03/2015 2:57:15 pm It is very interesting that when we are bombarded by requests in chat for MFM that 'Straight' males suddenly claim to being bisexual.
A couple of reasons for this immediately spring to mind. Lots of bi-curious guys aren't game to list themselves as such because of the stigma still associated with it, especially if their profile gets "found out". It's not a big deal if a single straight guy gets found out on a sex site, but if a guy gets found out and that's how his friends discover he is secretly bi? That's awkward. Secondly, a lot of straight couples won't play with a bi guy because the male of the couple is homophobic and scared the bi guy is going to touch him up. They don't seem to realise that bi guys are perfectly capable of playing straight. We would ask you why you're so hung up on labels? If a guy lists himself as straight but is interested in playing with both of you, what's the drama? Of course you need to make sure he's serious, and not just saying it so he can get into your bedroom and play with Mrs while ignoring Mr. No doubt there are ways you can deal with that - with good communication being a key one. And of course you can tell him straight up that he'll need to suck Mr's cock before getting anywhere near Mrs.
We have the opposite happen, when contacted by bi curious single men or bi curious men in couples, I mention that we are only looking for a straight male, bi curious lady or a couple, each and every time the response has been " I'm not really bi, I just say that to increase my chances of meeting people".
We make no judgement on people's preferences, variety makes the world the interesting place it is, but we do prefer honesty in people that we hope to meet up with.
Quote by HL1" date="01/04/2015 8:33:48 pm each and every time the response has been " I'm not really bi, I just say that to increase my chances of meeting people".
Haha, and there's the long established truth of the matter - many guys will say anything to get into somebody's pants. Out of curiosity, why don't you accept bi guys?
Hi Tempted:
You missed the point - Our frustration is that this an anonymous sex site. Everyone here hides behind a cloak of anonymity so why not be truthful about your needs, wants and desires? We have met two bi guys here that we play with both of whom are open about their sexuality.
Why the subterfuge? As HL states above: Honesty is preferable.
Hi Tempted,
To answer you question
Out of curiosity, why don't you accept bi guys?
There are 3 reasons
1. They may be attracted to me (and I am straight)
2. They may not be attracted to me (and I have a fragile ego)
3. Mrs HL is curious about seeing 2 guys together and I don't want to put myself in a situation where she gives me that look that makes me want to do what ever it takes to please her. I would have to disappoint her and who likes to disappoint the woman in their lives.
:smile::smile::smile:
In all seriousness I'm not totally sure why and I suppose when you make the decision for others to join you, you can't be totally sure of what's in their hearts or heads anyway. So I suppose you could involve a bi/bi curious guy without even knowing it.
I believe bi and bi curious are a totally different animal and quite broad in nature.
I for one consider myself straight but would entertain the idea of sharing the same pussy at the same time with another guy or having the girl give oral on 2 cocks at the same time. Basically the guys junk are in contact with each other.
Some may consider that bi or wanting to do that bi curious.
My profile says straight but I would allow previous mentioned things when female is involved. I wouldn't however do male 1 on 1 acts. Totally different thing to me.
We r both on the same page..we r both bi...but "new" bi converts pop up thinking they're in....we have a rule..any guy who jouns us...must give and get head...before he gets near mrs
Id like to see the whole "bi curious "thing removed and banned,
Unless you are a teenager bi curious seems to mean " i can tolerate you sucking my dick if i can root a vagina".
I see that a lot with males who contact
I have had pleasure of 3 curious guys having their first anal fuck experience with me,bi curious is a strange statement because I don't think it makes u bi once you've fucked a guy,i don't like guys but I enjoy being fucked and fucking them and will let basicly anyone play with my cock and ass in anyway they want yet wouldn't say im bi.
I used to say I was straight until I got tricked into meeting a couple but it was only a guy who wanted to see my cock piercing then touch it then sucked it then next thing I know im fucking a guy,so straight doesn't always mean straight.
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