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Casanova
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Not many people on here are real.


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For us, if we state that we aren't interested in particular types of people, and they message us to try their luck, we don't reply... but we generally do with the people who fall within our preferences.

Possibly something to check is that you're within the category of people that the profiles that you're writing to are after.

Cheers,
A & J

Warming the Bed
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Quote by apeman72
Can anyone enlighten me on why it is so hard for people to reply to messages! 

I had a look at your profile, maybe you should update it with something that might be of interest.

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well apeman maybe it's because you don't have much info on your profile! May I suggest maybe a few lines about yourself and what your after! I try to reply to all my messages just to be polite but I do get inundated with them as I imagine most females do!  I'm not sure what you are saying in your messages but if they're anything like your unimaginative profile then that might be why your not getting any replies!

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Quote by williek
Not many people on here are real.

I have met plenty of people on here and they definitely been real, all the profiles on here are created by real people and not bots.

However there are plenty of non-genuine people, usually fake couples profiles created by desperate single guys trying to get a sniff of pussy or guys who create fake female profiles to collect wank material.

Yes you still have to be sceptical, but there are still real swingers and doggers out there that meet people on weekly basis.




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If someone has single males blocked, they will not see your messages. They won't evenknow you messaged. Profiles without extras can only message a certain amount of people, so they will rtation their replies. If you do not meet their criteria, they won't reply, as they have too many messages and not enough replies available to answer them all. I have received many messages with one line - usually "wanna fuck?" to which my answer would be 'No'. Some messages come across as rude, or flippant, or just not what they are looking for. Check your profile. Do you have information on there? Do you have photos? Are you verified? Having these thing MAY get you a few more responses. I definitely will not reply to someone who sends a one sentence message, who has no information. It just wastes my time.


You are better off heading into a chatroom near you and striking up a conversation, rather than waiting for message replies

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We have the same issue time and time again, single males that obviously are dyslexic or just plain stupid like others in this post. If we get time we will reply to them just informing them that they do have dyslexia problem, but more times than not we do not have time to waste on replying to these males who can't or wont read or think they are super stud and the mrs is going to fall head over heels if she views his profile

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" We have the same issue time and time again, single males that obviously are dyslexic or just plain stupid like others in this post. "

This was meant to read for clarity, like other people with the same problem in this post

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yes there are lots out there with dyslexia on this site! But it's not just males it's also couples wanting to be friends lmaobanghead and I have on my profile that I am interested in straight males lol I am not and will never be into pussy I prefer a hard cock ! 

Orgasminator
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you know, for the first TWO YEARS of my profile, I inserted a sentence that basically said "If you read this sentence, see me in the chatroom ad say "I love bunnies" I will sleep with you, do anything you want, no questions asked". Do you think even one bunny lover showed up? Even when I asked people if they read my whole profile, they said yes, but still didn't read that one sentence

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That's gold Haidee! Didn't you know, looking at your pics is the same thing as reading your profile?!!!

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That is so funny Haidee and not one replied?! Maybe I should try it see what happensflipa