I dont know about anyone else but i always give people privacy and the respect they deserve in any shape or form but in this case i was so embarrassed and so upset at the people at shed 16 some people who called out my name while i was with my partner in a private room also not only call out my name try to open and look over the top of the cubicle if the door is shut fuck off simple as that if open its obviously allowed there are rules and people should respect them.
now who knows if ill be back
Geez that's a bit rough!! People just don't get it and can't act like adults. What did they think was going to happen? You were going to be so happy that you invited them in? I'm suprised management didn't step in. Try not to let it deter you as it could have been an off night and just some once off idiots.
its not just that my partner was very cross i wanted him to see that the place is nice respectful and fun yet now not so much just ruined my chances of going again.
You will just have to chat with him and day that it could have been a once off incident and maybe try it once more and see how you go. Also try emailing management and mention that you would love to attened more but explain what happened last time. People need to understand that not everyone is there to get into mass orgies or have 10 guys trying to cum on them. It's just a shame for you because it seems your new partner is willing to give your lifestyle a go but others a ruining it for you.
No I can imagine, focusing on each other and what you're doing then having some 3rd party yell out your name could throw him off of his game. I've never been to shed 16 but maybe you can sneak past everyone and get into a private room without being spotted?
i had some idiot following me fully clothed all nite only to find him recording me on his phone.. from under the door while i was in a cubicle with someone ... enforce rules for sure
Candy - maybe try Wet On Wellington on their monthly swingers night.
It's mostly couples, great facilities, plenty of privacy if you want it, or plenty of open areas of you don't.
It doesn't matter what venue you go to there is always someone who does not follow the rules.
Single guys - you wonder why us couples don't interact with you in a party situation when us couples or females put up with single guys who don't ask before they touch, or shove you in corridors, or if you say yes they don't respect your wishes to use condoms
Rules at parties are there for a reason. People need to use common sense and courtesy.
Candy - the experience you had last night should not deter you and your partner from enjoying the party scene. Wet on Wellington is definitely better in regards to that there aren't any near as many single guys.
Quote by SexyBBW88 i had some idiot following me fully clothed all nite only to find him recording me on his phone.. from under the door while i was in a cubicle with someone ... enforce rules for sure
Unfortunately some venues have the belief that rules are meant to be broken. We had it out with one in particular some years back and it's also part of the reason we started having our own parties when we did. You can't charge big bucks and not expect bad attitudes from those wanting bang for their buck ( no pun intended ) Some venues see highly charged single males as the bread and butter and will turn a blind eye to some types of unacceptable behavior. Are phones not checked in on arrival??? I've not come across that but if that happened, the venue needs it's ass kicked big time!!!
i went there for months the venue was and is awesome just some dickheads make it not easy some times especially when im trying to show my man that its a nice place with nice people but yea i should check out wet on wellington but its a bit far though thats my thing i live south eastern suburbs kinda annoying but would rather go with someone thats been already show me and my partner around
Hey guys
Matt here
Ok if there are phones seen upstairs can you please let our friendly staff know they are not every where so if there not alerted they can not fix the issue.
We have a code of conduct and its in plain site but if you read it its just common sence
Any other issues please inbox me and im happy to listen to your issues
Matthew
Promo Manager
Melbourne Swingers
2forher this wasnt to discourage people from going this was to tell the people cause most come from this site so that was my rant, the place is awesome has a nice spa just because im well known there and i didnt realise if i bring my partner it wouldnt be nice for him im just embarrassed but please dont let me discourage you
No means No
If you are having trouble with this concept we will gladly explain it to you. If you are having problems with another person, please see a staff member.
• Share Public Spaces Respectfully With Others
Treat others how you would expect to be treated…Demeaning, pushy, forceful and abusive behaviour towards staff or patrons is NOT acceptable.
Sexual activity (with or without a 2nd party) is not permitted on the ground floor or public shared spaces.
• Cleanliness And Vandalism
We go to great lengths to provide a fully functional and clean environment for your enjoyment…
Any form of vandalism to property or un-hygienic acts will not be tolerated…
If you see or smell it happening, report it immediately
• Alcohol
Alcohol, high temperatures and wet areas are extremely dangerous to your health. Drink in moderation!!!
• Smoking
Smoking is not permitted anywhere inside the venue…
The outdoor courtyard, sun deck or prescribed areas are available for this purpose.
• Licensed Premises
Food, drink or alcohol cannot be brought into the venue as dictated by local council and liquor licensing laws…
Failure to follow this simple rule will result in you being asked to leave the building.
• Drugs
Possession, consumption or trafficking of any illegal substances is strictly prohibited…
You wont have to explain yourself to the staff, you will be explaining it to the authorities.
• Safe Sex
Take home a hot GUY/GIRL/CD/TV/TS or a hot memory…Not an STD or STI.
Practice safe sex!!! Prevention… Cure… You know the drill…
Condoms, and water based Lubricant are readily available in every cubicle… USE THEM… Also please ask our friendly staff if Gloves or Dental Dams are needed....
Failure to follow this Code of Conduct will result in you being asked to leave. Failure to leave will result in the removal from the venue under a Police escort.
We are constantly striving to make Melbourne Swingers a memorial and enjoyable experience for all. Whilst our staff are trying to maintain the 'standard', they cannot be at all places at all times.
Please help us by informing staff if you witness any breaches of the code.
Your assistance is greatly appreciated.
Quote by melb_swingers No means No If you are having trouble with this concept we will gladly explain it to you. If you are having problems with another person, please see a staff member. • Share Public Spaces Respectfully With Others Treat others how you would expect to be treated…Demeaning, pushy, forceful and abusive behaviour towards staff or patrons is NOT acceptable. Sexual activity (with or without a 2nd party) is not permitted on the ground floor or public shared spaces. • Cleanliness And Vandalism We go to great lengths to provide a fully functional and clean environment for your enjoyment… Any form of vandalism to property or un-hygienic acts will not be tolerated… If you see or smell it happening, report it immediately • Alcohol Alcohol, high temperatures and wet areas are extremely dangerous to your health. Drink in moderation!!! • Smoking Smoking is not permitted anywhere inside the venue… The outdoor courtyard, sun deck or prescribed areas are available for this purpose. • Licensed Premises Food, drink or alcohol cannot be brought into the venue as dictated by local council and liquor licensing laws… Failure to follow this simple rule will result in you being asked to leave the building. • Drugs Possession, consumption or trafficking of any illegal substances is strictly prohibited… You wont have to explain yourself to the staff, you will be explaining it to the authorities. • Safe Sex Take home a hot GUY/GIRL/CD/TV/TS or a hot memory…Not an STD or STI. Practice safe sex!!! Prevention… Cure… You know the drill… Condoms, and water based Lubricant are readily available in every cubicle… USE THEM… Also please ask our friendly staff if Gloves or Dental Dams are needed.... Failure to follow this Code of Conduct will result in you being asked to leave. Failure to leave will result in the removal from the venue under a Police escort. We are constantly striving to make Melbourne Swingers a memorial and enjoyable experience for all. Whilst our staff are trying to maintain the 'standard', they cannot be at all places at all times. Please help us by informing staff if you witness any breaches of the code. Your assistance is greatly appreciated.
It's all very well to have a sign up with rules etc but people can't get past pictures on here to read a profile, they don't read chat rules so what makes you think they will take the time to read rules upon entry ? I think that would be the last thing they'd be thinking about.
we are currently redoing all policy so yes it includes that
But it also states any issues please bring to staffs attention
How can we fix issues after the patron has left
im still gonna go.. im not going to let idiots stop me from going to shed .. and neither should u candy
i think all should go to the venue before making judgements.. i have a lot of fun there despite the events in this post.
hope to see u there again candy honey
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but yea i should check out wet on wellington but its a bit far though thats my thing i live south eastern suburbs kinda annoying but would rather go with someone thats been already show me and my partner around
