Hi Im Mark.
Im a single 30 yo bi curious male.
For a few years now I have found it near impossible to get the chance to meet Girls or Couples.
I have tried numerous amounts of different site and apps.
The only people that want to meet me are creepy old guys or guys pretending to be girls.
I am a genuine nice guy and I'm always respectful for other people.
But it sometimes seems as if girls just aren't interested in that anymore.
TBH it has been really getting to me for some time now. It gets really tough sometimes when all you want is to meet a girl but no one will give you the time of day.
I have even started thinking that my dream of getting married and having kids is getting less likely.
What can i do? What am i doing wrong?
Unfortunately life is all a numbers game when it comes to meeting people, as long as your putting yourself out there enough you will come by the right person/s sooner or later. Fingers crossed for you
Hi Mark,
I agree it is tough for single men to get the attention we deserve. But nothing comes without efforts. Here are a few tips:
1. Firstly be honest about yourself and tell people more about yourself and your personality. (Trust me, females love it!)
2. I just read your profile. Take time to do a better profiling. Start with telling about yourself, mention what you are looking for and finally put in what you are not looking for (Eg. you may ask old males and gays to keep off if they are annoying you too much)
3. Try contacting possible females or couples with some nice friendly messages. Don't ever go near females or couples who are not looking for single straight males
4. Last but not the least, never give up and keep trying
Remember when the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
Hopefully you will have some success soon mate. Best of luck!
DS
Hi Mark,
I can assure you that you are doing nothing wrong and I wouldn't take it personally. You are not on your own here. The fact is that the majority people on sites like this are very fussy about who they will meet and are generally intolerant of people who are not like them. You would think the opposite to be the case when you read their profile or personal add. It's only when you contact them that they show their true colours.
If you are looking to meet someone for marriage, can I suggest a dating site as opposed to a adult dating site. Good luck and all the best.
can't believe noone has mentioned the chatrooms yet. The chatrooms are great for weeding out the morons and dickheads from the general population. They can't seem to keep it together long enough to chat in public withough putting their foot in their mouth and offending everyone. Go into the chatroom closest to your area and talk to people. Don't hit on them, but start talking. Belive me, the girls will let each other know if they think you are OK.
Make friends, word will spread. I know many who choose their playmates from chat and from the meet and greets. Check the Lets Meet Up forum regularly for metups in your area. They are always no play, just a social get together to check for sparks and to meet people you talk to in the chatroom with no pressure
I guess going into chat rooms requires a person putting there money were there mouth is (so to speak) Is not paying a sign of having to "hide" the payment or a sign of wanting something for nothing, all of which may not be that attractive to potential connections.
Quote by Haidee can't believe noone has mentioned the chatrooms yet. The chatrooms are great for weeding out the morons and dickheads from the general population. They can't seem to keep it together long enough to chat in public withough putting their foot in their mouth and offending everyone. Go into the chatroom closest to your area and talk to people. Don't hit on them, but start talking. Belive me, the girls will let each other know if they think you are OK. Make friends, word will spread. I know many who choose their playmates from chat and from the meet and greets. Check the Lets Meet Up forum regularly for metups in your area. They are always no play, just a social get together to check for sparks and to meet people you talk to in the chatroom with no pressure
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